John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords for episode 44 where they discuss the different types of responsibilities a Dominant and a submissive can have in a relationship.

In this episode:

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* Responsibilities to your relationship aren’t a kink thing, they’re a people thing.

* Some responsibilities are definitely D/s, though.

* John Brownstone discusses his responsibilities in our relationship.

* Protection

* Helping me.

* Taking care of me when I’m sick.

* Financial responsibilities

* Helping me achieve my personal and professional goals.

* Taking care of his “toy”

* My responsibilities as a submissive are just as important.

* Making sure my tasks are completed.

* Making sure I keep myself healthy and whole – which at this point means I’ll be meeting with a therapist to deal with some of the mental gunk that’s been weighing me down.

* Communicating my needs and when something is wrong.

* Our biggest responsibility is to each other – to take care of the other in the best way we can.

* Those responsibilities are no less important when life gets stressful and hectic.

* In the crazy moments life throws you, sometimes your D/s relationship and sense of responsibility is the only moment of calm you have. Cling to it like a life preserver.

* Sometimes that responsibility is too much, and one or both of you won’t be able to maintain it. There is no right answer.

Links from the show:

Kink Aware Professionals

Financial Control in Our D/s Relationships

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