Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

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  • D E Foster: The Hidden Reality of Benzodiazepine Withdrawal and Long-Term Healing

    What happens when a medication prescribed to help you becomes the beginning of a life-changing health battle? In this powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with D E Foster to uncover the hidden realities of benzodiazepine withdrawal, chronic anxiety, and living with Benzodiazepine-Induced Neurological Dysfunction (BIND). From 12 years on Klonopin to becoming a voice for patients navigating withdrawal, D shares a story of resilience, medical advocacy, and learning that healing doesn't always follow a straight line.

    Awards & Downloads
    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.
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    Mental Health Quote
    “Kindness to ourselves, take care of yourself, be good to yourself, treat yourself well, and equal kindness to others.” — D E Foster
    Content Notice & Mental Health Crisis Resources
    Content Notice: This episode includes discussions of benzodiazepine dependence, prolonged withdrawal symptoms, chronic anxiety, medical trauma, loss of independence, and suicide. Please take care of yourself as you listen.

    D shares the heartbreaking loss of two close friends to suicide while discussing the emotional and physical challenges some people experience during prolonged benzodiazepine withdrawal.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:

    https://988lifeline.org/

    For crisis resources outside the United States:

    https://findahelpline.com/

    Important Medication Safety Reminder: Benzodiazepine withdrawal can be medically dangerous, particularly when medication is stopped abruptly. Do not stop or change a prescribed medication without working with a qualified healthcare professional. This episode shares lived experiences and educational information, not individualized medical advice.

    Episode Description
    Imagine taking a prescribed medication for 12 years, trusting that it's helping you, only to discover that coming off it could change your life in ways you never expected.

    That's exactly what happened to D E Foster.

    In this eye-opening conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome D, an author, podcaster, medical researcher, and patient advocate who has dedicated more than a decade to helping people understand benzodiazepine dependence and withdrawal.

    Originally prescribed Klonopin for chronic stomach distress, D spent 12 years taking the medication without being warned about the potential complications of long-term use. When he eventually learned about those risks, he began an 18-month taper. His final dose was August 20, 2014, but his journey was far from over.

    D opens up about living with Benzodiazepine-Induced Neurological Dysfunction (BIND), including cognitive challenges, physical symptoms, and the emotional toll of losing his career and independence. He also explains the critical difference between physical dependence and addiction, why individualized medical guidance matters, and how his lived experience helped shape benzodiazepine research and clinical guidelines.

    But this conversation isn't just about medication.

    It's about what happens when life doesn't return to normal, and you have to figure out what normal looks like now.

    From meditation and mindfulness to his wife's unwavering support, D shares the coping tools, relationships, and sense of purpose that have helped him navigate his toughest moments.

    He also gets real about people-pleasing, setting boundaries, and stepping away from advocacy work to protect his own well-being.

    Because sometimes the strongest thing you can do isn't push harder. It's recognizing when you need to take care of yourself.

    Keywords: D E Foster, benzodiazepine withdrawal, Klonopin withdrawal, benzodiazepine dependence, BIND, Benzodiazepine-Induced Neurological Dysfunction, protracted withdrawal, chronic anxiety, benzodiazepine tapering, anxiety medication, mental health advocacy, medication withdrawal support, long-term healing, mindfulness for anxiety, self-compassion

    Meet Our Guest — D E Foster
    D E Foster is an author, podcaster, medical researcher, and mental health advocate specializing in chronic anxiety, benzodiazepine dependence, and the complications of long-term withdrawal. After his own difficult experience discontinuing Klonopin, he wrote Benzo Free: The World of Anti-Anxiety Drugs and the Reality of Withdrawal, created the Benzo Free Podcast, and helped advance research identifying Benzodiazepine-Induced Neurological Dysfunction (BIND).

    As co-founder and co-chair of the Benzodiazepine Action Work Group, D has contributed to medical education, peer-support training, and research initiatives, including helping develop the American Society of Addiction Medicine's 2025 benzodiazepine tapering guidelines. He also founded Uneven Life, a community organization that supports people affected by BIND, and continues sharing his knowledge while prioritizing his own health.

    Connect with D E Foster:

    • Website: https://unevenLife.com
    • X: https://x.com/theunevenlife
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theUnevenLife/
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/defoster88/
    • YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theunevenlife
    • Key Takeaways
      • Physical dependence and addiction aren't the same thing. D explains how people taking benzodiazepines exactly as prescribed can develop physical dependence without the behaviors associated with addiction, and why understanding that difference matters for compassionate care.
      • Benzodiazepine withdrawal isn't always a short-term experience. While many people recover without prolonged difficulties, D's experience with BIND reveals why persistent symptoms deserve medical attention, research, and understanding.
      • Being informed changes the conversation with your doctor. D discusses the 2025 ASAM benzodiazepine tapering guidelines and why informed, collaborative conversations between patients and healthcare providers are essential.
      • Healing requires more than managing physical symptoms. Meditation, mindfulness, breathing exercises, meaningful activities, and supportive relationships helped D cope with anxiety and the ongoing challenges of withdrawal.
      • Supporting others shouldn't come at the expense of your own well-being. After years of community leadership, D stepped away from running support groups and coaching services to focus on his health, reminding us that boundaries matter even when the work is deeply personal.
      • Kindness and compassionate responsibility can exist together. D's approach recognizes that people deserve understanding and support while still having agency in how they respond to difficult circumstances.
      • Actionable Items
        • Prepare for a more informed medication conversation. If you have questions about a prescribed benzodiazepine, write down your symptoms, concerns, and medication history. Discuss them with your prescribing clinician and ask about the ASAM benzodiazepine tapering guidelines when relevant. Never adjust your dosage independently.
        • Experiment with a small anxiety-management practice. D found meditation especially helpful during his hardest moments. Try a few minutes of mindful breathing, a gentle relaxation exercise, or another grounding activity that feels comfortable for you. The goal isn't to eliminate anxiety instantly; it's to discover tools that support you.
        • Practice kindness with boundaries. Think about one responsibility you've taken on because you don't want to disappoint someone. Ask whether it's sustainable and consider where you might need more rest, support, or a compassionate boundary.
        • Important Chapters
          • 00:00:37 — Meet D E Foster: From Patient to Benzodiazepine Advocate
          • 00:02:37 — Why D Was Prescribed Klonopin for Stomach Problems
          • 00:05:27 — The 18-Month Taper and the Reality of Withdrawal
          • 00:07:30 — Living With BIND and Choosing Self-Care
          • 00:11:26 — Neurological Symptoms and the Loss of Independence
          • 00:13:17 — The Emotional Toll of Withdrawal and Losing Friends to Suicide
          • 00:14:59 — Why Peer Support Matters During Benzodiazepine Withdrawal
          • 00:17:21 — Finding a Doctor Who Understands Benzo Tapering
          • 00:19:53 — ASAM Guidelines and Changing Medical Conversations
          • 00:21:35 — Why D Decided to Stop Taking Klonopin
          • 00:23:15 — Understanding Slow Tapers and Protracted Withdrawal
          • 00:25:36 — Meditation, Mindfulness, and Relearning Anxiety Management
          • 00:27:55 — The Power of Marriage, Purpose, and Emotional Support
          • 00:30:25 — Why Honest Podcasting Creates Real Human Connection
          • 00:35:08 — Physical Dependence vs. Addiction
          • 00:37:32 — What D Would Tell His Younger Self
          • 00:39:06 — Kindness, People-Pleasing, and Setting Boundaries
          • 00:41:28 — If Anxiety Had a Theme Song
          • 00:43:29 — Everybody Has Their Shit: Finding Perspective
          • 00:45:15 — Kindness, Blame, and Compassionate Responsibility
          • 00:47:19 — Where to Find D and Benzodiazepine Support Resources
          • Closing CTA
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            #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #DEFoster #BenzodiazepineWithdrawal #BenzoAwareness #KlonopinWithdrawal #BINDRecovery #ChronicAnxiety #AnxietyManagement #MentalHealthAdvocacy #MedicationAwareness #ProtractedWithdrawal #BenzoTapering #MindfulnessForAnxiety #SelfCompassion #PatientAdvocacy #LongTermHealing

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            If You Need Support, Reach Out

            If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.

