The Midlife Makeover Show | Women Over 40, Menopause Support, Divorce Recovery, Empty Nest Advice, Aging Gracefully, Finding Purpose

The Midlife Makeover Show | Women Over 40, Menopause Support, Divorce Recovery, Empty Nest Advice, Aging Gracefully, Finding Purpose

By Wendy Valentine - Podcaster, Author & Midlife CoachEducationSelf-Improvement
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The Midlife Makeover Show | Women Over 40, Menopause Support, Divorce Recovery, Empty Nest Advice, Aging Gracefully, Finding Purpose episodes

  • 317 💛 How to Start Over After Loss — Rebuilding Identity, Confidence, and Purpose with Mia Godfrey

    How to Start Over After Loss — Rebuilding Identity, Confidence, and Purpose in Midlife | Mia Godfrey

     

    What happens when life knocks you down—not once, but again and again? In this powerful and heartfelt conversation, Wendy sits down with life coach, speaker, and author Mia Godfrey to talk about grief, identity loss, and the courage it takes to start over. From losing her father at 18, to rebuilding her life after the death of her husband, to walking alongside her sister through ovarian cancer, Mia shares how each breakdown became a breakthrough. Together, they explore how to release survival mode, stop shrinking to belong, and rebuild confidence from the inside out—because midlife isn’t the end of your story… it may be the beginning of your most authentic chapter yet.

     

    ✨ What You’ll Learn

    • How to shift out of survival mode and move into intentional living
    • Why adapting doesn’t mean abandoning who you are
    • Practical tools for rebuilding confidence after grief or major life transitions
    • How to identify your non-negotiable values and stop shrinking to fit in
    • The power of journaling, therapy, and surrounding yourself with the right people
    •  

      🎧 Tune in now at https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com or wherever you listen to podcasts!

       

      👉 Connect with Mia!

      https://miagodfrey.com/
      https://www.facebook.com/mihaela.hembree/
      https://www.instagram.com/mnhembree/
      Buy the book! http://amazon.com/author/miagodfrey

       

      🌟 Explore All Things Midlife

      https://wendyvalentine.com

       

      📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

      https://womenwakingup.com

       

      📸 Follow My Adventures on IG

      https://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

       

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      https://wendyvalentine.substack.com/

      1 hr 4 min
    • 316 🌟 Embracing Authenticity in Midlife: From Pain to Purpose, Healing, and Finding Meaning in the Mess with Erin Washington

      In this deeply honest and soul-stirring conversation, Wendy sits down with author, speaker, and podcast host Erin Washington to talk about healing eating disorders, navigating divorce, rethinking sobriety, and finally stepping into authenticity. Together, they explore how the very struggles we try to hide—body image issues, abandonment wounds, people-pleasing, anxiety, and relationship triggers—often become the doorway to purpose. From inner child work and dating after divorce to blue butterfly synchronicities and finding your “exceptional” calling, this episode is a reminder that the mess isn’t a detour… it’s the path.

       

      💫 What You’ll Learn

      • Why the thing you’re avoiding may actually be your greatest superpower
      • How unresolved childhood wounds show up in midlife relationships and dating
      • The difference between being “excellent” and stepping into your true “exceptional” purpose
      • How to sit with uncomfortable emotions instead of suppressing them
      • Why authenticity attracts the right relationships—and misalignment reveals itself faster
      •  

        Let this be your reminder: the struggle is shaping you, the triggers are teaching you, and your purpose is waiting on the other side of honesty.

         

        🎧 Tune in now

        https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com

         

        ✨ Watch the video replay

         https://midlifology.net

         

        👉 Connect with Erin

        https://www.instagram.com/therinpy_with_erin_washington/

         

         

        🌟 Explore All Things Midlife

        https://wendyvalentine.com

         

        📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

        https://womenwakingup.com

         

        📸 Follow My Adventures on IG

        https://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

        1 hr 8 min
      • 315 ✨ DIY Spirituality for Modern Seekers: Chart Your Own Sacred Path — Faith Freed

        What if spirituality didn’t require rules, labels, or a rigid belief system? In this uplifting and refreshingly real conversation, Wendy sits down with licensed psychotherapist and author Faith Freed to explore DIY Spirituality — a playful, empowering approach to charting your own sacred path.

         

        Together, they dive into soul care versus self-care, building a spiritual “playlist” that fits your life, balancing the mystical with the practical, and why you actually have to take action (yes, baby steps count!) to co-create with the universe. If you’ve ever felt spiritually curious but resistant to dogma, this episode will help you tune into your own frequency and reconnect with your true self.

