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In this episode, I sit down with returning guest Ashley Jameson, a sex educator and author of the new book "Girl Talk." We dive into why it’s so important for moms to have honest, ongoing conversations with their daughters about sex, even when it feels awkward or scary. 

Ashley shares personal stories, up-to-date research, and practical tips for starting these talks early, addressing common fears, and becoming a safe, trusted source for your kids—especially as they face pressures from peers, social media, and early exposure to pornography. If you’re a mom of a daughter, you won’t want to miss this conversation.

For more info on Ashley and the book, go to PureDesire.org.

• Importance of open communication between mothers and daughters about sexuality.
• Challenges and fears mothers face when discussing sex with their daughters.
• The risks of not addressing sexual topics early in a child's life.
• Insights from personal experiences and research on youth exposure to pornography.
• The role of parents as primary sources of information regarding sexual topics.
• The significance of starting conversations about sex at a young age.
• The impact of societal pressures and media on children's understanding of sexuality.
• Strategies for creating a safe environment for discussions about sex.
• The need for resources like the book "Girl Talk" to guide these conversations.
• The universal nature of curiosity and struggles related to sexuality among youth.

• Girl Talk* by Ashley Jameson
• Critical Conversations FREE online course
• 7 Tips for Parents (free download in English and Spanish)

• Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and Sexuality
• Parenting in a Hypersexualized and Identity Confused Culture
• Helping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships

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In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes to explore why so many of us feel stuck in our personal growth, especially men facing addiction and relational struggles. We share honest stories about excuses, limiting beliefs, and the deep fears that hold us back—like failure, rejection, and not feeling good enough. 

Together, we unpack how faith, hope, and community can help us move forward, break old cycles, and embrace the growth God has for us. We were created for “abundant life” and this means we all need a growth mission throughout life.

To get daily insights from Stephen Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Theme of personal growth and overcoming feelings of being "stuck"
• Emotional, spiritual, and relational growth, particularly for men in recovery
• Common barriers to growth, including self-doubt, comparison, overwhelm, and confusion
• The role of personality and perspective in personal development
• Connection between past experiences and current struggles
• The significance of community and accountability in the growth process
• Exploration of limiting beliefs and excuses that hinder progress
• Discussion of core fears that contribute to feeling stuck, such as fear of failure, rejection, and abandonment
• Encouragement to embrace growth through curiosity, faith, and taking action despite discomfort

More Resources:

• 49 Days of Growth* by Stephen Cervantes
• Emotionally Healthy Spirituality* by Peter Scazzero
• Personal Ministry Consultation

Related Podcasts:

• PSR Bundle for Men: Emotional Growth
• How to Turn Emotional Triggers Into Opportunities for Growth
• For Men Who Want to Finish Strong

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In this episode, I reconnect with KathyGrace Duncan, who briefly shares her remarkable journey of living as a man for 11 years before finding transformation and true identity in Christ. The bulk of our conversation focuses on what it means to move from “head knowledge” of identity in Christ to “heart belief,” exploring how God renews our minds and hearts through Scripture, prayer, and community. 

KathyGrace offers practical wisdom on embracing our true identity in Christ, overcoming old patterns, and living as those who are permanently loved by God. It’s an honest, hope-filled conversation about ongoing transformation and the freedom found in God’s love.

For more info on KathyGrace and navigating identity issues, visit PortlandFellowship.com and ChangedMovement.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Testimony of living as a man for 11 years despite being biologically female.
• Transformation and redemption through faith in Jesus Christ.
• Involvement in ministry work, particularly in women's and transgender ministry.
• Exploration of identity in Christ and its cultural and spiritual significance.
• Biblical perspectives on identity, referencing scriptures from 1 Peter, Ephesians, Galatians, and Romans.
• Concepts of the "old man" and the "new man" in relation to personal transformation.
• The process of renewing the mind and its importance in spiritual growth.
• Distinction between intellectual knowledge and heartfelt belief in God’s truth.
• The role of prayer and community in facilitating ongoing transformation.
• Encouragement to embrace one's identity in Christ and live out that truth.

More Resources:

• Identity: What Foundation Are You Building On?* by John Fort
• Identity in Christ* by Neil T. Anderson
• Love Thy Body* by Nancy Pearcey

Related Podcasts:

• Embracing God's Image in Gender
• Changed: The Amazing Transformation of a Former Lesbian Pastor
• Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity

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In this episode, I welcome back Matthew  and Joanna Raabsmith to dive into their “Three Phases of Couple Recovery” model for healing from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. Together, we explore the Recovery, Restoration, and Renewal phases—discussing how couples can move from crisis and individual healing to rebuilding trust, intimacy, and shared purpose. 

Joanna and Matthew share practical tips, emphasize the importance of trauma-informed support, and encourage patience with the non-linear journey of recovery. Whether you’re just starting in recovery or seeking restoration and renewal for your relationship, their insights offer hope and guidance for every step of the process.