            • United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.org
            • Canada: Call or Text 988 — 988.ca
            • Worldwide: Find a Helpline
            • Mental Health Resources and Tools: The Help Hub

            Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles

            • Official Website: goesoninourheads.net
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            51 min
          • Alexis: You Are Not Your Diagnosis — Redefining Mental Health

            Who gets to define who you are? Your diagnosis, your past, or someone else's expectations? In this hilariously honest and deeply meaningful episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Alexis, a special education teacher, mental health advocate, and founder of Permission to Define, to talk about living with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), challenging mental health stereotypes, finding the right therapist, setting boundaries, and taking back the power to define yourself.

            Awards & Downloads
            Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.
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            Mental Health Quote
            "The hardest lesson I've ever learned is disclosure is not access." — Alexis Kur
            Content Notice & Mental Health Crisis Resources
            This episode includes conversations about Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), trauma, mental health stigma, difficult therapeutic experiences, discrimination related to a mental health diagnosis, and a brief mention of a past suicide attempt. Please listen with care and take breaks if needed.

            If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:

            https://988lifeline.org/

            For crisis resources outside the United States:

            https://findahelpline.com/

            Episode Description
            What if everything you've been told about your mental health, your identity, and what success should look like isn't the whole story?

            In this powerful, funny, and unapologetically honest episode, Alexis joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about living with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), challenging mental health stigma, and refusing to let anyone else define who you are.

            Diagnosed with DID at 26, Alexis opens up about navigating nearly two decades of therapy, confronting misconceptions about her diagnosis, and building a trusted team of three therapists she affectionately calls her "Justice League." From equine-assisted therapy to exploring EMDR, she shares why finding the right mental health support matters and why healing sometimes requires questioning the language and expectations surrounding it.

            Alexis also shares the remarkable career change that took her from a successful, six-figure environmental consulting career to teaching high school special education. For her, success is no longer measured by money or professional recognition. It's watching a struggling student find the confidence to walk into class or discover a strength nobody else noticed.

            Things get especially real when Alexis discusses having her diagnosis used against her by someone she trusted professionally. That painful experience reinforced one of her most important lessons: Disclosure is not access. Sharing your story doesn't give someone permission to weaponize it.

            Through laughter, vulnerability, and plenty of colorful language, Alexis reminds us that lived experience matters, boundaries are essential, and only you get to decide what your diagnosis or your life means.

            Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do for your mental health is stop trying to fit someone else's definition of normal.

            Keywords: Alexis Kur, Permission to Define, Dissociative Identity Disorder, DID awareness, living with DID, mental health stigma, mental health advocacy, trauma therapy, EMDR therapy, equine-assisted therapy, therapy relationships, mental health boundaries, self-advocacy, redefining success, lived experience

            Meet Our Guest — Alexis
            Alexis is a high school special education teacher, mental health advocate, speaker, writer, and founder of Permission to Define, a platform dedicated to challenging labels, amplifying lived experiences, and changing conversations about mental health.

            After 15 years in environmental consulting, Alexis traded a six-figure salary for something far more meaningful: helping teenagers recognize their strengths, build confidence, and believe in themselves. Now, working with high school students who receive special education services for emotional impairments, she brings compassion, authenticity, and her lived experience into the classroom.

            Diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) at 26, Alexis has spent nearly two decades navigating therapy, confronting mental health stereotypes, and discovering what it means to live authentically. Through Permission to Define, she champions the value of lived experience, challenges limiting language, and encourages others to take ownership of how they define themselves.

            With sharp humor, unapologetic honesty, and a refreshing willingness to question the status quo, Alexis reminds us that a diagnosis is information, not an identity, and that everyone deserves the freedom to tell their own story.

            Connect with Alexis:

            • Website: https://permissiontodefine.com/
            • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PermissiontoDefine
            • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexisekur5030/
            • Key Takeaways
              • Your diagnosis doesn't define your identity. Alexis challenges misconceptions about Dissociative Identity Disorder and reminds us that a diagnosis may help explain someone's experiences, but it never tells their entire story.
              • Disclosure is not access. Sharing personal mental health information doesn't give anyone permission to weaponize that information, cross your boundaries, or demand access to parts of your life you've chosen to keep private.
              • Finding the right therapist can change your mental health journey. Alexis's trusted "Justice League" of three therapists demonstrates how collaboration, respect, and a strong therapeutic relationship can make difficult emotional work feel more manageable.
              • Success is about purpose, not just a paycheck. Leaving a lucrative environmental consulting career helped Alexis realize that watching a student overcome a challenge can be more rewarding than professional status or financial success.
              • Lived experience deserves a voice in mental health conversations. Alexis uses her experiences with DID and therapy to help educators, mental health professionals, and others better understand the perspectives of people living with mental health conditions.
              • You have permission to challenge the language of healing. Whether she's questioning the word "resilient" or pushing back against scripted therapy phrases, Alexis reminds us that we can choose words and definitions that genuinely reflect our experiences.
              • Actionable Items
                • Redefine a label you've been carrying. Choose one word others have used to describe you, such as anxious, difficult, or resilient, and consider whether it reflects who you are or whether it's time to create your own definition.
                • Practice setting boundaries around personal disclosure. Before sharing something about your mental health, decide what you're comfortable revealing and remind yourself that being honest doesn't mean giving someone unlimited access to your personal experiences.
                • Evaluate whether your support system respects your needs. Think about whether the people supporting your mental health listen without judgment, respect your boundaries, and encourage you to participate in decisions about your well-being.
                • Important Chapters
                  • 00:00:37 — Meet Alexis: Mental Health Advocate and Educator
                  • 00:01:22 — Overcommitting, Perfectionism, and Mental Health
                  • 00:04:29 — Living With DID and the Art of Multitasking
                  • 00:07:54 — Finding Balance and Learning to Protect Your Time
                  • 00:11:30 — Leaving a Six-Figure Career to Redefine Success
                  • 00:14:13 — Building Trust With Special Education Students
                  • 00:19:45 — How Lived Experience Shapes Alexis's Teaching
                  • 00:23:05 — Receiving a Dissociative Identity Disorder Diagnosis
                  • 00:24:27 — The Therapy Justice League: EMDR and Equine-Assisted Therapy
                  • 00:27:24 — Why Alexis Challenges Traditional Therapy Language
                  • 00:30:01 — Finding the Right Therapist and Building Trust
                  • 00:33:19 — Overcoming Fear Through Equine-Assisted Therapy
                  • 00:37:05 — Why Therapy Is Hard Work
                  • 00:37:51 — Creating Permission to Define
                  • 00:39:32 — Living Authentically Beyond Mental Health Labels
                  • 00:42:48 — Advice to Her Younger Self: Finding Your People
                  • 00:43:34 — Disclosure Is Not Access: Learning Difficult Boundaries
                  • 00:44:56 — Mental Health Advice That Misses the Mark
                  • 00:46:13 — Anxiety Theme Songs, Humor, and the Power of Words
                  • 00:49:02 — Connecting With Alexis and Permission to Define
                  • 00:49:54 — Closing Thoughts and Mental Health Reminder
                  • Closing CTA
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                    #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #Alexis #PermissionToDefine #DissociativeIdentityDisorder #DIDAwareness #MentalHealthStigma #MentalHealthAdvocacy #TraumaHealing #TherapyJourney #MentalHealthBoundaries #SelfAdvocacy #LivedExperienceMatters #RedefiningSuccess #AuthenticLiving #SpecialEducation #YouAreNotYourDiagnosis

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                    If You Need Support, Reach Out

                    If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.

