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The Sex Talk Men Never Got with Sam Jolman(135)

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Therapist and author Sam Jolman joins Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill to discuss the topic of masculine sexuality. They discuss the ways men’s sexual identities are shaped by early experiences, cultural messages, and religious teachings. Sam shares stories and insights on how men can reclaim their sexuality by embracing vulnerability, addressing shame, and learning to see sex as a form of play rather than performance. The conversation also touches on common challenges in sexual relationships, the importance of open communication, and how better sexual education can lead to deeper emotional connections.

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Connect with Sam:

  • Sam Jolman: https://www.samjolman.com/ 
  • Sam on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/samjolman/ 
  • Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/samjolmancounseling 
  • Sam’s Substack - the heart of it: https://samjolman.substack.com/
  • The Sex Talk You Never Got by Sam Jolman: https://tinyurl.com/4s7b47pr 
  • Story Formed by Sam Jolman: https://tinyurl.com/53sy8amx

    • Chapters:

    • 00:00:00 – Setting the Stage: Why This Episode Stands Out
    • 00:01:38 – Meet Sam Jolman: A New Voice in Masculine Sexuality
    • 00:03:48 – Redefining Masculine Sexuality Through Personal Stories
    • 00:06:52 – Real-Life Experiences That Shape Our Sexual Identity
    • 00:09:55 – Why Sexual Education Is More Important Than Ever
    • 00:14:03 – Navigating Challenges in Today’s Sexual Relationships
    • 00:20:20 – The Strength in Vulnerability: Opening Up About Sexuality
    • 00:25:01 – How to Clearly Communicate Your Sexual Needs
    • 00:27:29 – Breaking Down Sexual Play and Its Importance in Relationships
    • 00:28:28 – Understanding the Boundaries: Consent and Desire
    • 00:29:37 – The Neurological Basis for Play and Vulnerability
    • 00:32:32 – The Root of Miscommunication in Sexual Relationships
    • 00:34:24 – Overcoming Fear and Embracing Playfulness in Intimacy
    • 00:47:13 – The Hidden Power of Non-Sexual Play in Strengthening Bonds
    • 00:48:37 – Wrapping It Up: Key Takeaways from the Conversation
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