A Note from James:

This is why I love doing podcasts—talking to people like Dr. Sheena Howard, author of Why Wakanda Matters. Wakanda is the country where Black Panther is from, and Sheena has written extensively about comics, including work on Black Panther itself.

We talk about comics, race, and storytelling. I asked a question I was almost afraid to ask—whether the Black Panther movie was racist against other Black people—and she gave a surprising answer. We also talk about a time she was abducted in Jamaica, along with a lot of other topics.

I loved this conversation. Please listen. 

Episode Description:

James sits down with Dr. Sheena Howard—scholar, comic book writer, and Eisner Award winner—for a conversation that moves between pop culture, publishing, and personal survival.

They use Black Panther as a lens to examine how stories shape identity, how representation evolves, and why cultural narratives are often filtered through systems that weren’t built to support them. Sheena breaks down the tension between nationalism and isolationism in Wakanda, and why audiences interpret the same story in radically different ways.

The conversation also goes deeper—into how gatekeeping works in publishing today, how creators can bypass it, and why building your own audience may be the most reliable path forward.

And then there’s the story she didn’t tell for years: being abducted at 19. What happened, why she stayed silent, and what it reveals about psychology, fear, and resilience.

This episode is about storytelling—but also about control: who has it, who doesn’t, and how to take it back.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why “Black superheroes don’t sell” is a myth—and how the industry perpetuates it anyway
• The real gatekeeping mechanism in publishing today (and why audience ownership matters more than ever)
• How subtle bias shows up now—not in obvious barriers, but in shifting goalposts
• What makes a story resonate across audiences (and why Black Panther worked at scale)
• The psychology of abusive situations—and how awareness and boundaries are built over time

Timestamped Chapters:

• [03:04] A Note from James
• [03:53] Favorite Superheroes: From Captain America to Black Panther
• [04:27] Why Black Panther Connected Culturally
• [04:43] The $1.2B Question: Why So Late for Black Superheroes?
• [05:17] Luke Cage, Netflix, and the “Myth” That Black Stories Don’t Sell
• [05:39] Tyler Perry and the “Outlier” Problem
• [06:23] Pressure on Black-Led Films to Be Perfect
• [07:00] What Wakanda Represents (Uncolonized Possibility)
• [07:53] Killmonger: Anger, Oppression, and Relatability
• [08:23] MLK vs. Malcolm X Parallel in Black Panther
• [09:00] Identity Formation: African vs. African American Perspectives
• [09:47] Are Black Superheroes Designed to “Feel Safe”?
• [10:28] Gentrification, Stereotypes, and Media Influence
• [11:50] Media Isn’t “Just Entertainment”
• [12:00] Early Representation and Cultural Messaging
• [12:28] Who Created Black Panther—and Why That Matters
• [13:07] Rewriting History: What Would She Change?
• [13:49] Designing a Modern Black Superhero
• [14:47] Why a Modern Hero Might Be “Invisible”
• [15:44] Publishing Barriers and Gatekeeping Conversations
• [16:36] Social Media vs. Traditional Publishing Access
• [17:26] Building 163K Followers—and Still Not Enough
• [21:47] The Instagram Post: “I Was Abducted at 19”
• [22:11] How It Started: Cheap Tour, No Money, Bad Decision
• [23:05] The Trap: Locked House and Escalation
• [25:00] Refusal and Survival Strategy
• [26:02] Car Crash and Escape Attempt
• [27:00] Walking Away and Getting Home
• [28:30] Why She Stayed Silent for Years
• [29:20] Abusive Relationships and Self-Blame
• [30:26] Leaving Abuse: The Role of Her Son
• [31:06] Love Bombing and Early Warning Signs
• [33:02] Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships
• [35:45] Teaching Kids Boundaries and Self-Worth
• [37:21] “Is Wakanda Racist?”—The Big Question
• [38:00] Nationalism vs. Racism Explained
• [39:00] Isolationism vs. Imperialism
• [41:00] Why Some Black Superheroes Don’t Break Out
• [43:00] The Loss (and Survival) of Great Storytelling
• [46:14] How She Got Hired by Marvel (Cold Email + PI)
• [48:29] Why Pitching Ideas to Marvel Often Fails
• [50:00] Cold Outreach: Being Seen Before Heard
• [52:00] Do You Need Social Media to Sell Books? (Yes.)
• [55:01] Building an Audience vs. Waiting to Be Discovered
• [56:00] Email Lists: The Real Asset for Writers
• [59:00] Should You Niche Down or Stay Broad?
• [01:09:36] Do Podcasts Actually Sell Books?
• [01:12:00] Why Publishers Don’t Care About You (At First)
• [01:14:18] Choose One: Money, Readers, or Prestige
• [01:15:10] Quantity vs. Quality Writing Models
• [01:23:56] Success Beyond the New York Times List
• [01:24:25] Owning Your IP vs. Writing for Marvel
• [01:26:18] “Survive the Gap” Concept and Film Project
• [01:27:00] Turning Ideas Into Franchises
• [01:28:44] Why Ownership Beats Gatekeeping
• [01:30:34] What’s Next: Hip Hop and Comics