                    • United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.org
                    • Canada: Call or Text 988 — 988.ca
                    • Worldwide: Find a Helpline
                    • Mental Health Resources and Tools: The Help Hub

                    Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles

                    • Official Website: goesoninourheads.net
                    • Facebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheads
                    • Instagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittles
                    • LinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty Skittles
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                    51 min
                  • Amy & Avery: Rebuilding After Life Changes — Caregiving, Self-Advocacy, and Finding Your Voice | Part 2

                    What happens when chronic pain doesn’t only change the person hurting — it changes the marriage, the money, the business, the caregiver, and everybody’s identity? In Part 2, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles continue their conversation with Amy and Avery Nubson about caregiver burnout, asking for help, surviving the darkest chapters of a relationship, rebuilding independence, letting go of shame, and creating a life that looks nothing like the one they originally planned.

                    Awards & Downloads
                    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.
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                    Mental Health Quote
                    “Doing nothing was just not an option.” — Avery Nubson
                    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder
                    This episode includes discussion of suicidal concern, severe chronic pain, caregiver burnout, depression, medication complications, medical trauma, and significant relationship and financial stress. Please take care while listening.

                    If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:

                    https://988lifeline.org/

                    For crisis resources outside the United States:

                    https://findahelpline.com/

                    Episode Description
                    Part 2 of Amy and Avery Nubson’s story asks a question we don’t talk about nearly enough: what happens to the caregiver when someone they love becomes consumed by pain?

                    Amy gets brutally honest with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles about the period when she felt like a car accident had stolen her husband, best friend, business partner, and financial security all at once. Their clients disappeared. Medical bills landed on credit cards. She became Avery’s caregiver while trying to keep their lives afloat — and eventually reached a point where she knew something had to change.

                    Avery shares the other side: the shame of needing help, the frustration of invisible disability, difficult treatment decisions, setbacks that sent his mental health spiraling, and the exhausting process of learning to advocate for himself. Together, they explain how pain journals helped reveal progress that was otherwise almost impossible to see.

                    But this episode isn’t only about surviving. It’s about becoming.

                    Amy found independence and her voice. Avery returned to art, creativity, illustration, and board-game design. They learned to travel differently, spend time apart without fear, ask for help, tell the truth about what they were experiencing, and stop measuring their lives against someone else’s timeline.

                    Twelve years after the accident, Avery says something remarkable: he feels like he is coming back better.

                    Keywords: caregiver burnout, chronic pain recovery, caregiver mental health, self-advocacy, men’s mental health, invisible disability, relationship resilience, asking for help, medical trauma, chronic illness marriage, emotional healing, storytelling and shame, self-discovery, pain journaling, finding your voice

                    Meet Our Guests — Amy & Avery Nubson
                    Amy Nubson turned one of the most difficult periods of her life into a mission to help other women rediscover their voices, courage, and confidence through storytelling, coaching, conferences, and her Rebrand You work. Avery Nubson is a longtime designer, marketer, illustrator, web and SEO professional whose life after a 2014 accident expanded his creative work into board-game design while giving him a deeply personal reason to speak about chronic pain, men’s pelvic health, PTSD, and the importance of refusing to give up on finding care.

                    Together, Amy and Avery offer two sides of the same story: the person living with pain and the person loving, supporting, and sometimes struggling beside them.

                    Website:

                    http://www.nufiremarketing.com

                    Amy Nubson on LinkedIn:

                    https://www.linkedin.com/in/amynubson-business-coach/

                    Avery Nubson on LinkedIn:

                    https://www.linkedin.com/in/averynubson/

                    Avery’s Games:

                    https://humerusgames.com

                    Key Takeaways
                    • Chronic illness affects relationships and families, not only the person experiencing the physical symptoms.
                    • Caregivers need care too, and ignoring their needs can create resentment, exhaustion, isolation, and emotional collapse.
                    • Progress can be so gradual that you miss it unless you intentionally look backward and notice how far you’ve come.
                    • Asking for help is not failure. Sometimes the most useful request is incredibly simple: mow the lawn, carry the bag, sit with me, or listen.
                    • Independence can strengthen a relationship. Amy and Avery learned that doing things separately helped them rediscover themselves outside their roles as patient and caregiver.
                    • Telling the story you once hid can transform shame into connection and give somebody else permission to speak.
                    • Actionable Items
                      • Write down one specific thing someone could help you with instead of waiting until you are completely overwhelmed. Make the request concrete.
                      • Track your progress. Whether you’re dealing with emotional healing, chronic illness, caregiving, or another long-term challenge, periodically compare where you are now with where you started.
                      • Put something on the calendar to look forward to — a creative project, trip, conversation, class, walk, or small experience that reminds you your life contains more than the hard thing.
                      • Important Chapters
                        • 00:00:46 — Pride, Wheelchairs, and Invisible Disability
                        • 00:02:06 — Learning to Advocate for Yourself
                        • 00:05:56 — A Medical Setback Hits Mental Health Hard
                        • 00:09:44 — Where Do You Find the Strength to Keep Going?
                        • 00:10:47 — Why Avery Kept Pain Journals
                        • 00:12:06 — The Caregiver Story Nobody Was Asking About
                        • 00:14:44 — The Conversation That Changed Their Marriage
                        • 00:16:43 — Rebuilding Amy, Not Just Avery
                        • 00:18:17 — Stop Waiting for Retirement to Live
                        • 00:20:10 — The Moment Amy Heard Avery Laugh Again
                        • 00:22:19 — Creativity Comes Back Online
                        • 00:27:42 — “I Think I’m Coming Back Even Better”
                        • 00:30:23 — Turning Pain Into Art and Shame Into Story
                        • 00:33:52 — You Never Know What Someone Is Carrying
                        • 00:35:58 — Getting Lost and Learning You’ll Be Okay
                        • 00:39:43 — Advice to Their Younger Selves
                        • 00:42:19 — Asking for Help, Perfection, and Not Giving Up
                        • 00:44:38 — Theme Songs, Favorite Words, and a Little Fun
                        • Closing CTA
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                          #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #CaregiverBurnout #CaregiverSupport #ChronicPain #MensMentalHealth #InvisibleDisability #PatientAdvocacy #RelationshipResilience #AskingForHelp #FindingYourVoice #SelfDiscovery #TraumaRecovery #EmotionalHealing #ChronicIllness #StorytellingHeals #MentalHealthRecovery

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                          If You Need Support, Reach Out

                          If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.

                          • United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.org
                          • Canada: Call or Text 988 — 988.ca
                          • Worldwide: Find a Helpline
                          • Mental Health Resources and Tools: The Help Hub

                          Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles

                          • Official Website: goesoninourheads.net
                          • Facebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheads
                          • Instagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittles
                          • LinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty Skittles
                          • Join Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)
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                          52 min
                        • Amy & Avery: Rebuilding After Life Changes — Chronic Pain, PTSD, and Fighting to Be Heard | Part 1

                          One car accident changed everything for Amy and Avery Nubson — their health, their marriage, their business, and the future they thought they had planned. In Part 1, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Amy and Avery for a raw conversation about invisible injuries, chronic pain, PTSD, medical trauma, and what happens when you know something is wrong but getting someone to listen becomes a battle of its own.

