Velvet Rope Playbook

The Reverse Referral


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In this episode of The Velvet Rope Playbook, we’re exploring one of the most misunderstood principles in high-end client attraction:

Availability signals status—and too much of it signals the wrong kind.

Meet Lena Verrano, a private banker in Santa Monica whose voicemail rarely gets returned…

Not because she’s unprofessional—

But because she’s intentional.

Her message?

“Thank you for reaching out. At this time, Lena is focused on serving existing clients. New inquiries are reviewed quarterly by referral only.”

No urgency.

No pitch.

No link to schedule.

And yet—her calendar is full.

Her clients stay.

And her name moves softly through corridors of quiet wealth.

In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why selective availability builds desirability in the luxury market
  • How to structure scarcity without being unapproachable
  • The subtle signals that make you feel like “someone worth waiting for”
  • Why affluent clients don’t chase availability—they chase alignment
  • How to create brand boundaries that elevate your presence, not limit it

🎁 Want to attract high-net-worth clients without chasing them, discounting yourself, or being “always on”?

Get your free copy of The Affluent Marketing Blueprint—my Amazon #1 best-selling book—at 👉 GetWealthyClients.com


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