Additional Resources

• Home | Dr. Sheena C. Howard | Creative Entrepreneur
• Why Wakanda Matters by Dr. Sheena Howard
• Black Comics: Politics of Race and Representation by Dr. Sheena Howard
• Nina's Whisper by Dr. Sheena Howard
• Marvel’s Black Panther (film)

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Episode Description

This archival conversation with Jim Kwik moves beyond memory tricks and into something more fundamental: how we think, learn, and make decisions.

Jim breaks down why most people forget nearly everything they read, why repeating the same mistakes isn’t always about logic, and how modern life is quietly degrading attention and memory. He explains how the brain filters information, how habits form, and why focus—not intelligence—is often the real differentiator.

James pushes the conversation into practical territory: decision-making, fear, performance, and building a life around what actually matters. Together, they explore frameworks for improving memory, reducing distraction, and making better choices—along with the deeper idea that learning is the core skill behind everything else.

This episode isn’t just about remembering more. It’s about thinking better.

What You’ll Learn

• Why most people remember only 1–2% of what they read—and how to improve retention
• The difference between reading speed, comprehension, and retention (and why all three matter)
• How the brain acts as a filtering and deletion system, not a storage device
• A practical framework for decision-making using multiple mental perspectives (Six Thinking Hats)
• How digital overload, distraction, and “digital dementia” are weakening focus and memory
• Why habits—not knowledge—drive performance, and how to build them using motivation, ability, and triggers
• The four traits behind high performance: growth, grit, giving, and gratitude

Timestamped Chapters

• [02:00] Introduction to Jim Kwik and memory training
• [02:29] Why people forget what they read
• [03:09] Reading vs comprehension vs retention
• [03:50] The importance of remembering love, life, and lessons
• [04:25] Why people repeat the same mistakes
• [05:05] Emotional memory vs logical memory
• [06:29] Blame vs responsibility in reducing stress
• [07:11] The brain as a filtering and deletion device
• [08:17] Why we remember only 1–2% of books
• [08:24] The Zeigarnik Effect explained
• [10:15] Note-taking: handwriting vs typing
• [11:17] Learning through rewriting and modeling
• [12:18] Decision-making and simplifying life
• [13:40] Maker time vs manager time
• [17:33] Why you shouldn’t check your phone in the morning
• [18:06] Brainwave states: alpha, beta, and focus
• [19:00] Jim Kwik’s high-performance clients
• [20:25] Childhood brain injury and learning challenges
• [21:08] Knowledge as power in the modern economy
• [22:09] Decision-making and outside perspectives
• [23:22] The Six Thinking Hats framework
• [26:46] Decision-making through perspective shifts
• [28:40] Facing fear and building confidence
• [30:33] Digital overload and information fatigue
• [31:17] Social media and comparison psychology
• [33:11] Fear, rejection, and self-worth
• [34:20] Overcoming learning and public speaking fears
• [35:02] “Your mess becomes your message”
• [36:24] Jim Kwik’s turning point and learning journey
• [38:15] Discovering how to learn
• [40:03] Deep immersion vs spaced learning
• [41:34] Speed reading breakthrough moment
• [42:33] Digital overload, distraction, and dementia
• [44:02] Why checking your phone rewires your brain
• [45:17] Outsourcing memory vs training your brain
• [47:00] Busyness vs productivity
• [48:18] Biological decision-making and intuition
• [49:03] Sleep deprivation and performance
• [52:00] Post-traumatic growth vs stress
• [53:00] Learning to say no and focus
• [54:27] Essentialism: “Hell yes or hell no”
• [55:14] Applying the Six Thinking Hats to real decisions
• [58:15] What school fails to teach
• [59:09] Building a career from learning challenges
• [01:01:00] First teaching experience and entrepreneurship
• [01:03:00] Overcoming fear of public speaking
• [01:08:39] Turning knowledge into income
• [01:10:00] The power of learning as a superpower
• [01:11:30] Finding what to learn and why
• [01:12:52] Growth mindset and learning from failure
• [01:13:34] The four Gs: growth, grit, giving, gratitude
• [01:15:12] Building grit through discomfort
• [01:17:19] Why fundamentals matter more than new ideas
• [01:18:22] Habit formation: motivation, ability, trigger
• [01:20:00] Time, priorities, and skill-building
• [01:23:40] Focus vs intelligence
• [01:24:27] Learning through teaching
• [01:25:25] High-performance mindset examples
• [01:27:25] Jim Carrey and freeing people from concern
• [01:29:58] “I don’t get ready, I stay ready”
• [01:32:00] Building daily habits for performance
• [01:33:00] Giving mindset and learning faster
• [01:34:01] Teaching as a tool for mastery
• [01:36:00] Gratitude as a performance tool
• [01:38:00] Health, energy, and peak performance
• [01:41:00] Bringing it all together: love, life, and lessons