                          Awards & Downloads
                          Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.
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                          Mental Health Quote
                          “Pain doesn’t have to be visible to be real, and progress doesn’t have to be fast to matter.” — Inspired by Avery Nubson
                          Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder
                          This episode includes discussion of chronic pain, PTSD, medical trauma, medication dependence and withdrawal, invasive medical treatment, and suicide risk. Please take care while listening.

                          If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:

                          https://988lifeline.org/

                          For crisis resources outside the United States:

                          https://findahelpline.com/

                          Episode Description
                          A car accident that looked minor on paper changed nearly every part of Amy and Avery Nubson’s lives.

                          After Avery was hit from behind while stopped at a red light in 2014, he walked away without broken bones or obvious external injuries. But what followed was anything but minor: debilitating pain, PTSD, panic attacks, flashbacks, bladder and pelvic health complications, sleep problems, mobility limitations, and eventually a traumatic brain injury diagnosis that took years to uncover.

                          In Part 1 of this deeply honest conversation, Avery tells G-Rex and Dirty Skittles what it was like to have his body become unfamiliar territory while repeatedly hearing that tests looked normal or providers didn’t know what came next. He opens up about male pelvic floor therapy, the shame surrounding intimate health problems, opioid withdrawal after insurance coverage changed, EMDR, implanted medical devices, and the exhausting reality of having to continuously advocate for care.

                          Amy shares the other side of that journey: watching the person you love disappear beneath pain, trying to understand symptoms nobody prepared you for, and learning how to support someone through a recovery that doesn’t follow a clean timeline.

                          This isn’t a story about magically “getting better.” It’s about persistence, invisible disability, medical self-advocacy, and finding hope in inches, not miles.

                          Keywords: chronic pain, PTSD recovery, medical trauma, invisible disability, traumatic brain injury, EMDR therapy, men’s mental health, pelvic floor therapy, chronic illness, pain management, healthcare advocacy, anxiety after car accidents, caregiver support, mental health recovery, patient advocacy

                          Meet Our Guests — Amy & Avery Nubson
                          Amy and Avery Nubson have spent more than two decades building a life, businesses, and creative projects together, but a 2014 car accident forced them to completely rethink what partnership, healing, and success looked like. Amy now helps women reclaim their voices and tell their stories, while Avery brings his background in design, web development, marketing, SEO, illustration, and game design together with a growing desire to speak openly about chronic pain, men’s pelvic health, PTSD, and the treatments that helped him rebuild his life.

                          Website:

                          http://www.nufiremarketing.com

                          Amy Nubson on LinkedIn:

                          https://www.linkedin.com/in/amynubson-business-coach/

                          Avery Nubson on LinkedIn:

                          https://www.linkedin.com/in/averynubson/

                          Avery’s Games:

                          https://humerusgames.com

                          Key Takeaways
                          • An injury does not have to be visible on a scan for the pain and trauma surrounding it to be real.
                          • PTSD can show up in waves, through flashbacks, panic attacks, sleep disruption, avoidance, and triggers that may make everyday life feel unsafe.
                          • Physical pain and mental health are deeply connected, and treating one without acknowledging the other can leave major pieces of recovery untouched.
                          • Men’s pelvic health remains difficult to talk about, and shame can make an already isolating medical problem even harder to navigate.
                          • Self-advocacy sometimes means asking again, getting another opinion, and refusing to stop simply because the first answer was “we don’t know.”
                          • Healing may be measured in tiny changes: driving around the block, skiing again, traveling, sleeping better, or simply experiencing less pain than yesterday.
                          • Actionable Items
                            • Keep a symptom or pain journal. Track changes, triggers, treatments, medication reactions, and small improvements so you have something concrete to reference when progress feels invisible.
                            • If you feel dismissed or your symptoms remain unexplained, consider asking what the next appropriate referral or specialty might be instead of accepting “nothing is wrong” as the end of the conversation.
                            • When traveling with medical devices, mobility challenges, or other medical needs, research passenger-support options ahead of time and create a plan that reduces unnecessary stress.
                            • Important Chapters
                              • 00:01:57 — From Art School to 26 Years Together
                              • 00:04:10 — The Accident That Changed Everything
                              • 00:07:07 — When PTSD Arrived in Waves
                              • 00:14:57 — Portugal, Pain Relief, and Feeling Safe Again
                              • 00:20:05 — EMDR and Life After Panic Attacks
                              • 00:22:03 — The Medical Problems Nobody Could Explain
                              • 00:27:01 — The Reality of Men’s Pelvic Floor Therapy
                              • 00:33:15 — Fighting Insurance While Fighting to Heal
                              • 00:36:04 — Why Men Need Somewhere to Talk About This
                              • 00:42:51 — Pain Medication, Withdrawal, and the Pain Pump Decision
                              • 00:47:32 — Traveling With Medical Devices
                              • Closing CTA
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                                56 min
                              • Tiphany Kane: Medical Gaslighting, Women’s Health, and Fighting to Be Heard

                                Season 20 continues with Part 2 of our conversation with Tiphany Kane, where finding your voice becomes more than personal growth. Tiphany joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to share what happened when she had to fight to be heard while living with dangerously uncontrolled hypertension and repeatedly being told anxiety was the problem.

                                Awards & Downloads
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                                “You’re supposed to share your story. You’re supposed to be heard and seen.” — Tiphany Kane
                                Episode Description
                                What do you do when you know something is wrong with your body, but you keep hearing that it’s anxiety?

                                You keep fighting to be heard.

                                In Part 2 of our Season 20 opener, Tiphany Kane takes G-Rex and Dirty Skittles deeper into the medical journey that turned her hard-won voice into one of her most important tools.

                                Tiphany was dealing with dangerously uncontrolled hypertension alongside lifelong congenital organ abnormalities. After one medical appointment left her sobbing before she could even make it to her car, she found a clinical trial through UCI Health for people with resistant hypertension.

                                Two days after an appointment where she felt completely dismissed, she walked into a room where people listened.

                                Tiphany was accepted into the clinical trial and eventually underwent renal denervation. Months later, she says her blood pressure was controlled with medication, and she had something back that she’d desperately missed: quality of life.

                                But those years came with consequences. Tiphany discusses lasting damage involving her eyes, kidneys, and heart.

                                This conversation isn’t about pretending every doctor is terrible or that anxiety can’t affect the body. It’s about recognizing that mental and physical health can exist in the same damn body at the same time.

                                Having anxiety doesn’t make every physical symptom anxiety.

                                Tiphany’s story is a powerful reminder to ask questions, document what you’re experiencing, bring support when you need it, and keep advocating for yourself when something doesn’t feel right.

