Are your migraines actually a side effect of perfectionism?

In this episode of Migraine Heroes Podcast, host Diane Ducarme explores the hidden connection between the pressure to control everything and the body’s pain response. Through both neuroscience and Eastern medicine, you’ll discover why the relentless drive to “get it right” can quietly keep your nervous system in survival mode.

You’ll learn:

💡 How perfectionist tendencies create chronic neurological stress that lowers your migraine threshold

💡 Why the need for control often roots back to fear, grief, or unmet emotional safety—and how awareness helps you release it

💡 Tools from neuroscience and Traditional Chinese Medicine to loosen control without losing your sense of self

💡 How softening the mind’s grip can actually strengthen your body’s resilience

This episode is for anyone who feels the constant hum of pressure beneath their migraines—the achievers, the caretakers, the ones who never rest until everything is perfect. Healing begins not in doing more, but in learning how to let go.

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References:

• Perfectionism and Nonsuicidal Self-Injury: Pressing Issues and Promising Research Directions, Clinical Psychology Review (2022):This review highlights how perfectionism, rigid self-standards, and emotional suppression increase vulnerability to distress and how these psychological patterns overlap with migraine triggers such as stress, rumination, and nervous-system dysregulation. Read more here.
• Perfectionism, Worry, Rumination, and Distress: A Meta-Analysis: A 2019 meta-analysis in Personality and Individual Differences by Xie Y., Kong Y., and Yang J. confirmed that perfectionistic thinking strongly predicts worry and rumination—mechanisms that sustain emotional distress and somatic tension, relevant to migraine chronification. Read more here.
• Migraine: Multiple Processes, Complex Pathophysiology: A 2015 review in The Journal of Neuroscience by Burstein R., Noseda R., and Borsook D. described migraine as a multisystem disorder involving sensory, emotional, and vascular networks—bridging psychological stress and neural sensitization. Learn more here.
• Chronic Migraine Pathophysiology and Treatment: A 2021 article in Frontiers in Pain Research by Mungoven T.J. et al. outlined the neuroinflammatory and neuroplastic changes that maintain chronic migraine, emphasizing how behavioral and emotional regulation affect pain pathways. Read the full article here.
• Migraine – A Common, Chronic Neurologic Disorder: A 2022 review in Nature Reviews Disease Primers summarized current understanding of migraine’s complex biology, including genetics, cortical excitability, and environmental stressors, positioning migraine as a systemic neurobehavioral disorder. Read more here

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not substitute for providing medical advice. Always consult your healthcare professional before making any health-related decisions.

For women, men, and children who suffer from migraine disease, Migraine Heroes is your go-to resource for understanding, managing, and overcoming migraine attacks.

We cover all types of migraines and related headaches, including primary and secondary migraines, chronic migraines, and cluster migraines. We dive deep into the complexities of migraine with aura and migraine without aura, as well as rarer forms like hemiplegic migraine, retinal migraine, and acephalgic migraine (silent migraine). Our discussions also extend to cervicogenic headaches, ice pick headaches, and pressure headaches, which often mimic migraine or contribute to overall migraine burden.