What does secure love actually look like? Dr Amir Levine explores what it really means to build a relationship that feels safe, flexible and deeply connected. Amir goes beyond the labels of anxious, avoidant and secure to explain how security is created in everyday relationships.

In the final part of this three-part series, Amir challenges one of the most debated ideas in modern relationships, shares why even secure people can shift depending on who they’re with, and reveals how a secure partner can help reshape the way we see the world.

We’re Talking Attachment Styles with Dr Amir Levine (Part Three)

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(00:00) Intro

(01:43) Dr Amir Levine Breaks Down Why Relationships Don’t Need Boundaries

(04:50) Can One Shift From a Secure Attachment to an Unsecure One?

(07:08) Dr Amir Levine Describes His Childhood Environment

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(10:48) How Did Dr Amir Levine's Upbringing Affect the Man He Is Today?

(11:48) What Is Dr Amir's Attachment Style to the Different People in His Life?

(14:12) What Is the Best Strategy as a Parent to Raise a Secure Child?

(16:37) Most Memorable Conversation

(18:33) Paul’s Takeaways

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