                                Keywords: Tiphany Kane, medical gaslighting, women’s health, patient advocacy, self-advocacy, anxiety stigma, chronic illness, resistant hypertension, healthcare trauma, trusting your body, women’s mental health, medical dismissal, emotional resilience, finding your voice, patient empowerment

                                Meet Our Guest — Tiphany Kane
                                Tiphany Kane, M.Ed., is an award-winning producer, entrepreneur, public speaker, and storyteller whose own medical journey has added another powerful chapter to her work: speaking openly about what happens when people have to fight to be heard and believed.
                                • CEO & Co-Founder, KaSa Media Productions — Tiphany produces podcasts, video, live events, and other story-driven media.
                                • Founder, J4F MORE Foundation — Her work reaches beyond production into advocacy, storytelling, and creating opportunities for other voices to be heard.
                                • Medical Advocacy — After navigating lifelong complex health issues and feeling dismissed during her medical journey, Tiphany began publicly sharing what happened so other people would know they aren’t alone.
                                • Just 4 Feet Studio — She is building a 5,500-square-foot state-of-the-art Dolby Atmos recording and post-production studio in Orange County, California.
                                • Academy of Interactive & Visual Arts — Tiphany is an AIVA member and serves as an AIVA juror.
                                • Website — http://www.kasamediapro.com
                                • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/tiphanykane/
                                • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/tiphany.k
                                • YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@J4Fstudio
                                • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiphany-kane-m-ed-514264175/
                                • Key Takeaways
                                  • Mental health and physical illness can exist at the same time. One doesn’t automatically explain away the other.
                                  • You live in your body every damn day. If something feels wrong and keeps feeling wrong, it’s okay to keep asking questions.
                                  • Self-advocacy isn’t about picking a fight with your doctor. It’s about being an active participant in your own care.
                                  • Sometimes you need another person in the room. An advocate can listen, take notes, ask questions, and help when you’re too sick, exhausted, or overwhelmed to do everything yourself.
                                  • Being listened to changed Tiphany’s medical experience. Feeling heard shouldn’t have to feel like winning the lottery.
                                  • The voice Tiphany spent decades learning not to suppress became exactly the voice she needed when the stakes got serious.
                                  • Actionable Items
                                    • Walk in prepared. Keep a simple timeline of your symptoms, medications, relevant medical history, changes you’ve noticed, and the questions you don’t want to forget.
                                    • Bring backup when you need it. Ask someone you trust to attend an appointment with you, and tell them beforehand exactly how you’d like them to support you.
                                    • Ask one more question. If a physical symptom is being attributed to anxiety, ask what physical causes have been considered and what findings support that conclusion.
                                    • Important Chapters
                                      • 00:00:45 — What Happened After the Appointment?
                                      • 00:01:14 — Finding the Clinical Trial
                                      • 00:02:58 — Renal Denervation and Getting Her Blood Pressure Controlled
                                      • 00:04:06 — The Lasting Physical Damage
                                      • 00:05:03 — Getting Her Quality of Life Back
                                      • 00:06:33 — Why Did Tiphany Have to Find the Answer Herself?
                                      • 00:08:57 — Finally Being Taken Seriously
                                      • 00:12:44 — When Trust in Healthcare Breaks Down
                                      • 00:14:20 — Insurance, Chronic Illness, and Access to Care
                                      • 00:19:51 — Why Having an Advocate Matters
                                      • 00:20:59 — Anxiety and Physical Illness Can Coexist
                                      • 00:22:17 — What Tiphany Wishes She Had Said
                                      • 00:23:43 — Using Her Voice to Help Others
                                      • 00:24:40 — What She Would Tell Her Younger Self
                                      • 00:26:21 — Divorce and One of Life’s Hardest Lessons
                                      • 00:29:27 — Where to Find Tiphany
                                      • Closing CTA
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                                        32 min
                                      • Tiphany Kane: Finding Your Voice After Religious Trauma, Rejection, and Reinvention

                                        Season 20 starts with one hell of a story. In Part 1 of this two-part opener, Tiphany Kane joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about leaving a restrictive religious environment at 19, losing family and community, carrying the wounds of rejection, and eventually realizing she didn’t need anyone’s permission to use her voice.

                                        Awards & Downloads
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                                        “I can do really hard things.” — Tiphany Kane
                                        Episode Description
                                        At 19, Tiphany Kane packed up her little blue Toyota Corolla and drove across the country. She was leaving behind the restrictive religious world that had shaped what she believed about women, family, belonging, and herself.

                                        But getting out was only the beginning.

                                        In this Season 20 opener, Tiphany talks with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles about being disfellowshipped and suddenly losing contact with family members, childhood friends, and the community she had always known. She describes becoming an “instant orphan” and how that kind of rejection doesn’t magically disappear, even after decades.

                                        Those old wounds still show up. Sometimes rejection brings up a protective wall. Other times, it wakes up the little girl who wonders why people don’t fight for her. Tiphany has learned to recognize those stories without letting them run the whole damn show.

                                        She also opens up about people-pleasing, divorce, rebuilding her life, leaving a 20-year career she loved, and being told professionally that she was “too passionate.”

                                        That moment became another crossroads: keep making herself smaller or figure out who she was without everyone else’s rules.

                                        Then she found podcasting.

                                        For the first time, Tiphany could say what she wanted to say without asking permission. And once she found that voice, there was no putting it back in the box.

                                        Keywords: Tiphany Kane, religious trauma, finding your voice, rejection, people-pleasing, emotional healing, divorce recovery, reinvention, abandonment wounds, women’s mental health, self-worth, resilience, starting over, trauma recovery, podcasting

                                        Meet Our Guest — Tiphany Kane
                                        Tiphany Kane, M.Ed., is an award-winning producer, entrepreneur, public speaker, and storyteller who has seen firsthand what happens when someone finally stops shrinking and starts owning their voice.
                                        • CEO & Co-Founder, KaSa Media Productions — Produces podcasts, video, live events, and story-driven media for people with something meaningful to say.
                                        • Founder, J4F MORE Foundation — Tiphany has expanded her work beyond media production through the foundation and her passion for helping others.
                                        • Just 4 Feet Studio — She is building a 5,500-square-foot state-of-the-art Dolby Atmos recording and post-production studio in Orange County, California.
                                        • Academy of Interactive & Visual Arts — Tiphany is an AIVA member and serves as an AIVA juror.
                                        • Website — http://www.kasamediapro.com
                                        • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/tiphanykane/
                                        • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/tiphany.k
                                        • YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@J4Fstudio
                                        • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiphany-kane-m-ed-514264175/
                                        • Key Takeaways
                                          • Reinventing yourself doesn’t mean the person you were before was a failure. Sometimes every version of you gets you a little closer to who you really are.
                                          • You can leave a controlling environment and still carry pieces of what happened with you for years.
                                          • Rejection and abandonment can leave emotional fingerprints long after you’ve built an entirely new life.
                                          • People-pleasing isn’t always about being nice. Sometimes it starts as a way to stay safe, accepted, or loved.
                                          • There is no expiration date on finding your voice. Tiphany was in her late 40s when podcasting helped her truly discover hers.
                                          • Being called “too much” doesn’t automatically mean you need to tone yourself down. Sometimes you’ve simply outgrown the room you’re standing in.
                                          • Actionable Items
                                            • Catch the rejection story. The next time something feels like rejection, ask yourself: What actually happened, and what is my old wound telling me happened?
                                            • Notice where you’re shrinking. Look at your work, relationships, family, and friendships. Where are you editing yourself just to keep somebody else comfortable?
                                            • Practice using your voice. Journal it, record it, say it to someone you trust, or create something. Give yourself one place where you don’t have to make your truth prettier for everybody else.
                                            • Important Chapters
                                              • 00:02:07 — A Lifetime of Reinvention
                                              • 00:04:02 — Leaving Home at 19
                                              • 00:05:30 — Growing Up in a Restrictive Religion
                                              • 00:07:14 — The Questions That Changed Everything
                                              • 00:11:08 — Disfellowshipped and Losing Her Community
                                              • 00:14:52 — Rejection and Abandonment Wounds
                                              • 00:16:34 — Breaking the “Good Girl” Programming
                                              • 00:19:32 — Finding Her Voice in Her Late 40s
                                              • 00:21:56 — How Podcasting Changed Everything
                                              • 00:25:54 — When Health Problems Get Blamed on Anxiety
                                              • 00:28:34 — Sharing Her Medical Story With the World
                                              • Closing CTA
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                                                34 min
                                              • G-Rex & Dirty Skittles: Leaving Self-Doubt Behind — Our Biggest Mental Health Lessons from Season 19

                                                Season 19 gave us a front-row seat to grief, resilience, reinvention, boundaries, healing, and some seriously honest conversations. In this season finale, we look back at every guest who sat down with us, the moments that stayed with us after the microphones turned off, and how much we have both changed along the way.

