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In today’s episode, I chat with Trevor Hanson, a marriage and family therapist who specializes in attachment issues. Trevor opens up about his personal journey, sharing how his own struggles inspired his work. 

We discuss the origins and fluidity of attachment styles, practical steps to move from anxious to secure attachment, and the importance of self-compassion in healing. Trevor introduces his TEMPO framework and offers resources to help you take your next step toward secure attachments. I found it to be an insightful, encouraging conversation for anyone wanting to better understand themselves and build healthier relationships.

To learn more about Trevor and his resources, visit TheArtofHealingbyTrevor.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Personal journey of Trevor with anxious attachment
• Influence of attachment styles on relationships
• Overview of different attachment styles and their origins
• Importance of understanding attachment dynamics in personal development
• Fluidity of attachment styles and the potential for change
• Signs and symptoms of anxious attachment
• The cycle of anxious attachment and its impact on behavior
• Strategies for moving from anxious to secure attachment
• The role of emotional experiences in healing attachment issues
• Resources and support for individuals seeking to address attachment-related challenges

More Resources:

• From Anxious to Secure (free seminar)
• Sex and Anxiety (online course)
• Know Your Boundaries (free workshop)

Related Podcasts:

• Understanding Your "Flipped Out" Brain
• Moving from Being Fear-Driven to Love-Driven
• How Early Development Trauma Shapes Addiction and Recovery

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In this episode, we have back with us on the program Dr. Eddie Capparucci, counselor and co-author of Going Deeper for the Betrayed Partner.* Our topic of conversation is to explore the journey of healing from betrayal trauma, especially for women who have experienced infidelity. 

Dr. Eddie shares his unique inner child model, helping us understand how past wounds shape our emotional responses today. Together, we discuss practical tools for managing difficult feelings, the importance of self-compassion, and how both partners can support each other on the path to recovery. It’s an honest, hopeful conversation about reclaiming your sense of self and finding healing after deep hurt.

For more information about Dr. Eddie and his resources, visit AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com or search for “Going Deeper books” on Amazon.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Definition and significance of betrayal trauma, particularly in marital relationships.
• The emotional impact of infidelity on individuals, especially women.
• Introduction and explanation of the inner child model as a therapeutic approach.
• The connection between unresolved childhood wounds and adult emotional responses.
• Differentiation between sexual betrayal and other forms of betrayal (e.g., financial, emotional).
• The importance of recognizing and nurturing the inner child for healing.
• Strategies for managing emotions and shifting from emotional responses to rational thinking.
• Addressing common objections and validating emotions while assessing their accuracy.
• Encouragement for both partners in a relationship affected by betrayal to support each other.
• Resources and tools for further exploration of betrayal trauma and inner child work.

More Resources:

• Going Deeper for the Betrayed Partner*
• Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction*
• Wives Care Online Groups

Related Podcasts:

• Emotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed Wives
• Betrayal Trauma Healing (PSR Podcast Bundle)
• Helping a Wife Heal

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In this episode, I sit down with one of our favorite guests, Cat Etherington from the Naked Truth Project to explore how early developmental trauma shapes addiction and relationships. Cat shares her personal recovery story and explains how childhood experiences—both big and small—can impact our sense of self and coping strategies. 

We discuss the importance of understanding both our emotional memories and objective truths, and why healing means digging deep into our pasts. Together, we encourage listeners to move beyond blame and embrace the journey toward genuine healing and freedom.

Visit NakedTruthProject.com for resources from Cat and her team.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Impact of early developmental trauma on addiction and relationships
• Definition and categorization of developmental trauma: "big T" and "little t" traumas
• Coping mechanisms developed in response to unresolved trauma
• Connection between developmental trauma and addiction behaviors
• Importance of identity formation in recovery from addiction
• Navigating subjective versus objective realities in parenting and child development
• The role of emotional experiences in shaping self-perception and behavior
• Healing processes involving revisiting childhood experiences and narratives
• Moving beyond blame to understand personal experiences and emotions
• Encouragement for confronting past traumas as a pathway to healing and recovery

More Resources:

• Find a Counselor
• Intensive for Men
• Intensive for Women

Related Podcasts:

• The Interplay of Body, Mind, and Spirit in Porn Addiction Recovery
• Addressing Childhood Trauma in Men
• The Immanuel Approach in Recovery

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In this episode, I sit down with Matt Cline from Restored Ministries to talk about what it means to have a Jesus-centered sexuality. We explore how inviting Jesus into our struggles with sexual brokenness—like addiction, infidelity, or shame—can lead to real healing and freedom. 

Matt shares practical steps, personal stories, and encouragement for anyone feeling stuck, reminding us that Jesus offers hope, grace, and transformation. We also discuss the importance of open conversations in the church and share resources for those seeking support on their journey to wholeness.