         

        What You’ll Learn

        • How to create your own “DIY spirituality” practice without guilt, pressure, or labels
        • Why midlife is the perfect time to question beliefs and reconnect with your soul
        • The power of sacred habits — and how to build your own spiritual playlist
        • How to balance spiritual connection with real-world action (co-creation in motion!)
        • Why tuning into yourself is the first step to tuning into something greater
        •  

          🎧 Tune in now at https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com or wherever you listen to podcasts!

           

          👉 Connect with Faith

          https://faithfreed.com

          https://diyspirituality.com  

           

          🌟 Explore All Things Midlife

          https://wendyvalentine.com

           

          📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

          https://womenwakingup.com

           

          📸 Follow My Adventures on IG

          https://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

           

          📝 Get Weekly Inspiration on Substack

          https://wendyvalentine.substack.com/

          1 hr 7 min
        • 314 🛏️ The Bedroom Gap: Menopause, Hormones, and Intimacy After 40 — Dr. Maria Sophocles

          In this powerful and refreshingly honest conversation, Wendy sits down with Dr. Maria Sophocles, menopause expert and author of The Bedroom Gap, to talk about what’s really happening to our bodies, hormones, and intimate relationships in midlife.

           

          From hormone replacement therapy and surgical menopause to desire, pleasure, and closing the “bedroom gap,” this episode busts outdated myths, delivers science-backed truth, and offers real hope for feeling better—physically, emotionally, and relationally—at this stage of life.

           

          What You’ll Learn:

          • Why hormone replacement therapy (HRT) is about more than symptom relief—it’s about long-term health
          • The truth about menopause, bone health, brain health, and longevity
          • What the “bedroom gap” is and why it widens in midlife relationships
          • How intimacy, connection, and pleasure can evolve (and improve) after 40
          • Simple, empowering ways to reclaim confidence and connection in this chapter of life
          •  

            🎧 Tune in now at https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com or wherever you listen to podcasts!

             

            👉 Connect with Dr. Maria

            https://mariasophoclesmd.com



            🌟 Explore All Things Midlife

            https://wendyvalentine.com

             

            📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

            https://womenwakingup.com

             

            📸 Follow My Adventures on IG

            https://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

             

            📝 Get Weekly Inspiration on Substack

            https://wendyvalentine.substack.com/

            1 hr 5 min
          • 313 🤫 The Cost of Quiet: How to Speak Up, Set Boundaries, and Reconnect in Relationships — Colette Fehr

            In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Wendy sits down with licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert, and author Colette Fehr to explore The Cost of Quiet—what really happens when we stay silent in our relationships. From people-pleasing and conflict avoidance to emotional disconnection and self-abandonment, Colette shares why “keeping the peace” often comes at a much higher price than we realize. Together, they unpack how learning to speak up—clearly, calmly, and compassionately—can transform not just our relationships, but our health, confidence, and connection to ourselves.

             

            What You’ll Learn

            • Why avoiding conflict can slowly erode intimacy and emotional connection
            • The hidden physical and emotional costs of staying silent
            • How to speak up without exploding—or abandoning yourself
            • What self-connected communication looks like in real life
            • Why midlife is the perfect time to reclaim your voice and your boundaries
            •  

              🎧 Tune in now at https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com or wherever you listen to podcasts!

               

              👉 Connect with Colette

              https://www.colettejanefehr.com

               

              🌟 Explore All Things Midlife

              https://wendyvalentine.com

               

              📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

              https://womenwakingup.com

               

              📸 Follow My Adventures on IG

              https://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

               

              📝 Get Weekly Inspiration on Substack

              https://wendyvalentine.substack.com/

               

              1 hr 4 min
            • 312 💛 Stop Hustling, Start Healing: Break Free from Toxic Productivity, Burnout & Perfectionism — Israa Nasir

              In this powerful and deeply relatable conversation, Wendy sits down with psychotherapist and author Israa Nasir to unpack the hidden cost of hustle culture and why so many of us—especially in midlife—feel exhausted, disconnected, and never quite “enough.”

               

              Together, they explore toxic productivity, perfectionism, burnout, and self-worth, while offering compassionate, practical insights on how to slow down, reset your relationship with work, and create a more sustainable, fulfilling life—without guilt.