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                                                “I want to leave behind doubt and sadness and bring with me determination and hope and love.” — Dirty Skittles

                                                Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder

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                                                If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, call or text 988 in the United States to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline:

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                                                Episode Description

                                                We honestly cannot believe we are wrapping up Season 19.

                                                When we started Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, we knew we wanted honest conversations about mental health. We didn't realize how much those conversations would change us, too.

                                                This season brought us stories about burnout, grief, perfectionism, binge eating, difficult relationships, workplace stress, suicide loss, trauma, resilience, identity, and what it really means to reinvent yourself. Every guest brought something different into the room, but somehow each conversation left us looking at our own lives a little differently.

                                                In this finale, we go back through every guest from Season 19 and talk about what stuck with us.

                                                We reflect on boundaries, self-doubt, fear of failure, therapy, creativity, friendship, and the weird little things that help us stay grounded when life gets messy. We talk about learning to protect our peace, walking away from drama, giving ourselves permission to change, and understanding that trying something hard does not mean we failed just because the outcome looked different than expected.

                                                And yes, we also talk about fishing, fantasy romance, laughing at wildly inappropriate things, and why sometimes the best mental health support is having that one person who understands exactly how your brain works.

                                                The biggest takeaway from Season 19 is this: our stories matter, but they don't have to become our entire identity.

                                                Season 19 is ending, and we are leaving self-doubt behind.

                                                Keywords: mental health podcast, emotional wellness, resilience, self-doubt, boundaries, burnout recovery, grief, trauma healing, perfectionism, anxiety, personal growth, therapy, self-care, reinvention, mental health awareness

                                                Meet Our Guests — Season 19

                                                Season 19 gave us some unforgettable conversations, and every guest left us with something that stuck.

                                                • Diandra Ford-Wing — Diandra talked with us about severe workplace burnout, losing her mom, and what happens when grief does not fit inside somebody else’s timeline.
                                                • Justin Shaw — Justin introduced us to his “shadow and sorcerer” framework and gave us a different way to think about trauma, identity, and what happens when our unhealed parts start running the show.
                                                • David Meyer — David reminded us how powerful creativity can be when writing, poetry, storytelling, and self-expression become part of how we process what is going on inside our heads.
                                                • Rocio & Angel — Rocio and Angel shared their work around women’s identity, growth, and transformation through The Orchid: The Secret Code of Modern Goddesses, while also showing us what genuine partnership and mutual respect can look like.
                                                • Mandi Lynne — Mandi opened up about being a recovering perfectionist and learning how to stop tying her worth to being extraordinary all the time.
                                                • Amber Abila — Amber shared her experience with restrictive eating, binge eating, and bulimia, along with the work it took to rebuild her relationship with food and herself.
                                                • Barbara Parker — Barbara talked about perfectionism, divorce, rebuilding her life, and learning that sometimes “good enough” really is enough.
                                                • Regent Cornell — Regent reminded us why the conversations we most want to avoid are often the ones we need to have, especially when work, relationships, and mental health collide.
                                                • Stephanie Renner — Stephanie shared the heartbreaking loss of her son Jordan and how she has turned that grief into meaningful ways of reminding people that they matter.
                                                • Noah May — Noah opened up about the circumstances surrounding his conception, the mental health struggles that followed, and how podcasting helped him find his voice.
                                                • John Carter — John shared an unbelievable story of surviving being shot in the head, depression, addiction, jail, and major life changes before rebuilding a life centered around fatherhood, fitness, and resilience.
                                                • Key Takeaways
                                                  • Healing does not happen on somebody else’s schedule. Grief, trauma, and burnout do not care what a policy says.
                                                  • What happened to us can shape us without becoming the only thing that defines us.
                                                  • Boundaries can feel uncomfortable, but protecting our peace is worth it.
                                                  • Trying something difficult and getting an unexpected result does not automatically mean we failed.
                                                  • We can reinvent ourselves at any age. There is no expiration date on becoming somebody new.
                                                  • Mental health support does not always look serious. Sometimes it is therapy. Sometimes it is laughter. Sometimes it is fishing, fantasy books, a phone game, or calling the one person who understands your sense of humor.
                                                  • Actionable Items
                                                    • Ask yourself what you are ready to leave behind in this season of your life. Write down what you want to replace it with.
                                                    • Pick one boundary that would make your life feel lighter and practice holding it without overexplaining yourself.
                                                    • Start your own joy folder. Fill it with photos, memories, screenshots, quotes, or anything else that reminds you what makes you feel like yourself.
                                                    • Important Chapters
                                                      • 00:00:37 — Welcome to the Season 19 Finale
                                                      • 00:03:48 — How Much We Have Changed
                                                      • 00:08:23 — Diandra Ford-Wing: Burnout, Grief, and Work
                                                      • 00:10:17 — Justin Shaw: Your Shadow Is Not Your Identity
                                                      • 00:11:32 — David Meyer: Creativity and Mental Health
                                                      • 00:12:53 — Rocio & Angel: Identity, Partnership, and The Orchid
                                                      • 00:14:04 — Mandi Lynne: Recovering From Perfectionism
                                                      • 00:15:22 — Amber Abila: Binge Eating and Understanding the Why
                                                      • 00:16:39 — Barbara Parker: When Good Enough Is Good Enough
                                                      • 00:18:24 — Regent Cornell: Having the Conversations We Avoid
                                                      • 00:20:13 — Stephanie Renner: Grief, Jordan, and Letting People Know They Matter
                                                      • 00:21:51 — Noah May: Finding His Voice Through Podcasting
                                                      • 00:22:54 — John Carter: Survival, Resilience, and Rebuilding
                                                      • 00:24:18 — Five Questions for Us
                                                      • 00:26:14 — The Ridiculous Things That Actually Help Our Mental Health
                                                      • 00:27:25 — Friendship as Mental Health Support
                                                      • 00:30:10 — What We Are Leaving Behind in Season 19
                                                      • 00:31:01 — Thank You, Season 19
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                                                        34 min
                                                      • John Carter: Part 2- Never Give Up — Sobriety, Forgiveness, and Finding Purpose After Trauma

                                                        What happens after you survive something that should have killed you? In Part 2, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles continue their conversation with John Carter about waking from a coma, living with permanent injuries, maintaining long-term sobriety, choosing forgiveness, staying grateful, and turning a brutal past into a life of purpose.

                                                        Awards & Downloads
                                                        Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.
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                                                        Mental Health Quote
                                                        “Never give up. You are much stronger than you think.” — John Carter
                                                        Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder
                                                        This episode includes conversations about gun violence, addiction, overdose, incarceration, depression, disability, and loss. Please take care of yourself while listening.

                                                        If you or someone you know is in crisis or needs immediate emotional support in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:

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                                                        Episode Description
                                                        In Part 2 of John Carter’s story, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles go deeper into the moments that shaped the man he is today—and the mindset that keeps him moving forward.

                                                        John describes the vivid dream he experienced while unconscious after being shot in the head. In the dream, he was repeatedly challenged to swim a race he could not win until an unknown older man appeared, coached him, and refused to let him quit. John eventually won the race—and woke up. To him, that mysterious coach represented a higher power delivering a message that would follow him for the rest of his life: keep going.

