On today’s show, I’m diving into what happens when outside voices—sometimes even from within the BDSM community—start influencing our personal choices in kink. This episode unpacks how pressures and opinions can quietly shift our boundaries or make us doubt our preferences. I’ll talk about reclaiming agency, staying true to what genuinely fulfills us, and how to shut out the noise while prioritizing respect and consent. It’s all about finding freedom and authenticity in your own kink experience.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Kink #KinkShaming

On this episode, I discuss the complexities of supporting couples through divorce and the importance of establishing rules for disengagement across different relationship dynamics. We’ll explore the emotional roller coaster that comes with transitions, how to offer meaningful support to those navigating change, and practical tips for setting healthy boundaries. Whether you're in the BDSM community or simply interested in relationship dynamics, this episode offers insights that can help us all embrace the process of letting go and moving forward.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Relationships #Ending #Divorce #Disengagement

On this episode, I discuss burnout in the BDSM lifestyle—how to recognize the signs, why it happens, and practical steps to handle it. Whether you're feeling disconnected from your scenes or just overwhelmed, I've got insights to help you navigate these challenges and rekindle your passion. Join me as we explore how to take care of yourself and maintain a healthy relationship with your kink.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Burnout

In this episode, I dive into the connection between emotional processing and power exchange in BDSM. I'll break down how understanding our emotions can help strengthen trust, communication, and connection in kink. Plus, I share some practical tips for building emotional awareness so both partners can better navigate their desires and boundaries. Whether you're new to BDSM or have been in the lifestyle for a while, this episode offers insights to deepen your dynamic.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Emotional #Processing

On this episode, I discuss the complex interplay between BDSM and sexual shame. We explore how societal norms can create barriers to embracing one’s sexuality, the impact of guilt and stigma, and the importance of open dialogue in the BDSM community. Through insights and observations, I highlight strategies to navigate these challenges and encourage listeners to foster a more accepting perspective towards their desires and identities. Join the conversation as we work to dismantle misconceptions and promote a healthier understanding of kink.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Shame #Sexuality-

On this episode I chat with the one and only Honeybeeeee. We cover everything from her life and family to her personal pursuits and her unique take on BDSM. With plenty of laughter, insight, and real talk, Honeybeeeee opens up about her experiences and what the lifestyle means to her. It's a laid-back, genuine conversation that touches on the highs and lows of her journey. Relax, tune in, and enjoy the ride!

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#BDSM #Psychology #Life #BDSM #MidLife

On today's show, I am discussing the complexities for a new couple entering polyamory, from the initial excitement to the real-life challenges that come with navigating multiple relationships. I’ll explore the importance of communication, setting boundaries, managing emotions, and offer tips for those considering or currently exploring polyamorous dynamics.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Polyamory #Couples #Relationships

On today’s show, I dive into the complex issue of emotional unavailability, a challenge that can affect both vanilla and lifestyle relationships. Discover how to recognize the signs of emotional unavailability, whether in yourself or a partner, and explore practical steps for improving emotional connection. From self-awareness and open communication to personal growth and resilience, this episode offers valuable insights for fostering deeper, more meaningful relationships.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Emotional #Unavailability

On this episode I discuss into the complex dynamics of controlling relationships and the isolating tactics used by partners to undermine your autonomy. I explore how seemingly caring behaviors can mask deeper issues of control rooted in insecurity and past experiences. Learn to recognize the signs of coercive control and isolation, and understand the profound impact these behaviors can have on your mental and emotional well-being. I also discuss practical steps for addressing control, including setting boundaries, developing safety plans, and reaching out for support.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Isolation

On this episode, I discuss the critical role of personal responsibility within kink dynamics. I explore why it's essential to take ownership of our actions and how failing to do so can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and hindered personal growth. Drawing from psychological insights, I examine the tendency to blame others and the impact this has on our relationships and self-awareness. Join me as I break down the importance of personal responsibility in creating healthier, more fulfilling kink experiences.

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I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!

#BDSM #Psychology #PersonalResponsibility