Additional Resources

• Jim Kwik — https://www.kwikbrain.com
• Kwik Brain Podcast — https://www.kwikbrain.com/pages/podcast
• Limitless by Jim Kwik — https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401958230podcast
• The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle — https://www.amazon.com/dp/1577314808
• Thinking, Fast and Slow (decision-making reference context) — https://www.amazon.com/dp/0374533555
• How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie — https://www.amazon.com/dp/0671027034
• Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill — https://www.amazon.com/dp/1585424331
• Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz — https://www.amazon.com/dp/0399176136
• Six Thinking Hats by Edward de Bono — https://www.amazon.com/dp/0316178314

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A Note from James:

I talked to Nelson Dellis, who’s a six-time USA Memory Champion and has broken multiple Guinness World Records. His book, Everyday Genius, makes a pretty bold claim—that with some practice and the right techniques, you can dramatically improve how your brain works.

We didn’t just talk about memory. We got into everything: mental math, focus, cold reading, even some techniques that feel almost like magic. And I’ve done a lot of episodes on memory over the years—but Nelson showed me things I hadn’t seen before.

What stood out to me is this idea that “genius” isn’t some fixed trait. It’s a collection of skills you can build. Some of them are surprisingly simple once you understand how your brain actually works.

I’m definitely going to spend more time practicing some of these techniques. There’s a lot here that’s immediately useful—and a lot that could take years to master.

Episode Description:

James sits down with world memory champion Nelson Dellis to break down what memory really is—and how far it can be pushed.

Nelson explains how his grandmother’s battle with Alzheimer’s led him into the world of memory training, eventually becoming one of the best in the world. From memorizing thousands of digits to competing in global competitions, he shows that memory is not a fixed trait—it’s a skill.

The conversation goes beyond memory into focus, reading, learning, and even social intelligence. Nelson shares practical techniques for improving recall, reading faster without losing comprehension, and using visualization to retain more information.

They also explore the edge cases—cold reading, intuition, and even experiments with “remote viewing”—where perception and cognition blur into something that feels almost supernatural.

At its core, this episode is about expanding what you believe your brain is capable of.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why memory is a trainable skill—not something you’re born with
• How visualization and emotional context dramatically improve recall
• The difference between “speed reading” and “focus reading”
• Simple techniques to retain more from books and conversations
• How cold reading works (and why it feels like magic)
• Why reviewing information—not cramming—is key to long-term memory
• The mental habits that create the appearance of “genius”
• How attention and focus are becoming rare—and valuable—skills

Timestamped Chapters:

• 00:02:00 – Nelson’s origin story: Alzheimer’s and the motivation to master memory
• 00:02:16 – Why reading is like living thousands of lives
• 00:03:13 – Introducing Everyday Genius and the promise of trainable intelligence
• 00:04:33 – Memory palace techniques and applying them to real-world skills
• 00:05:13 – Can memory training help prevent Alzheimer’s?
• 00:06:13 – Daily memory training routines and measurable progress
• 00:08:16 – From beginner to USA Memory Champion
• 00:10:00 – Memorizing 10,000 digits of pi: how it actually works
• 00:11:31 – Turning numbers into stories: the core of memory systems
• 00:14:28 – Why emotion and visualization drive memory
• 00:16:00 – Memory competition benchmarks and world-class performance
• 00:18:00 – What “genius” actually means—and how to simulate it
• 00:20:00 – The four pillars: memory, reading, focus, and learning
• 00:23:33 – Speed reading vs. focus reading (and why most people get it wrong)
• 00:25:12 – The finger-tracking technique to instantly read faster
• 00:27:16 – Why you don’t need to read every word
• 00:30:17 – Why cramming fails (and how memory actually forms)
• 00:31:17 – Visualization while reading: turning text into a movie
• 00:34:00 – Active recall, note-taking, and long-term retention systems
• 00:37:16 – Cold reading and social intelligence
• 00:41:00 – Body language cues: attention, interest, and perception
• 00:43:00 – How mentalists create the illusion of mind reading
• 00:46:00 – Psychological “forcing” and influencing choices
• 00:51:00 – Remote viewing experiments and cognitive edge cases

Additional Resources

• Everyday Genius: Hacks to Boost Your Memory, Focus, Problem Solving and Much More

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A Note from James:

I’ve been in therapy for more than three decades.

Different therapists. Different kinds of therapy. Different crises.

And one question has always fascinated me: What is the therapist actually thinking while I’m sitting there talking?