                                                        The conversation explores the long road of physical recovery, John’s decision not to carry hatred toward the man who shot him, and why he sees accountability differently after surviving the consequences of his own choices.

                                                        John also talks about maintaining sobriety by refusing to forget how bad addiction became. Today, storytelling, speaking at recovery centers, mentoring younger people, training clients, supporting Mobility Danes of New England, and being present for his children and grandchildren all help keep him connected to his purpose.

                                                        He is candid about one challenge that remains difficult: accepting changes in his mobility. But instead of pretending those feelings don't exist, John keeps returning to gratitude.

                                                        His message is beautifully simple: never give up, accept help when it comes, and remember that you may be stronger than adversity has allowed you to believe.

                                                        Keywords: John Carter, trauma recovery, long-term sobriety, addiction recovery, forgiveness, gratitude, resilience, mental health recovery, overcoming adversity, purpose after trauma, disability awareness, personal growth, second chances, recovery motivation, never give up

                                                        Meet Our Guest — John Carter
                                                        John Carter is a personal trainer, motivational speaker, entrepreneur, author, and owner of Titanium Health and Fitness in Boston. After surviving a near-fatal gunshot, addiction, incarceration, disability, and profound loss, John rebuilt his life and now uses his experience to help others through fitness, speaking, recovery advocacy, mentorship, and service.

                                                        His first book, Triggered to Change, documents a life he describes as having contained “a hundred lives”—and the second chances that made his current one possible.

                                                        • Website: https://www.johncarterauthor.com/
                                                        • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Triggered-Change-Life-Full-Turbulence/dp/B0DWLVRWW5
                                                        • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fitnessbycarter
                                                        • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@turbulencebook
                                                        • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/turbulencebook_/
                                                        • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-carter-b29a0a337/
                                                        • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@titaniumfitnessbr?_t=ZP-8wcklttkhhe&_r=1
                                                        • Key Takeaways
                                                          • Long-term recovery requires remembering where addiction can take you—not romanticizing where you came from.
                                                          • Forgiveness can mean recognizing your own choices without carrying hatred for someone else.
                                                          • Purpose often grows when we turn painful experiences into something that can help another person.
                                                          • Accepting help can be every bit as important as having the strength to keep fighting.
                                                          • Gratitude does not erase difficulty; it changes what you choose to focus on inside it.
                                                          • Being present for the people you love can become one of the strongest reasons to protect your recovery.
                                                          • Actionable Items
                                                            • Write down the reality of a difficult period you never want to return to. Keep it somewhere you can revisit when your memory starts softening the hard edges.
                                                            • Identify one way your lived experience could help someone else—even if it is simply having an honest conversation.
                                                            • When adversity hits, replace “I can’t do this” with one smaller question: “What is the next thing I can do without giving up?”
                                                            • References Mentioned
                                                              • John Carter’s website:  https://www.johncarterauthor.com/
                                                              • John Carter’s memoir, Triggered to Change:  https://www.amazon.com/Triggered-Change-Life-Full-Turbulence/dp/B0DWLVRWW5
                                                              • John Carter’s TEDx talk is available through his website:  https://www.johncarterauthor.com/
                                                              • Mobility Danes of New England:  https://www.mobilitydanesofnewengland.com/
                                                              • Books for Prison: https://prisonbookprogram.org/
                                                              • Important Chapters
                                                                • 00:00:53 — What Happened After John Was Shot
                                                                • 00:01:30 — The Dream John Remembers From His Coma
                                                                • 00:04:18 — Waking Up Unable to Move or Speak
                                                                • 00:05:19 — Physical Recovery and Aqua Therapy
                                                                • 00:06:43 — What Happened to the Man Who Shot John
                                                                • 00:07:23 — Choosing Accountability Over Resentment
                                                                • 00:09:03 — John’s Documentary and What Comes Next
                                                                • 00:10:20 — Getting His Book Into Prisons
                                                                • 00:11:25 — How John Maintains His Sobriety
                                                                • 00:12:27 — Being Present for His Family
                                                                • 00:14:37 — Accepting Changes in His Mobility
                                                                • 00:18:00 — Fatherhood After Prison
                                                                • 00:19:23 — What John Would Tell His Younger Self
                                                                • 00:22:19 — John’s Advice: Never Give Up
                                                                • 00:23:00 — Anxiety, Turbulence, and the Word John Hates Most
                                                                • Closing CTA
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                                                                  27 min
                                                                • John Carter: Part 1- Shot in the Head, Lost in Addiction, and Fighting His Way Back

                                                                  At 22, John Carter survived a point-blank gunshot to the back of the head—but surviving the bullet was only the beginning. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with John for Part 1 of an unbelievable conversation about organized crime, depression, addiction, prison, sobriety, physical recovery, and the people who helped him fight his way back.

                                                                  Awards & Downloads
                                                                  Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.
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                                                                  Mental Health Quote
                                                                  “Tomorrow might not be here for you, so take advantage of it.” — John Carter
                                                                  Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder
                                                                  This episode includes conversations about gun violence, addiction, incarceration, depression, overdose, and loss. Please take care of yourself while listening.

                                                                  If you or someone you know is in crisis or needs immediate emotional support in the United States, call or text 988 or visit:

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                                                                  Episode Description
                                                                  John Carter has lived through the kind of story that sounds impossible until you hear him tell it. Raised around organized crime and determined to follow in his father’s footsteps, John entered a dangerous world that nearly killed him. At just 22, he was shot point-blank in the back of the head. He survived—but the aftermath brought disability, depression, alcohol, drugs, and eventually dealing drugs to support his addiction.

                                                                  In Part 1, John joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about the moments that changed the direction of his life. After his arrest, he found himself sitting in a police department parking lot at more than 300 pounds, using a wheelchair, broke, addicted, and out of options. A trip to detox—and a woman named Deb who showed him what recovery could look like—became the beginning of something different.

                                                                  John also shares how a 10-year prison sentence ultimately became part of his second chance. Inside, three men who had known his father refused to let him stay in his wheelchair. They brought him to the prison gym, trained with him, and helped him rebuild his body until he eventually walked out of prison.

                                                                  The conversation also explores grief, the loss of John’s brothers to addiction, the importance of asking for help, and the unexpected purpose he found through personal training and service dogs.

                                                                  John’s story isn’t about pretending trauma was a gift. It’s about what can happen when you keep getting back up.

                                                                  Keywords: John Carter, addiction recovery, mental health recovery, sobriety, trauma recovery, depression, prison rehabilitation, resilience, second chances, organized crime survivor, personal transformation, service dogs, recovery community, fitness and mental health, overcoming adversity

                                                                  Meet Our Guest — John Carter
                                                                  John Carter is a personal trainer, motivational speaker, entrepreneur, author, and owner of Titanium Health and Fitness, a private gym in Boston. After surviving a near-fatal gunshot, addiction, incarceration, and profound personal loss, John rebuilt his life around sobriety, service, fitness, and helping others believe that change is still possible.

                                                                  His memoir, Triggered to Change, shares his journey from organized crime and addiction to recovery, purpose, and second chances.

