The Rebuilt Man

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  • What Every Man Needs To Know About Lust, Freedom, & Identity (Q&A Episode) | Ep. 290

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    Listen to Q&A Episode 1 - https://pod.link/1719651103/episode/ZjViMGViOTQtNjk3MS00NTBkLTkwNTktZThlYzg1NWM1NGM3

    In this Q&A episode, Coach Frank Rich sits down with Coach Arnold Czirbrik, Head Coach inside The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood, to answer two powerful questions from men walking the journey to freedom:

    1️⃣ How do I stop lust and objectification in the real world after quitting porn? 2️⃣ Why do I always relapse after 7 days, no matter how hard I try?

    This episode goes beyond surface-level tactics. Frank and Arnold dive deep into the identity, neuroscience, and heart transformation behind real recovery.

    Frank explains how lust is not a behavior problem; it's a heart problem and why the real battle isn't about resisting harder, but reshaping the way you see yourself and others. You'll learn how to appreciate beauty without objectifying it, and how faith, awareness, and purpose play key roles in walking out lasting freedom.

    Arnold shares his personal story of transformation from addiction to leadership, breaking down why "glorified abstinence" isn't freedom. Together, they unpack the subconscious belief loops and upper limit patterns that keep men stuck in the 7-day relapse cycle and how to finally break through for good.

    If you're a man serious about rebuilding your mind, body, and spirit; this episode will shift the way you see recovery forever.

    What You'll Learn in This Episode:

    • Why removing porn doesn't automatically remove lust

    • The difference between abstinence and real freedom

    • How to see women as beautiful, not sexualized objects

    • Why your subconscious might be sabotaging your streak

    • The truth about "upper limits" and the 7-day relapse cycle

    • How to reprogram your mind and reshape your heart through daily action

    • The importance of identity transformation over behavior management

    Mentioned in This Episode:

    • Wired for Intimacy — Dr. William Struthers

    • The Big Leap — Gay Hendrix

    • The Six Pillars of Intimacy — Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

    Favorite Quotes:

    "Freedom doesn't come from avoiding lust—it comes from reshaping your heart."

    "You can appreciate beauty without participating in it."

    "Abstinence isn't recovery. Until you change who you are, you'll always return to what you do."

    Connect & Take Action

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

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    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    30 min
  • 15 Brutal Questions To Understand Your Porn Addiction | Ep. 289

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    Most men spend years trying to quit porn without ever understanding why they're addicted in the first place.

    In this powerful solo episode, Coach Frank Rich breaks down the deeper truth behind porn addiction, revealing that it's not just a behavior issue, but an identity, emotional, and spiritual one.

    Through 15 brutally honest questions, Frank helps you uncover the root causes of your struggle, confront the lies keeping you stuck, and take your first real step toward lasting freedom.

    These are the same questions hundreds of men have used inside The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood to expose their triggers, rewire their beliefs, and rebuild their lives from the inside out.

    If you've ever asked yourself, "Why do I keep going back?" This episode will give you the clarity and conviction to finally move forward.

    In This Episode, You'll Learn:

    • Why quitting porn isn't about willpower, it's about identity transformation

    • How the story you tell yourself after relapse determines your future

    • The emotional patterns and triggers that drive your addiction

    • What porn is actually giving you and how to replace it with real fulfillment

    • Why your environment and daily habits matter more than motivation

    • How isolation feeds addiction (and why brotherhood is the cure)

    • The brutal cost of staying stuck and how to build the man you were born to be

    Key Takeaways:

    • Most men try to quit porn without addressing the root causes

    • Addiction is a symptom of disconnection; from self, emotion, and God

    • Emotional awareness is the first step toward healing

    • Regret of unlived potential is scarier than relapse

    • Brotherhood turns isolation into accountability and growth

    • Transformation only happens when you commit to the process

    Connect & Take Action

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    –

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    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    13 min
  • Overcoming Porn Addiction & Creating A Super Human Life (Altared Manhood) | Ep. 288

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    Check out the Altared Manhood podcast - https://www.youtube.com/@AltaredManhood

    On this special edition of The Rebuilt Man podcast, we're sharing a recent conversation Coach Frank had with Ralph Johnson, Jerry Batista, and Tim Couet on the Altared Manhood podcast. In this conversation, Coach Frank shares the transformation and journey from being a high performing and driven bodybuilder and entrepreneur struggling with porn addiction to finding his faith in Christ and eventually finding freedom from pornography. It was that journey that led Frank down the path of launching The Super Human Life podcast in July of 2019 and creating The Rebuilt Man, which has led over 1700 other men down the path to freedom as well.