Are they bored? Are they judging me? Are they secretly Googling me?

My guest today, Lori Gottlieb, knows the answer—because she’s both sides of the story.

She’s a psychotherapist, author of the bestselling book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, and the writer behind the popular advice column “Ask the Therapist.”

But what makes Lori unique is that she’s willing to pull back the curtain on therapy itself: what therapists think, what patients hide, and why people keep repeating the same patterns in relationships and life.

This episode originally aired several years ago, but the ideas still feel incredibly relevant—especially now, when conversations about mental health are everywhere.

So if you’ve ever wondered what’s really happening on the other side of the therapy couch, this conversation is for you.

Episode Description:

Psychotherapist and bestselling author Lori Gottlieb joins James to discuss what really happens inside therapy—and what both therapists and patients often misunderstand about the process.

Drawing from her book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, Lori explains why therapy isn’t just about venting problems but about understanding the patterns that drive them.

James shares his own experiences as a long-time therapy patient, raising questions many people quietly wonder: Do therapists judge their patients? Do they get bored? Do they Google the people they treat?

Lori answers candidly, discussing the hidden dynamics of therapy, the emotional complexity therapists carry home with them, and why the most important conversations in therapy are often the ones people hesitate to bring up.

The conversation also explores relationships, secrets, childhood experiences, and why many people keep repeating the same life patterns—even when they know better.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why therapy isn’t just about discussing problems—it’s about understanding patterns
• The difference between content and process in relationships
• Why therapists rarely get bored—even when problems seem trivial
• The surprising ways therapists think about their patients
• Why the hardest topics in therapy often show up at the end of a session

Timestamped Chapters:

• [00:02:00] Lori Gottlieb on Therapy as “Editing Your Life Story”
• [00:03:00] Introduction to Lori Gottlieb
• [00:04:16] Inside the Book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
• [00:05:02] Why Therapists Need Therapists
• [00:06:17] Are Therapists Bored Listening to Problems?
• [00:07:00] Content vs Process: The Real Work of Therapy
• [00:09:00] Why Pain Has No Hierarchy
• [00:10:23] James’s “Statistician” Theory of Therapy
• [00:11:00] Why Every Patient’s Story Is Unique
• [00:12:00] Finding Something Likable in Every Patient
• [00:12:45] The Hollywood Producer Patient
• [00:15:12] The Most “Boring” Therapy Patients
• [00:16:03] Labeling What’s Happening in a Conversation
• [00:18:00] Building Trust Without Oversharing
• [00:20:00] Judgment vs Protectiveness in Therapy
• [00:23:04] What Therapists Wish Patients Knew
• [00:24:11] Do Therapists Care What Patients Think of Them?
• [00:25:00] Different Styles of Therapy
• [00:29:00] Advice vs Understanding in Therapy
• [00:32:51] Do Therapists Ever Google Their Patients?
• [00:36:00] Why Patients Googling Therapists Can Backfire
• [00:38:00] The Awkward Beginning of Every Therapy Session
• [00:41:00] Working With a Patient Facing Terminal Cancer
• [00:44:00] The Emotional Impact of Therapy Work
• [00:46:00] Handling Suicidal Patients
• [00:47:30] When Therapy Ends
• [00:50:00] Why Saying Goodbye Matters in Therapy
• [00:53:00] “Doorknob Disclosures” — The Secrets Patients Reveal Last

Links and Resources:

• Check out Lori’s website and sign up for her newsletter at Lorigottlieb.com
• Ask the Therapist is the column Lori writes for the New York Times. You can submit a question for Lori here
• Read Lori’s book, “Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed.”
• Also check out Lori’s book from 2011, “Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough” (This book is not about settling! She says “I didn’t win the title battle with the publisher. And I still get letters from people who say the book has helped them.” A lot of it has to do with saving your marriage or setting standards. And she wrote a column about this once, too.)
• “Dear Therapist” is the column Lori wrote for six years for “The Atlantic.”
• Follow Lori on Twitter and Facebook

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A Note from James:

In the Blondie song “Rapture,” which was the number-one song in 1981, Debbie Harry has this famous line: “Fab Five Freddy told me everybody’s fly.”

So the question is—who is Fab Five Freddy?

This guy is one of the central figures in the birth of hip-hop culture. Not just rap music, but the whole ecosystem: graffiti, breakdancing, fashion, DJ culture, art, film—everything that eventually turned into a massive global industry.

Hip-hop today represents hundreds of billions of dollars in music, fashion, and entertainment. But in the late ’70s and early ’80s it was just a small creative movement happening in New York.

Fab 5 Freddy helped connect all those worlds. He bridged graffiti artists, musicians, downtown art scenes, and eventually MTV.

He also just wrote a book called Everybody’s Fly, and it was a huge honor for me to talk with him about the origins of hip-hop and how creativity actually grows.