                                                                  • Website: https://www.johncarterauthor.com/
                                                                  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Triggered-Change-Life-Full-Turbulence/dp/B0DWLVRWW5
                                                                  • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fitnessbycarter
                                                                  • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@turbulencebook
                                                                  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/turbulencebook_/
                                                                  • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-carter-b29a0a337/
                                                                  • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@titaniumfitnessbr?_t=ZP-8wcklttkhhe&_r=1
                                                                  • Key Takeaways
                                                                    • Recovery can begin at the moment you finally admit you need help.
                                                                    • Getting sober does not make every problem disappear, but it gives you a fighting chance to face them.
                                                                    • A painful consequence can sometimes become the interruption that saves a life.
                                                                    • Asking for help is not weakness—it can completely change the direction of your story.
                                                                    • Physical movement and fitness became powerful tools in John’s rebuilding process.
                                                                    • The people who believe in you can matter enormously, but you still have to choose the next right step.
                                                                    • Actionable Items
                                                                      • Make a recovery plan before you need it. Identify the people, places, and resources you can turn to when life becomes overwhelming.
                                                                      • Look honestly at the environments that pull you backward. Sometimes protecting your progress means changing where you go and who you spend time with.
                                                                      • Find one healthy practice that helps you reconnect with your body—walking, strength training, stretching, swimming, or another form of movement that meets you where you are.
                                                                      • Important Chapters
                                                                        • 00:01:02 — John Introduces His Story
                                                                        • 00:02:25 — Growing Up Around Organized Crime
                                                                        • 00:03:03 — Surviving the Gunshot
                                                                        • 00:04:00 — Addiction, Arrest, and Hitting Bottom
                                                                        • 00:05:09 — Meeting Deb and Seeing Recovery Differently
                                                                        • 00:06:00 — A 10-Year Prison Sentence
                                                                        • 00:07:29 — Making a Plan Instead of Giving Up
                                                                        • 00:09:13 — Rebuilding His Body in Prison
                                                                        • 00:12:14 — The Lesson John’s Father Taught Him About Quitting
                                                                        • 00:16:55 — Entering Prison at 24
                                                                        • 00:18:31 — Facing Temptation After Prison
                                                                        • 00:19:40 — Losing His Brothers to Addiction
                                                                        • 00:21:16 — Turbulence and the Power of Service Dogs
                                                                        • 00:26:21 — Turning His Story Into a TEDx Talk
                                                                        • 00:29:46 — Finding Purpose Through Speaking and Service
                                                                        • Closing CTA
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                                                                          ***************************************************************************

                                                                          If You Need Support, Reach Out

                                                                          If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.

                                                                          • United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.org
                                                                          • Canada: Call or Text 988 — 988.ca
                                                                          • Worldwide: Find a Helpline
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                                                                          33 min
                                                                        • Noah: From Depression and Suicidal Thoughts to Finding His Voice Through Podcasting

                                                                          What happens when years of depression, anxiety, bullying, and feeling like an outsider finally meet a microphone? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Noah May to talk about surviving some of his darkest moments, finding connection when he needed it most, and discovering that using his voice through podcasting could become part of his healing.

                                                                          Awards & Downloads
                                                                          Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.
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                                                                          Mental Health Quote
                                                                          “Stay strong and don’t let it all bring you down. You got to keep fighting.” — Noah May
                                                                          Episode Description
                                                                          Noah May has been navigating depression since he was 13 and anxiety since he was 18, but his story is about more than diagnoses. It’s about what happens when loneliness, bullying, complicated family history, and feeling like you don’t belong start shaping the way you see yourself — and what can happen when you finally find a way to speak back.

                                                                          In this deeply personal conversation, Noah joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about growing up without his biological father, learning the painful circumstances surrounding his conception, being bullied by classmates, and wondering whether he was ever good enough. He also opens up about starting therapy, struggling to be completely honest during those early sessions, and later realizing that healing sometimes requires finding the right outlet — not just following someone else’s version of what recovery should look like.

                                                                          For Noah, one of those outlets became podcasting.

                                                                          After graduating from Auburn University with a journalism degree, Noah faced another familiar fear: What if all that work had been for nothing? Instead of giving up, he leaned harder into creating. Today, he hosts three podcasts — Lethal Venom, Music Talks, and Southern Reads — and uses his platform to tell the truth, connect with people, and create the kind of space he once needed himself.

                                                                          Noah’s story reminds us that life rarely follows the damn plan. Sometimes healing looks like therapy. Sometimes it looks like friendship. Sometimes it looks like music, books, or sitting behind a microphone and finally saying the things you’ve carried for years.

                                                                          Keywords: Noah May, depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, mental health recovery, podcasting and mental health, bullying recovery, loneliness, finding your voice, emotional healing, therapy, young adult mental health, mental health advocacy, overcoming adversity, healing through storytelling

                                                                          Meet Our Guest — Noah May
                                                                          Noah May is an Auburn University graduate with a bachelor’s degree in journalism and the host of three podcasts: Lethal Venom, Music Talks, and Southern Reads. After navigating depression, anxiety, bullying, loneliness, and periods of suicidal thinking, Noah turned his experiences into a reason to speak openly and create conversations where others can feel seen, heard, and less alone.

                                                                          Website: https://www.noahspodcasts.com/

                                                                          Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/713902225134300
                                                                          Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenoahshowww
                                                                          LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/noah-c-may
                                                                          TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenoahshowww
                                                                          X: https://www.x.com/noahspodcasts
                                                                          YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/noahspodcasts

                                                                          Lethal Venom:

                                                                          https://noahspodcasts.com/lethal-venom

                                                                          Music Talks:

                                                                          https://noahspodcasts.com/music-talks

                                                                          Southern Reads:

                                                                          https://noahspodcasts.com/southern-reads

                                                                          Key Takeaways
                                                                          • Your past can shape you without getting the final say in who you become.
                                                                          • Depression and anxiety can make you feel isolated, but hearing someone else’s story can remind you that you aren’t the only one carrying heavy shit.
                                                                          • Finding the right mental health support may take time, honesty, and sometimes more than one therapist or healing approach.
                                                                          • Creative expression can become a powerful emotional outlet when you've buried feelings for years.
                                                                          • Supportive friendships can completely change the way we experience difficult seasons.
                                                                          • Life rarely unfolds exactly according to plan, and that doesn’t mean you failed.
                                                                          • Actionable Items
                                                                            • Find one safe outlet where you can say what you’ve been holding back — whether that’s therapy, journaling, podcasting, voice notes, art, or a trusted person.
                                                                            • Take inventory of the people around you. Pay attention to who makes you feel supported, heard, and able to be yourself.
                                                                            • When your original plan falls apart, ask yourself, “What can I build with what I have right now?” instead of automatically assuming you failed.
                                                                            • Important Chapters
                                                                              • 00:00 — Meet Noah May
                                                                              • 01:45 — Noah’s Childhood and Family Story
                                                                              • 06:38 — Bullying and Growing Up Without a Father
                                                                              • 08:11 — Depression and Anxiety Begin
                                                                              • 09:12 — Starting College During COVID
                                                                              • 12:52 — Why Noah Chose Journalism
                                                                              • 15:00 — Turning a Dream Into Podcasting
                                                                              • 16:38 — Podcasting as a Therapeutic Outlet
                                                                              • 19:59 — Building Three Podcasts
                                                                              • 21:05 — Music and Mental Health
                                                                              • 23:14 — Rediscovering Reading
                                                                              • 26:15 — Therapy and Learning to Open Up
                                                                              • 28:28 — Giving Anxiety a Theme Song
                                                                              • 29:53 — Advice to Noah’s 12-Year-Old Self
                                                                              • 30:52 — The Hardest Lesson Noah Has Learned
                                                                              • 32:15 — Noah’s Favorite Word
                                                                              • 33:32 — Where to Find Noah
                                                                              • Closing CTA
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                                                                                • Worldwide: Find a Helpline
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                                                                                37 min

                                                                              About Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

                                                                              From the publisher's feed

                                                                              ”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a podcast that emerged from G-Rex’s personal mental health journey, starting with a breakdown in 2022. Supported by her wife, 988, and a higher power, G-Rex found…

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