    Connect & Take Action

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    –

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    1 hr
  • The Hidden Link Between Nice Guy Syndrome & Porn Addiction | Ep. 287

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    Most men think they watch porn because they're horny... but the truth runs much deeper.

    In this powerful episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich exposes the hidden connection between Nice Guy Syndrome and porn addiction and why so many men stay stuck in cycles of shame, avoidance, and false comfort.

    You'll learn how cultural conditioning trains men to suppress their truth, perform for approval, and seek validation through pleasure instead of purpose. Porn becomes the safe escape for the Nice Guy, a place where he can feel desired without ever facing rejection, risk, or reality.

    Frank breaks down how this pattern weakens masculine power, destroys intimacy, and keeps men spiritually numb and more importantly, how to break free.

    Through truth, brotherhood, and structure, you can learn to confront fear head-on, reclaim your masculine edge, and live as the man God created you to be.

    Expect to Learn:

    • Why most men don't watch porn out of lust but out of fear

    • How Nice Guy Syndrome creates avoidance, passivity, and emotional disconnection

    • The real reason porn feels safe and why it's destroying your confidence

    • Why love without truth is manipulation

    • How reclaiming masculine aggression and integrity restores power

    • The role of brotherhood in lasting transformation

    • Why structure, discipline, and truth are the foundation of freedom

    Key Takeaways:

    • Porn isn't about desire, it's about avoiding truth and rejection

    • Nice Guys seek comfort over confrontation and that's what keeps them weak

    • False intimacy through porn leads to shame and disconnection

    • Masculine strength is built through truth, boundaries, and courage

    • Brotherhood and accountability are the antidotes to isolation

    • Freedom requires structure, discipline, and a clear mission

    • The world doesn't need more Nice Guys… it needs Rebuilt Men

    Connect & Take Action

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    –

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    10 min
  • 15 HIDDEN MISTAKES That Keep Men From Quitting Porn for Good | Ep. 286

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    Most men trying to quit porn are doing it wrong.

    They rely on willpower. They isolate. They treat symptoms instead of getting to the root.

    In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes 15 of the most common mistakes men make when trying to quit porn and why these traps keep even high-performing men stuck in a cycle of relapse, shame, and frustration.

    You'll discover:

    • Why quitting porn is NOT about willpower

    • How to stop relying on short-term fixes and step into true transformation

    • The role of identity, brotherhood, and vision in long-term freedom

    This isn't just about quitting a habit, it's about becoming the man you were created to be.

    If you're serious about getting free from porn and finally breaking the cycle for good, this episode will give you the clarity, conviction, and roadmap to do it.

    Top Takeaways:

    • Quitting porn requires rewiring your brain, not just resisting harder

    • Isolation keeps you stuck, freedom happens in community

    • You must replace the habit, not just remove it

    • A relapse is feedback, not failure

    • Transformation doesn't happen "someday"... it starts now

    Connect & Take Action

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    –

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    15 min
  • How to Quit Porn for Good: Triggers, Honesty & The Real Path to Freedom (Q&A Episode) | Ep. 285

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    In this first-ever Rebuilt Man Q&A, Coach Frank Rich is joined by Head Coach Arnold Czibrik to answer real questions from men inside the Brotherhood community and audience.

    They tackle three powerful questions every man in the struggle has asked:

    1️⃣ Why can't I stop watching porn?

    2️⃣ How do I tell my wife about my addiction without breaking her heart?

    3️⃣ Why do I get triggered out of nowhere?

    Frank and Arnold break down the mindset shifts, practical steps, and deep truths every man needs to hear if he's serious about walking in freedom. Expect raw honesty, biblical wisdom, and real solutions to help you stop fighting lust and start rebuilding your life.

    Expect to Learn

    • Why asking better questions leads to breakthrough

    • How radical honesty rebuilds trust in marriage

    • The truth about "random triggers" and emotional awareness

    • How to move from victim mentality to full ownership

    • Why desire—not discipline—is the real key to freedom

    Powerful Quotes

    "You don't beat porn by fighting harder — you beat it by outgrowing the man who needs it."

    "Radical honesty is painful at first, but it's the only path to rebuilding trust."