To learn more about Matt and the resources from his ministry, visit RestoredMinistries.ca.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Concept of "Jesus-centered sexuality"
• Importance of placing Jesus at the core of sexual desires and experiences
• Focus on helping individuals overcome sexual brokenness, including pornography addiction and infidelity
• The role of emotional trauma in sexual struggles and the need for healing through a relationship with Jesus
• Spiritual understanding of sexuality versus worldly perspectives
• The significance of inviting Jesus into moments of temptation and desire
• Practical steps for cultivating a Jesus-centered life, particularly in sexuality
• The impact of shame and guilt on pursuing a Jesus-centered approach
• The promise of freedom and hope in overcoming sexual sin
• Resources and support available for individuals seeking healing and wholeness through faith

More Resources:

• 40 Days of Purity for Men (online course)
• 40 Days of Purity for Women (online course)
• Church & Sexuality Survey

Related Podcasts:

• Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity
• Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?
• The Power of Community

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In today’s episode, which I think is appropriate to release on Independence Day, I sit down with Mike Mudry as he bravely shares his journey through pornography addiction and its impact on his marriage. We talk openly about the pain of living a double life, the relief that comes with honesty, and the life-changing power of community and accountability. 

Mike’s story is raw and real—he reminds us that healing happens when we’re vulnerable and supported by others. I hope his experience encourages you to seek authentic connection and take your own next step toward wholeness and freedom.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Mike Mudry's personal journey of recovery from pornography addiction.
• Early exposure to pornography and its impact on Mike's understanding of sexuality.
• The emotional challenges faced in marriage due to hidden struggles with addiction.
• The revelation of Mike's secret behaviors and its effect on his relationship with his wife.
• The importance of seeking help and accountability in the recovery process.
• The role of group work and community support in overcoming personal challenges.
• The concept of true accountability and its significance in personal growth.
• The journey from living a double life to embracing authenticity and honesty.
• The necessity of community in the healing process and the dangers of isolation.
• Encouragement for others to seek supportive groups and take risks in their recovery journey.

More Resources:

• Find a Group
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men
• 40 Days of Purity Online Course

Related Podcasts:

• How Group Work Will Transform Your Recovery Journey
• One Year Later
• Men Helping Men Grow and Mature

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In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I explore the idea of men being “under sad”—when we struggle to recognize or express sadness. We talk about why grieving is essential for emotional health, not just in big losses but in everyday disappointments. 

Stephen shares some practical ways to support others in their sadness and encourages us to embrace vulnerability, compassion, and even prayer. Together, we explore that facing our sadness leads to deeper connection, healing, and a more restful, authentic life.

For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• The concept of being "under sad" and its implications for emotional awareness, particularly among men.
• The significance of grieving as a necessary process for emotional health and personal growth.
• Societal norms that discourage men from expressing sadness, leading to emotional suppression.
• The dual nature of strength and vulnerability in navigating emotions.
• The importance of integrating grieving into daily life as a means of processing emotions.
• The role of sadness in fostering deeper connections and empathy with others.
• Practical advice for supporting others in their moments of grief and sadness.
• The concept of compassion as "suffering with" someone and its importance in healing.
• The potential of prayer and spiritual connection in processing sadness and finding solace.
• A call to action for individuals to embrace their sadness for emotional wholeness and fulfillment.

More Resources:

• A Sacred Sorrow* by Michael Card
• Gentle and Lowly* by Dane Ortlund
• Emotional Training for Men (Grieving)

Related Podcasts:

• Sadness and Hope - The Dynamic Duo of Personal Growth
• Men's Emotional Self-Awareness Test
• Why Men Need to Practice Sadness

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Carol Tanksley to explore the true meaning of intimacy—beyond just sexuality. Dr. Carol shares updates about her ministry’s amazing new space for healing and intensives, called Transformation Place. 

In our conversation, we discuss the universal need for connection with God and others. Dr. Carol offers practical steps for building deeper relationships, overcoming fear and shame, and embracing vulnerability. 

We also highlight several resources for anyone seeking healing from sexual brokenness. 

To check out some of these resources from Carol, visit DrCarolMinistries.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Exploration of the significance of intimacy in human relationships.
• Discussion on the connection between intimacy, sexuality, and sexual brokenness.
• Updates on Dr. Tankersley's ministry and the establishment of a new physical space for events.
• Definition of intimacy as "seeing and being seen, knowing and being known."
• Importance of relational intimacy beyond sexual intimacy.
• Identification of common obstacles to experiencing true intimacy, such as shame and emotional walls.
• Practical steps for cultivating intimacy with God and others.
• Emphasis on the value of vulnerability and authenticity in relationships.
• Discussion of non-sexual aspects of intimacy, including sensory experiences and physical touch.
• Resources and tools for further support in the journey toward intimacy and healing.

