In this episode, we invite back our friends and counselors, Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, to talk about the crucial role of boundaries in restoring marriages after betrayal, particularly sexual infidelity. Matthew shares insights from the perspective of the betraying spouse, emphasizing self-reflection and accountability, while Joanna offers guidance for the betrayed spouse on navigating emotions and setting personal boundaries. 

We delve into defining boundaries as supportive frameworks rather than punishing limitations, avoiding misuse of boundaries for control, and harmonizing them to foster safety and mutual respect. The Raabsmiths highlight the importance of individual responsibility and how boundaries can create a safe space for healing and rebuilding trust.

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Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Importance of boundaries in marriage restoration after betrayal
• Definition and positive framing of boundaries in relationships
• Distinction between healthy boundaries and manipulative or controlling behaviors
• Role of individual responsibility in setting and maintaining boundaries
• Challenges faced by the betrayed spouse in establishing boundaries
• The necessity for the betraying spouse to take accountability and establish their own boundaries
• Navigating fear and emotional responses related to boundary setting
• Strategies for harmonizing boundaries to support both partners and the relationship
• Addressing boundary violations and the importance of introspection
• Establishing new habits and structures to support healthy boundaries in the relationship

More Resources:

• Building True Intimacy* by Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith
• Renewing Us Recovery
• Renewing Us Couples Retreat

Related Podcasts:

• Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After Betrayal
• The Need for Boundaries After Betrayal
• Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Betrayal

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