Episode Description:

Before hip-hop became a global industry, it was a loose network of DJs, graffiti artists, dancers, and musicians creating something entirely new in New York City.

Fab 5 Freddy was at the center of it.

In this conversation, he explains how hip-hop emerged from a mix of street culture, art scenes, punk music, and experimentation with records and sound. He discusses the origins of graffiti tagging, the rise of DJs like Grandmaster Flash, and the cultural moment when Blondie’s “Rapture” helped bring hip-hop into mainstream awareness.

Freddy also shares how the first hip-hop film, Wild Style, helped unify the culture’s elements—music, dance, graffiti, and fashion—and introduce them to a wider audience.

The conversation then turns to the modern era: AI-generated music, the attention economy of social media, and why artists today may need to slow down and develop their work before exposing it to the world.

What You’ll Learn:

• How hip-hop emerged from a mix of music, graffiti, dance, and street culture
• Why early DJs searched old records for breakbeats to create new sounds
• How the film Wild Style helped define hip-hop culture for the world
• Why artists today may need to resist posting unfinished work online
• How creativity evolves when technology disrupts the music industry

Timestamped Chapters

• [00:02:00] The Story Behind the Title Everybody’s Fly
• [00:03:01] A Note from James
• [00:04:15] Meeting Biz Markie and the Culture of Collecting Hip-Hop History
• [00:05:35] How Jazz, Blues, and Soul Influenced Early Hip-Hop
• [00:06:22] DJs Digging Through Records to Find Breakbeats
• [00:07:40] Grandmaster Flash and the Science of DJing
• [00:08:41] Why Producers Became Central to Hip-Hop Music
• [00:09:54] Blondie’s “Rapture” and Hip-Hop’s Mainstream Breakthrough
• [00:11:00] The Downtown Art Scene: Basquiat, Keith Haring, and Andy Warhol
• [00:12:24] The Origins of Graffiti and Tagging Culture
• [00:13:48] Graffiti as Competition and Artistic Evolution
• [00:15:12] Punk Rock and Hip-Hop: Parallel Cultural Revolutions
• [00:17:47] The Idea for the First Hip-Hop Film Wild Style
• [00:19:02] Bringing Breakdancing, Graffiti, and Rap Together on Film
• [00:21:50] Lessons Modern Artists Can Learn from Early Hip-Hop
• [00:22:49] Why Posting Creative Work Too Early Can Hurt It
• [00:24:00] Social Media, Attention, and the Speed of Culture
• [00:26:00] Hip-Hop’s Global Influence
• [00:29:00] The Birth of Conscious Rap
• [00:31:12] Directing KRS-One’s “My Philosophy” Video
• [00:33:00] Finding Great Hip-Hop in the Streaming Era
• [00:36:00] Battle Rap and Lyrical Skill
• [00:37:00] Artists Who Still Push the Genre Forward
• [00:40:11] How Rappers Make Money Today
• [00:43:00] What Makes an Artist Stand the Test of Time
• [00:47:00] Sampling, Technology, and the Evolution of Music Production
• [00:54:00] AI Music and the Future of Creativity
• [01:02:00] What “Everybody’s Fly” Really Means

Additional Resources:

• Fab 5 Freddy
• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fab_Five_Freddy
• Rapture
• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rapture_(Blondie_song)
• Wild Style
• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wild_Style
• Grandmaster Flash
• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grandmaster_Flash
• KRS-One
• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/KRS-One
• Debbie Harry
• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Debbie_Harry

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A Note from James:

Tony Hawk is one of the greatest athletes of all time—but what fascinates me most isn’t just the tricks.

It’s the mindset.

Tony didn’t just become the best skateboarder in the world. He built an entire ecosystem around what he loved: competitions, companies, tours, sponsorships, and one of the most successful video game franchises ever created.

What’s interesting is that none of it was planned that way. It came from constant experimentation, falling—literally—and getting back up again.

In this episode, Tony talks about the path to excellence, how he handled criticism and failure, the moment he finally landed the legendary 900 trick, and how skateboarding evolved from an underground subculture into a global industry.

Episode Description:

Tony Hawk didn’t just change skateboarding—he helped transform it into a global cultural phenomenon.

In this archival conversation, Tony shares the real story behind his career: learning to master fear, surviving the ups and downs of a niche sport, and eventually building a massive business empire around skateboarding.

He explains how passion drove him through the lean years when skateboarding almost disappeared, why constant experimentation helped him stay at the top, and how a combination of timing, risk-taking, and creative control led to the success of the Tony Hawk’s Pro Skater video game franchise.