To learn more about Matthew and Joanna and their marriage resources, visit RaabsmithTeam.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• The three phases of couple recovery: Recovery, Restoration, and Renewal.
• The Recovery phase focuses on individual healing and establishing safety after betrayal or addiction.
• The importance of trauma-informed support during the Recovery phase.
• The emotional intensity and relational work involved in the Restoration phase.
• The concept of "couple grieving" as a unified process for both partners.
• The role of forgiveness in the Restoration phase and its timing.
• The ongoing nature of the Restoration phase and the potential for revisiting earlier work.
• The Renewal phase as an opportunity to build a new relationship and shared purpose.
• The significance of designing rituals of connection and exploring shared dreams in the Renewal phase.
• The non-linear nature of recovery, emphasizing patience and awareness throughout the process.

Read Blog Post: The Three Phases of Couples Recovery - and What Kind of Help You Need in Each

More Resources:

• Renewing Us Couples Retreat (Nov 14-16)
• Couples and Individual Coaching
• Couples Group Program

Related Podcasts:

• Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After Betrayal
• The Role of Boundaries in Marriage Restoration
• Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery to talk about sexual discipleship in parenting. Juli shares insights from her new book, "Surrendered Sexuality," and explains how sexual discipleship is an ongoing, grace-filled journey—much deeper than traditional sex education. 

We discuss the unique role parents play in shaping their kids’ understanding of sexuality, the importance of modeling both truth and grace, and how surrender, not perfection, is the goal. Juli encourages parents to embrace their own growth and trust God’s grace in the process. It’s a hopeful, practical conversation for every parent.

To learn more about Juli and get her resources, visit AuthenticIntimacy.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Definition and distinction between sexual discipleship and sex education.
• The role of parents as primary influencers in their children's understanding of sexuality.
• Importance of integrating biblical truth and grace in parenting.
• Goals of parenting from a biblical perspective, including passing on a godly heritage.
• The significance of daily life moments in teaching children about sexuality.
• The impact of cultural views on sexuality and the need for a biblical worldview.
• The concept of surrender in the context of sexual discipleship and parenting.
• The necessity for parents to engage in their own sexual discipleship journey.
• The importance of transparency and humility in parenting.
• Resources available for parents to support their journey in sexual discipleship.

More Resources:

• Surrendered Sexuality* by Dr. Juli Slattery
• Rethinking Sexuality* by Dr. Juli Slattery
• Critical Conversations (FREE online course)

Related Podcasts:

• What is Sexual Discipleship?
• The Sex Talk You Never Got
• Parenting in a Hypersexualized and Identity-Confused Culture

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Stephen Cervantes to talk about the lifelong journey of emotional growth, especially for men. We introduce a practical tool—the phrase, “The God in me is bigger than the fear in you”—to help you stay centered and respond thoughtfully when facing criticism or negativity. 

We explore how compassion and faith can transform tough interactions, and encourage you to make this simple tool a habit for deeper emotional growth. Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. We’re here to support you as we all grow stronger and more resilient, together.

For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Emotional growth as a lifelong journey, particularly for men.
• The significance of practical tools for handling criticism and negativity.
• Introduction of the phrase: "The God in me is bigger than the fear in you" as an emotional growth tool.
• The importance of centering oneself and regulating emotions in challenging situations.
• Recognizing fear as a root cause of negative behavior in others.
• Encouraging compassion over combativeness when faced with attacks.
• Application of the emotional growth tool in various scenarios of criticism and insults.
• The effectiveness of the phrase as an internal statement rather than a verbal response.
• The role of faith in managing difficult interactions and emotional responses.
• Building a habit of emotional regulation through repetition of the phrase.

More Resources:

• Emotionally Healthy Spirituality* by Peter Scazzero
• Seven Desires* by Mark & Debra Laaser
• Find a Counselor

Related Podcasts:

• 50 Things to Do When Your Fear Gets Triggered
• How to Learn (and Respond to) Your Fear System
• Unoffendable: How Your Response to Criticism Affects Your Emotional Maturity

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In this episode, I sit down with Garrett Kell, pastor and author of Pure in Heart: Sexual Sin and the Promises of God. Garrett opens up about his journey from struggling with sexual sin—even as a pastor—to finding freedom through confession, restoration, and God’s grace. 

We discuss the biblical meaning of purity, the importance of honesty and community, and practical ways to pursue God’s pleasures over fleeting temptations. Garrett’s story is honest and hope-filled, reminding us that real change is possible when we rely on Christ and walk in the light together.

You can get a copy of Garrett’s book, in English, Spanish, or Thai, at Crossway.org or Amazon.com*.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Personal journey of faith and struggles with sexual sin, including pornography.
• The process of confession, restoration, and ministry in pastoral leadership.
• Importance of honesty and transparency in overcoming sexual sin.
• Biblical foundation of purity and its definition as a heart orientation.
• Distinction between abstaining from sin and actively pursuing God.
• Practical examples for pursuing God's pleasures in daily life.
• The role of accountability and faith in God's promises.
• Understanding God's design for sex and its significance in marriage.
• Identifying and combating the enemies of purity: the flesh, the world, and the devil.
• The connection between identity in Christ and living a life of purity.