               

              What You’ll Learn

              • What toxic productivity really is—and the subtle signs it’s running your life
              • How self-worth, perfectionism, and people-pleasing fuel burnout
              • The difference between being busy vs. being truly productive
              • Why boundaries alone aren’t enough (and what to address first)
              • How to shift from hustle-driven living to healthier, value-aligned productivity
              •  

                🎧 Tune in now at https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com or wherever you listen to podcasts!

                 

                ✨Read the blog:  312 💛 Stop Hustling, Start Healing: Break Free from Toxic Productivity, Burnout & Perfectionism — Israa Nasir at https://wendyvalentine.com/break-free-from-toxic-productivity/

                 

                👉 Connect with Israa

                https://www.israanasir.com/toxic-productivity

                https://israanasir.substack.com/
                https://www.instagram.com/well.guide/

                 

                🌟 Explore All Things Midlife

                https://wendyvalentine.com

                 

                📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

                https://womenwakingup.com

                 

                📸 Follow My Adventures on IG

                https://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

                 

                📝 Get Weekly Inspiration on Substack

                https://wendyvalentine.substack.com/

                54 min
              • 311 💔 Gray Divorce, Marriage Crisis, and the Five Stages of a Dying Marriage — Dr. Becky Whetstone

                In this powerful and heartfelt episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Dr. Becky Whetstone to talk honestly about marriage crisis, gray divorce, and what happens when one partner wants out and the other doesn’t.

                 

                Together, they unpack the emotional reality behind ending a marriage, the five stages of a dying relationship, and why divorce doesn’t have to mean destruction—especially when children are involved. This conversation is compassionate, eye-opening, and filled with practical wisdom for anyone navigating the crossroads of love, loss, and midlife reinvention.

                 

                What You’ll Learn

                • The five stages of a dying marriage and how to recognize where you are
                • Why so many couples stay stuck in limbo—and how to break free
                • What gray divorce is and why it’s rising in midlife
                • How managed separation can prevent unnecessary emotional damage
                • What it really takes to create a more amicable, child-centered divorce
                •  

                  ✨ A must-listen if you’re questioning your marriage, facing divorce, or supporting someone who is.

                   

                  🎧 Tune in now at https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com or wherever you listen to podcasts!

                   

                  ✨Read the blog: 311 💔 Gray Divorce, Marriage Crisis, and the Five Stages of a Dying Marriage — Dr. Becky Whetstone at https://wendyvalentine.com/5-stages-of-a-dying-marriage/  

                   

                   👉 Connect with Becky

                  https://marriagecrisismanager.com
                  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/doctorbecky/

                  New program! https://marriagecrisismanager.com/product/two-month-marriage-crisis-oversight-coaching-accelerated-intensive/

                   

                  🌟 Explore All Things Midlife

                  https://wendyvalentine.com

                   

                  📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

                  https://womenwakingup.com

                   

                  📸 Follow My Adventures on IG

                  https://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

                   

                  📝 Get Weekly Inspiration on Substack

                  https://wendyvalentine.substack.com/

                  59 min
                • 310 🌸 Cooch Care 101: Stop Leaks, Restore Pelvic Floor Health & Reclaim Confidence with the Cooch Ball — Jana Danielson

                  In this laugh-out-loud (and oh-so-needed) conversation, Wendy Valentine sits down with pelvic floor + perimenopause educator Jana Danielson to talk about what’s really going on “down there” in midlife—leaks when you sneeze, painful intimacy, constipation, tight hips, anxiety, and that constant feeling that your body is changing without your permission.

                   

                  Jana breaks down pelvic floor basics in a way that finally makes sense, busts the biggest myth about “core strength,” explains why Kegels often backfire, and shares simple, practical tools (including her Cooch Ball + breathwork) to help you feel more confident, comfortable, and connected to your body again.

                   

                  What you’ll learn

                  • The most common signs of a too-tight vs. too-weak pelvic floor (and why most women are tighter than they think)
                  • Why Kegels can make things worse—and what to do instead to restore real function
                  • How breathing (diaphragm + pelvic floor) impacts leaks, urgency, and even stress/anxiety
                  • The surprising connection between pelvic floor health and constipation, hip/back pain, posture, and circulation
                  • A simple daily approach (yes, minutes!) to support pelvic floor strength, relaxation, and pleasure/confidence in perimenopause and menopause
                  •  

                     

                    🎧 Tune in now at https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com or wherever you listen to podcasts!

