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Summary:

In this episode, Katheline interviews Feminist and Social Psychologist Dr. Sara Chadwick. Dr. Chadwick emphasizes that the cornerstone of fulfilling partnerships across all identities is prioritizing sexual communication and creating feelings of sexual safety. This involves not just expressing your own desires but cultivating the vulnerable openness to hear your partner's needs and negotiate compromises when those needs differ.

Central to this safety is addressing the fundamental question many women silently wonder: "If we stopped having sex, would you still love me?" Removing the sense of sexual obligation allows authentic connection to flourish. When communication becomes challenging, seeing a therapist can help navigate these conversations toward compromises that demonstrate mutual investment in each other's security. As relationships evolve alongside careers and family responsibilities, maintaining this intentional communication becomes essential yet easily overlooked in busy lives.

Chapters

00:00 Background and Introduction to Dr. Sarah Chadwick 06:35 Finding Purpose in Studying Sexuality 15:12 The Complexity of Orgasms and Pleasure 17:12 Communication and Sexual Relationships 19:26 Challenges in Discussing Sexual Problems 20:43 Creating a Safe Space for Open Conversations 20:54 Improving Communication in Couples' Sex Life 22:05 The Impact of Heteronormativity on Women's Desire 26:46 Unpacking the Factors Affecting Women's Desire 31:53 Expanding the Definition of Sexuality 40:26 Career Tips for Making a Positive Impact 46:41 Building Bridges: Calling In Instead of Calling Out 47:46 The End