The conversation also explores the legendary moment when he landed the first successful 900, the importance of protecting your brand, and why mastery often comes from relentless curiosity rather than natural talent.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why pursuing passion—even during downturns—can create long-term success
• How failure and repetition build elite skill in any discipline
• Why protecting your brand and intellectual control matters in business
• How the 900 trick became one of the most iconic moments in sports history
• Why continuous learning and experimentation are essential for staying relevant

Timestamped Chapters:

• [00:02:00] The Physics of Skateboarding & Learning Through Failure
• [00:03:12] Introduction
• [00:03:38] Developing Air Awareness in Skateboarding
• [00:04:10] The First Time Going Airborne in a Pool
• [00:05:05] Learning How to Fall Safely
• [00:06:19] Aging, Risk & Walking Away from Mega Ramps
• [00:07:17] Skateboarding’s Rebellious Origins
• [00:08:00] Creativity and Individual Style in Skate Culture
• [00:09:00] Advice for Pursuing Excellence
• [00:10:00] Learning Every Aspect of an Industry
• [00:11:35] Skateboarding’s Collapse in the Early ’90s
• [00:12:33] Becoming a Professional Skater
• [00:14:02] Mentorship from Stacy Peralta
• [00:15:13] Going Broke During Skateboarding’s Down Years
• [00:16:29] Skating Parking Lot Shows for $100 a Day
• [00:17:31] The X Games and Skateboarding’s Comeback
• [00:18:45] The Video Game That Changed Everything
• [00:19:31] When Tony Hawk’s Pro Skater Became “The Game”
• [00:20:24] Lessons from Skateboarding Applied to Business
• [00:21:17] A Failed High-End Denim Business
• [00:22:43] Being Called a Sellout
• [00:24:00] Protecting Your Brand and Reputation
• [00:25:13] Creating Tony Hawk’s Pro Skater
• [00:26:20] Designing the Game Mechanics
• [00:27:20] The Long Road to the 900
• [00:29:35] Landing the 900 at the X Games
• [00:31:08] Becoming Tony Hawk Inc.
• [00:32:21] The Importance of Total Immersion
• [00:33:29] Designing the Downward Spiral Ramp
• [00:35:24] Advice for Raising a Passionate Kid
• [00:38:12] Business Advice from Tony Hawk’s Sister
• [00:40:29] Working with Family
• [00:43:04] Why Some Athletes Fade After Success
• [00:44:28] Clearing Up the 900 Controversy
• [00:48:00] The Hoverboard Prank

Additional Resources:

• Official Tony Hawk
• Tony Hawk's™ Pro Skater™ 3 + 4
• Bones Brigade: An Autobiography
• Riley Hawk on Instagram

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A Note from James:

In the last episode, we talked about whether Martin Shkreli really deserves the label “most hated man in America.” My conclusion was no, and I hope you came to the same conclusion after hearing his perspective.

In this episode, we shift gears completely. We talk about Bitcoin, crypto, AI, energy, optical computing, and what the future of technology might actually look like.

Martin has a very unusual combination of skills—finance, biotech, programming—and I always enjoy hearing how he connects ideas across different fields. That’s what this conversation is about.

Episode Description:

What happens when AI demand collides with the limits of computing power and energy?

In Part 2, Martin Shkreli and James explore the future of technology—from crypto vulnerabilities to optical computing, GPU scaling, and the potential energy crisis driven by artificial intelligence.

They discuss whether Bitcoin can survive quantum computing, why stablecoins solve real-world financial problems, and how computing architecture may shift beyond traditional silicon chips. The conversation then moves into AI economics: why companies might spend billions on compute to make better decisions, how energy constraints could shape innovation, and why optical computing could become the next major breakthrough.

This episode isn’t about controversy—it’s about technological leverage, incentives, and where computation is heading next.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why quantum computing could eventually threaten Bitcoin’s encryption
• The real-world advantages of stablecoins and decentralized payments
• How AI demand could create massive new energy constraints
• Why optical (photonic) computing may outperform traditional silicon chips
• How businesses might use large-scale AI compute for strategic decisions

Timestamped Chapters:

• [00:02:00] Bitcoin, Encryption & Quantum Computing Risks
• [00:03:02] A Note from James
• [00:03:34] Crypto Markets: Speculation vs. Utility
• [00:05:23] Banking Control, Debanking & Stablecoins
• [00:07:40] Moore’s Law, Huang’s Law & The Limits of Silicon
• [00:08:45] Optical Computing Explained
• [00:09:12] NVIDIA, Parallelization & Power Consumption
• [00:10:24] Energy Constraints & The Electrical Grid
• [00:11:41] AI Energy Demand vs. Countries
• [00:12:24] Corporate AI Decision-Making at Scale
• [00:13:37] The Coming Explosion of AI Compute
• [00:14:20] Energy Efficiency vs. Speed
• [00:15:17] GPU Efficiency Improvements & Jevons Paradox
• [00:17:00] Why AI Is Different from Traditional Computing
• [00:17:47] Optical vs. Quantum vs. DNA Computing
• [00:18:19] Why Optical Computing Fits AI Perfectly
• [00:19:28] Precision, Bits & Neural Networks
• [00:21:24] Error Tolerance in AI Systems
• [00:22:00] Fiber Optics & Existing Infrastructure
• [00:23:16] New Computing Paradigms Beyond Silicon
• [00:24:00] Matrix Multiplication & AI Workloads
• [00:24:53] Closing Thoughts

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A Note from James:

Is he the most hated man in America? I don’t think so.