More Resources:

• Pure in Heart: Sexual Sin and the Promises of God* by Garrett Kell
• Help for Men
• Help for Women

Related Podcasts:

• Reframing How the Church Views Sexual Purity
• From Porn Pastor to Pure Desire
• The Heart Cry of an Old Saint: I Want to Be Clean!

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In this episode, I sit down with Emmanuel and Samridh, two amazing ministry leaders from India, to talk about their personal journeys of overcoming pornography addiction and how they now help pastors and young church leaders find freedom. 

We discuss the unique cultural challenges of shame and secrecy around sexuality in India, and how their Celebrate Freedom seminar, which is based on our Gateway to Freedom intensive for men, is breaking new ground by creating safe, supportive spaces for honest conversation and healing. Emmanuel and Samridh share practical insights, stories of hope, and invite anyone struggling to reach out for support and community.

To connect with Emmanuel and Samridh, visit their YouTube channel @unaddressed.podcast or Instagram @unaddressed.crew.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Personal stories of struggle with pornography addiction among ministry leaders.
• The cultural challenges of discussing sexuality and pornography in India, including shame and honor dynamics.
• The lack of practical counseling and support for pastors dealing with sexual sin.
• The importance of creating safe spaces for open discussions about struggles with pornography.
• The adaptation of recovery programs to fit the Indian cultural context, including the use of personal stories and relevant examples.
• The role of community and accountability in the recovery process.
• The impact of societal expectations on pastors' willingness to admit struggles.
• The need for ongoing support and follow-up after initial recovery programs.
• The significance of addressing both male and female perspectives in discussions about pornography and sexual exploitation.
• The message of hope and encouragement for those struggling with addiction, emphasizing connection and transparency.

More Resources:

• Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for men
• 40 Days of Purity for Men online course
• 40 Days of Purity for Women online course

Related Podcasts:

• Restoring Broken Pastors for Kingdom Use
• Navigating the 3 Stages of Recovery from Porn Addiction
• Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?

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In this episode, I welcome back Vern Tompke to discuss the evolving challenges men face in recovering from pornography addiction. We dive into this concept of “edging”—using social media  or other kinds of media for arousal without fully acting out—and how today’s digital landscape complicates recovery. 

Vern shares his personal journey, practical strategies, and the importance of daily connection and removing triggers. Together, we explore the biological, emotional, and spiritual sides of addiction, emphasizing that true recovery isn’t just about avoidance, but about pursuing a richer, more connected life.

To learn more about Vern and the resources he has, visit BandofBrothers.care.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• The concept of "edging" in relation to pornography addiction and recovery.
• Vern Tompke's personal journey with pornography addiction and his transition into helping others.
• The impact of social media platforms on recovery and the new challenges they present.
• The biological, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of addiction and recovery.
• The importance of daily connection and accountability in the recovery process.
• The distinction between "red," "yellow," and "green" behaviors in the context of recovery.
• The role of dopamine and intermittent reinforcement in addiction and recovery.
• The necessity of replacing unhealthy behaviors with positive activities.
• The misconception that recovery is solely about avoiding pornography.
• The long-term journey of recovery and the importance of pursuing a fulfilling life beyond addiction.

More Resources:

• Finding Traction Course
• Finding Traction Podcast
• Integrity Webinar for Men

Related Podcasts:

• Navigating the Three Stages of Recovery from Porn Addiction
• The Stopwatch Acting Out Cycle
• A 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional Growth

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In this episode, I welcome back Tammy Gustafson, a licensed counselor and betrayal trauma coach, to explore two really tough situations wives face after sexual betrayal: the “roommate scenario,” where the husband isn’t working on recovery, and “incomplete recovery,” where progress is inconsistent. 

Tammy shares heartfelt advice on setting boundaries, focusing on self-care, and shifting attention from the husband’s actions to the wife’s own healing. We discuss the importance of deep character change, not just behavior, and offer practical steps for finding support and reclaiming joy. 

If you can resonate with either (or both) of these scenarios, we want you to know that healing and thriving are possible, even in the midst of these challenging recovery circumstances.

To learn more about Tammy and her resources, visit BetrayalHealing.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Discussion of the "roommate scenario" where a wife remains in a marriage despite her husband's lack of commitment to recovery.
• Emotional challenges faced by wives in limbo due to financial dependence, children, or personal beliefs against divorce.
• Importance of establishing healthy boundaries and focusing on self-care for emotional well-being.
• The concept of "incomplete recovery," where the husband shows some effort but remains inconsistent, causing confusion and pain for the wife.
• The emotional toll of navigating uncertainty and mixed signals in the recovery process.
• Distinction between sobriety and deeper character transformation necessary for true healing.
• Encouragement for wives to set high expectations for their husband's recovery, looking for genuine changes in behavior and character.
• The role of curiosity and new language from husbands as indicators of real progress in recovery.
• Practical advice for wives on maintaining clarity, protecting their hearts, and seeking support from safe individuals.
• Resources and support available for women dealing with betrayal and navigating their healing journey.

More Resources:

• Betrayal Healing Coaching with Tammy
• Wives Care Groups for Betrayal Trauma Healing
• Basics Webinar for Wives

Related Podcasts:

• The Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma Healing
• Identifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed Wife
• The Recovery Process for Couples

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