    "Triggers don't come out of nowhere — they come from a lack of awareness."

    Connect & Take Action

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    –

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    33 min
  • Faith, Fitness, & Freedom From Porn w/ Drew Boa (Husband Material) | Ep. 284

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    In this special episode of The Rebuilt Man, we're sharing a conversation with Coach Frank and Drew Boa from the Husband Material podcast.

    Drew Boa is the founder and CEO of Husband Material Ministries, where he helps men outgrow porn. He is also the author of Redeemed Sexuality (IVP, 2017) and the host of the Husband Material podcast. Drew is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP) and a Certified Brainspotting Practitioner (BSP). Drew enjoys living in Colorado and going on adventures with his wife and kids.

    In this conversation, Coach Frank and Drew discuss Frank's early journey into both fitness and recovery coaching. Frank shares how it was overcoming challenges in both areas of his life that lead him down the path of coaching others. Drew ask Frank what role fitness and nutrition play in recovery from porn addiction and the two discuss challenges currently in the industry.

    📢 Call to Action

    Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

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    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    37 min
  • 2,420 Days Porn Free: The 3 Pillars That Transformed My Life | Ep. 283

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    It's been 2,420 days since the last time I looked at porn. That single decision didn't just change my life, it gave me peace, clarity, focus, and freedom I never thought possible.

    In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, I'm pulling back the curtain on exactly what shifted in me, and the same frameworks that have helped over 1,700 men break free and rebuild their lives.

    Here's what you'll learn today:

    • Why trying to "just quit" never works and the real shift that leads to lasting freedom.

    • How surrounding yourself with the right men will pull you up to a higher standard.

    • Why fulfillment is never found in getting, but in giving.

    • The handful of daily habits that will rewire your brain and transform your life.

    If you're tired of relapsing, sick of shame, and ready to step into the man God created you to be, this is for you.

    Key Takeaways

    • You don't beat porn by quitting a behavior—you beat it by becoming a new man.

    • Brotherhood and accountability are non-negotiable. Alone, you'll stay stuck.

    • Porn makes men selfish. Freedom makes you a man of service.

    • My Daily Five habits are the backbone of lasting change: gratitude, reflection, outdoor connection, no snooze, and growth.

    • True peace comes when you're no longer carrying secrets.

    📢 Call to Action

    Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

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    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    11 min
  • 5 Proven Steps to Beat Porn Urges Before They Beat You | Ep. 282

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    Every relapse starts the same way, with an urge you didn't know how to handle. The truth is, over 80% of relapses happen not because your urges are too strong, but because you didn't have a plan.

    In this episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich shares a proven 5-step playbook to help you crush urges in the moment, retrain your brain, and start living as the man God created you to be.

    You'll learn how to: ✅ Create a predefined plan that sets you up for victory

    ✅ Identify your real triggers (it's not just lust—it's your state of mind)

    ✅ Build powerful self-regulation tools to calm stress & anxiety

    ✅ Change your environment so you stop losing in the same old places

    ✅ Use breathwork to reframe urges and restore rational thought

    These aren't just "tips"—they're proven strategies backed by science, discipline, and the real-world transformations of men who've walked this path. Every small victory stacks, builds momentum, and rewires your identity as a man of freedom.

    📢 Call to Action

    Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.

    ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset

    –

    Follow Coach Frank:

    IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich

    YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich

    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    13 min
  • A Biblical Discussion On Overcoming Porn Addiction w/ Grace Family Church | Ep. 281

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    In this special episode of The Rebuilt Man, we're sharing a conversation that Coach Frank had with the pastors at Grace Family Church on their podcast, The Pastor's Hangover. This conversation explores the impact that pornography is having on men inside the church and aims at reframing how men are viewing this struggle as well as providing real practical insights to help them fight this battle. Coach Frank, Mason Cain of Unchained Leader, and Pastors Hal Mayer & Darly Black also discuss the how porn is effecting the youth today and what wives should do if their husbands are strugglig with porn addiction.

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    Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    56 min

About The Rebuilt Man

From the publisher's feed

Welcome to The Rebuilt Man, I'm Coach Frank, founder of Rebuilt Recovery and we exist here to help you become a better man, by quitting porn, and rebuilding your life. My life changed in 2019 when I finally found freedom from a 20+ year addiction to pornography, and I've made it my mission since that day to help other men, just like me & you, find the freedom you deserve.

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