Martin Shkreli was notorious for various reasons that you’ll hear about in this episode—there are some crazy stories—but I’ve come to know Martin over the past few months as both a friend and business partner.

Let’s just hear his stories and explanations. I think you’ll agree with me that this is one of the smartest people I’ve ever had on the podcast.

Episode Description:

Martin Shkreli became one of the most controversial figures in business history—labeled “the most hated man in America,” prosecuted, imprisoned, and publicly vilified.

In this conversation, he tells his side of the story.

Part 1 focuses on how media narratives form, why conviction and risk-taking matter in entrepreneurship, and the deeper mechanics behind the pharmaceutical controversy that made him famous. He explains the economics of drug pricing, insurance systems, neglected medications, and why public perception diverged so dramatically from what patients actually experienced.

The episode also explores learning across disciplines, intellectual courage, prosecutors’ incentives, and how public scandals evolve into legal consequences.

Whether you agree with him or not, the discussion raises uncomfortable questions about business, regulation, media, and reputation.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why media narratives can shape public opinion more than facts
• The real economics behind pharmaceutical pricing and insurance coverage
• How entrepreneurs learn complex industries without formal training
• Why conviction and risk tolerance are essential in investing and business
• How incentives within legal and political systems influence outcomes

Timestamped Chapters:

• [00:02:00] “Most Hated Man in America” — Media Narratives & Reputation
• [00:03:11] A Note from James
• [00:03:45] Humor vs. Backlash: Handling Public Criticism
• [00:06:39] Conviction, Investing & Standing Your Ground
• [00:09:00] Optimism, Forgiveness & Business Relationships
• [00:12:08] The Pharma Controversy Begins
• [00:14:52] From Hedge Funds to Biotech CEO
• [00:17:40] Learning New Industries from Scratch
• [00:19:00] Staying Curious & Avoiding Fear of Complexity
• [00:21:00] Borrowing Knowledge Across Domains
• [00:23:06] How People Actually Learn Complex Skills
• [00:29:00] Entrepreneurship, Ego & Motivation
• [00:31:20] The Daraprim Pricing Decision Explained
• [00:34:00] Neglected Drugs & Pharma Economics
• [00:37:00] Profit Motive vs. Public Good
• [00:41:13] Why He Became the Target
• [00:45:00] Prosecutors, Incentives & Legal Strategy
• [00:47:00] Hedge Funds, Technical Violations & Trials
• [00:50:00] High-Profile Cases & Selective Enforcement
• [00:53:00] Media Attention & Personal Decisions

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A Note from James:

In the first two episodes with Dr. Nicole McNichols, we talked about chemistry, communication, anatomy, and the science of pleasure. This final episode is really about something deeper—how relationships evolve over time and what actually keeps desire alive.

Because the truth is, long-term relationships don’t stay exciting automatically. They require intention. They require curiosity. And sometimes the issue isn’t your partner at all—it’s that you’ve stopped doing things that light you up in your own life.

We also talk about novelty, sex toys, aging, hormones, communication, and why pleasure itself is not optional for wellbeing—it’s essential.

This conversation tied everything together for me.

Episode Description:

How do couples keep desire alive years—or decades—into a relationship?

In the final part of this series, Dr. Nicole McNichols explains why long-term passion isn’t about constant novelty or dramatic reinvention. It’s about intentional connection, personal growth, communication, and maintaining a sense of play.

They discuss the “seven-year itch,” why boredom often comes from losing personal passion rather than losing attraction, and how seeing your partner energized by their own interests can reignite desire. The conversation also explores sex toys as collaborative tools, the health benefits of sexual activity, aging and sexuality, hormone therapy, and practical ways to communicate about sex without embarrassment.