More Resources:

• A 5-Step Prescription for Sexual Healing - God's Way
• Online Sexpectations Course
• In-Person Small Group Intensives

Related Podcasts:

• Exploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol Tanksley
• What Are Your Sexpectations?
• What is Oneness and Why Does It Matter in Your Life?

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In this episode, I sit down with Nick Stumbo, director of Pure Desire Ministries, for an honest conversation about sexual brokenness and the impact of pornography, especially within the Christian community. We dive into new research from Pure Desire and the Barna Group, titled Beyond the Porn Phenomenon, revealing surprising trends and the ongoing struggle many face in silence. 

Nick shares insights from the research on breaking shame, creating safe spaces in churches, and practical ways parents and leaders can support healthy conversations about sexuality. Together, we explore how compassion and openness can lead to real healing and hope.

To learn more and get a copy of the research mentioned in this episode, visit PureDesire.org/barna.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Discussion of sexual brokenness, particularly related to pornography use.
• Personal experiences of a pastor struggling with pornography.
• Overview of the research project "Beyond the Porn Phenomenon" conducted with the Barna Group.
• Examination of updated data on pornography use and its effects on individuals and relationships.
• Challenges faced by churches in addressing sexual brokenness and providing support.
• Development of resources for parents and youth leaders to discuss sexuality with teenagers.
• Insights into the disconnect between spiritual health and sexual behavior among Christians.
• Statistics highlighting the prevalence of pornography use and the lack of support for individuals struggling with it.
• The importance of creating safe spaces in churches for open discussions about sexual issues.
• Encouragement for proactive engagement in conversations about sexuality and support for those in need.

More Resources:

• Beyond the Porn Phenomenon Church Toolkit
• Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom from Porn
• Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men

Related Podcasts:

• New Research on Why Women View Porn
• What Can We Learn from Lust?
• Understanding God's Design for Sex in Today's Confused Culture

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In this episode, I sit down again with Phil and Priscilla Fretwell to explore what true intimacy in marriage really means. Together, we unpack how family backgrounds, vulnerability, and faith shape our ability to be fully known and fully loved. 

Phil and Priscilla share their honest journey through their marriage struggles, healing, and the importance of spiritual and emotional connection—not just physical closeness. 

We also touch on how intimacy matters for everyone, married or single. Join us for an honest, heartfelt conversation about growing closer, supporting each other, and finding wholeness in our relationships.

To learn more about Phil and Priscilla and their resources for couples, visit SavageMarriageMinistries.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• The significance of intimacy in marriage and relationships.
• The evolution of understanding intimacy from a religious to a spiritual perspective.
• Misconceptions surrounding intimacy, particularly the equating of intimacy with sexual activity.
• The influence of family backgrounds on perceptions of intimacy.
• The impact of secrets and emotional barriers on relationships.
• The journey of recovery and healing in the context of intimacy.
• The role of vulnerability in fostering deeper connections.
• The purpose of intimacy in modeling love and support within families.
• The relevance of intimacy for singles and its application beyond marriage.
• Resources for further exploration of intimacy and relationship dynamics.

More Resources:

• Savage Marriage* by Phil & Priscilla Fretwell
• Savage Marriage Study Guide* by Phil & Priscilla Fretwell
• Coaching with Phil & Priscilla

Related Podcasts:

• A Journey of Redemption and Healing
• The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight
• God, Sex, and Your Marriage

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In today’s episode, I welcome back Garry Ingraham from Love and Truth Network to discuss the challenges of parenting in a hypersexualized culture. We dive into the importance of modeling healthy, godly behaviors and values, and how parents can create a nurturing environment for their children. 

Garry shares insights from his ministry, emphasizing the need for open communication and proactive measures in addressing identity and sexuality issues. We also explore the biblical perspective on parenting, encouraging parents to embrace their role with faith and hope, fostering a supportive environment for their children's growth and identity development.

To learn about the resources Garry offers, visit LoveAndTruthNetwork.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Challenges parents face in a hypersexualized culture
• Importance of parental roles in shaping children's identities
• Biblical perspective on parenting and its significance
• Creating a positive family culture and environment
• Navigating identity issues in children
• Open communication between parents and children
• Addressing topics like pornography and sexuality with children
• The role of personal accountability and growth for parents
• Encouragement for overwhelmed parents
• Resources and support for parents from organizations like Love and Truth Network

More Resources:

• Love and Truth Network Summits
• Six Critical Conversations to Have With Your Kids
• God's Design for Sex Series* by Stan and Brenna Jones

Related Podcasts:

• PSR Podcast Bundle for Families on Identity
• Navigating Identity and Sexuality: A Compassionate Approach for Parents
• How Parents Can Leverage their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue Integrity

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