                     

                    ✨Read the blog:  310 🌸 Cooch Care 101: Stop Leaks, Restore Pelvic Floor Health & Reclaim Confidence with the Cooch Ball — Jana Danielson at https://wendyvalentine.com/restore-pelvic-floor-health/ 

                     

                    👉 Connect with Jana

                    Get your Cooch Ball and get healthy! https://bloombetter.life/wendy

                    https://www.instagram.com/jana.danielson/

                    https://janadanielson.com/

                     

                    🌟 Explore All Things Midlife

                    https://wendyvalentine.com

                     

                    📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

                    https://womenwakingup.com

                     

                    📸 Follow My Adventures on IG

                    https://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

                     

                    📝 Get Weekly Inspiration on Substack

                    https://wendyvalentine.substack.com/

                     

                    1 hr 8 min
                  • 309 🍷 How Alcohol Impacts Anxiety, Sleep, Mood, and Hormones with Dr. Brooke Scheller

                    What really happens in your brain, hormones, mood, and body when alcohol becomes part of your nightly routine? In this episode, Wendy welcomes back fan-favorite Dr. Brooke Scheller for her third appearance to break down alcohol’s real impact—far beyond “just the liver.” Together, they talk about why alcohol can be a tough topic to discuss, how it may fuel anxiety, depression, and hormone chaos (especially in midlife), and how nutrition can help restore and repair the body so you feel better, crave less, and step back into your power.

                     

                    What You’ll Learn
                    • Why alcohol is harder on your body than most people realize—and how it can affect every organ
                    • How alcohol can impact anxiety, mood, and brain chemistry (and why some people feel better when they cut back)
                    • The connection between alcohol and hormones, cortisol, blood sugar, and menopause/perimenopause symptoms
                    • How alcohol can disrupt gut health and the microbiome, contributing to IBS, constipation, and inflammation
                    • Why it doesn’t have to be “all or nothing”—and how to approach cutting back from a place of empowerment
                    •  

                      🎧 Tune in now at https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com or wherever you listen to podcasts!

                       

                      👉 Connect with Dr. Brooke

                      Website: https://www.brookescheller.com

                      Get Dr. Brooke's FREE 3-Day Nutrition Plan to Support Your Alcohol-Free Goals: https://www.brookescheller.com/3dayplan
                      IG: @drbrookescheller.com

                       

                      🌟 Explore All Things Midlife

                      https://wendyvalentine.com

                       

                      📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

                      https://womenwakingup.com

                      54 min
                    • 308 🌟 How Breathwork Can Reduce Anxiety, Release Trauma, and Transform Your Life with Kurtis Lee Thomas

                      In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, Wendy Valentine sits down with Kurtis Lee Thomas, one of the world’s leading corporate mindfulness and breathwork trainers, to explore how something as simple as breathing can create profound shifts in mental, emotional, and physical well-being.

                       

                      Kurtis shares his personal healing journey, explains why breathwork detox is different from meditation and traditional breath practices, and shows how deep diaphragmatic breathing can help release stored stress, trauma, and anxiety—quickly and naturally.

                       

                      What You’ll Learn

                      • Why most people are breathing incorrectly—and how it impacts stress, anxiety, and health
                      • How deep diaphragmatic breathwork can release stored emotions and trauma
                      • The difference between breathwork detox, meditation, and maintenance breathing techniques
                      • Why breathwork can create immediate, noticeable results after just one session
                      • Simple breathing practices you can use anytime to calm your nervous system and feel more grounded
                      •  

                        🎧 Tune in now at https://TheMidlifeMakeoverShow.com or wherever you listen to podcasts!

                         

                        ✨Read the blog: 308 🌟 How Breathwork Can Reduce Anxiety, Release Trauma, and Transform Your Life with Kurtis Lee Thomas at https://wendyvalentine.com/reduce-stress-and-release-trauma/

                         

                        👉 Connect with Kurtis Lee Thomas

                        https://www.linkedin.com/in/manfromthestars/

                        www.Instagram.com/ManFromTheStars
                        www.BreathworkDetox.com

                         

                        🌟 Explore All Things Midlife & More

                        https://wendyvalentine.com

                         

                        📖 Order Your Copy of Women Waking Up

                        https://womenwakingup.com

                         

                        📸 Follow My Midlife Adventures on IG!

                        https://www.instagram.com/hellowendyvalentine/

                         

                        📝 Get Weekly Midlife Inspiration on Substack

                        https://wendyvalentine.substack.com/

                        49 min

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