The episode closes with a powerful reminder: pleasure is not a luxury—it’s a core component of wellbeing.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why boredom in relationships is often about your own life—not your partner
• How pursuing individual passions can increase attraction in long-term couples
• Why sex toys enhance connection rather than threaten it
• The physical and psychological health benefits of sexual activity
• How curiosity, humor, and vulnerability improve sexual communication

Timestamped Chapters:

• [00:02:00] Pleasure, Playfulness & Why Attraction Fades
• [00:03:28] The Seven-Year Itch & Long-Term Desire
• [00:04:00] Intention, Communication & Intimacy Dates
• [00:04:45] When Boredom Is About Your Own Life
• [00:05:25] Personal Passion & Seeing Your Partner Differently
• [00:06:11] The Best Sex of Your Life After Kids
• [00:08:16] Novelty Without Threatening the Relationship
• [00:09:24] Erotic Identity & Emotional Needs
• [00:11:00] Frequency of Novelty & Sexual Compatibility
• [00:11:21] Men Feeling Threatened by Novelty
• [00:11:42] Sex Toys as Collaborative Tools
• [00:13:26] The Pleasure Cycle: Wanting, Liking, Learning
• [00:14:12] Sex, Stress Reduction & Sleep
• [00:15:23] Health Benefits of Sex
• [00:16:08] Pleasure as Essential Wellbeing
• [00:19:00] Is Sex the Most Enjoyable Activity?
• [00:20:00] Presence, Mindfulness & Happiness Research
• [00:21:39] Sex and Meditation
• [00:22:00] Sex in Your 80s & Aging
• [00:23:22] Loneliness, Health & Sexual Function
• [00:24:25] Erectile Dysfunction & Physical Health
• [00:25:00] Menopause, Hormones & Sexual Pain
• [00:26:23] Hormone Therapy & Medical Guidance
• [00:27:35] Communication as the Core Skill
• [00:28:35] Leading With Curiosity
• [00:29:56] Humor, Playfulness & Awkward Conversations
• [00:31:08] Closing Thoughts

Additional Resources:

• You Could Be Having Better Sex
• Nicole McNichols
• Daniel Gilbert — Happiness research referenced

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A Note from James:

In the first episode with Dr. Nicole McNichols, we talked about chemistry, myths, and why communication matters more than performance. This episode goes deeper—into biology, anatomy, dopamine, desire, and the mechanics of pleasure.

There are a lot of myths around sex. Some are cultural. Some are Hollywood. Some come from bad science. And some just come from silence.

This conversation gets specific. We talk about orgasm, desire, scheduling sex, the so-called “missionary problem,” novelty in long-term relationships, and why so much of what we assume about men and women sexually just isn’t true.

If Part 1 was about mindset, Part 2 is about understanding how sex actually works.

Episode Description:

What actually happens in the body during orgasm? Why does anticipation sometimes feel better than the act itself? And why are so many of our beliefs about sex simply wrong?

In Part 2 of this three-part series, Dr. Nicole McNichols breaks down the biology of desire, the science of orgasm, and the myths that quietly sabotage long-term relationships.

She explains why dopamine peaks during anticipation, why consistency—not intensity—is often key to orgasm, and why “missionary” might be underrated. They explore the anatomy of the clitoris (including research only fully mapped in 2006), the orgasm gap, responsive vs. spontaneous desire, and why scheduling intimacy can actually increase desire.

This episode reframes sex not as performance, but as collaboration—an evolving, communicative process rooted in curiosity and growth.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why dopamine spikes during anticipation—and how to avoid the post-expectation letdown
• The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire (for both men and women)
• Why consistency is physiologically critical during orgasm
• The science behind the orgasm gap and what actually closes it
• Why scheduling intimacy can increase frequency and desire—not kill spontaneity

Timestamped Chapters:

• [00:02:00] No One Craves Bad Sex & The Myth of “Boring” Positions
• [00:03:18] Previously on Part 1: Porn Myths & Feeling Wanted
• [00:04:00] Chemistry, Pheromones & The Role of Safety
• [00:06:00] Sexual Growth Mindset & Compatibility
• [00:08:00] Fireworks vs. Communication
• [00:10:00] Anatomy, Diversity of Touch & The Clitoris Explained
• [00:12:00] Scripts, Feedback & How to Talk During Sex
• [00:17:00] Novelty, Micro-Novelty & Preventing Boredom
• [00:19:00] Wanting, Liking & Learning: The Pleasure Cycle
• [00:23:00] Expanding the Definition of Sex
• [00:25:00] The “Sex Recession” & Frequency Myths
• [00:27:00] Planning Intimacy & Scheduling Sex
• [00:31:00] Why Missionary Deserves a Rebrand
• [00:34:00] Internal Anatomy, the Clitoral Complex & Size Myths
• [00:39:00] What Is an Orgasm, Physiologically?
• [00:45:00] The Orgasm Gap & Why Fingering Matters
• [00:47:00] Consistency vs. “Faster & Harder”
• [00:49:00] Masturbation Myths & No Nut November
• [00:51:00] Refractory Period & Aging
• [00:55:00] Multiple Orgasms & What Research Shows
• [01:00:00] Love, Orientation & Novelty in Long-Term Relationships

Additional Resources:

• You Could Be Having Better Sex
• Nicole McNichols
• Helen O'Connell – Research mapping full clitoral anatomy (MRI studies)
• Beverly Whipple – Orgasm research & physiological studies
• A Moveable Feast – Referenced during discussion

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