The Talking Tradesman

In this episode, Ben Butler shares his powerful story of growing up in a predominantly white area as a mixed-race child, facing racism, violence, and family turmoil. He discusses his journey through childhood trauma, involvement in crime, and the impact of drugs and violence on his life. Find Ben Here - https://www.instagram.com/newgenerationcoaching?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Ben reflects on his experiences in football hooliganism and the challenges of navigating identity and acceptance. Ultimately, he emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing mental health issues within the context of his life story. In this conversation, the speaker reflects on a tumultuous past filled with violence, substance abuse, and the impact of loss. They discuss their experiences in prison, the friendships formed, and the journey towards forgiveness and self-acceptance. The speaker emphasizes the importance of transforming trauma into purpose by mentoring the next generation and helping others navigate similar struggles. The conversation highlights the complexities of identity, the challenges of life after prison, and the ongoing journey of healing and personal growth.Pre-order Bens upcoming book - Misunderstood here https://marcia-m-publishing-house.sumupstore.com/product/misunderstood-by-ben-butler-preorder Thanks to our Headline Sponsors Zinsser ukEpisode Sponsors - Wooster ukQ1 Tapes Abode Academy

In this episode, Big Rob, a full-time OnlyFans creator, shares his unique journey into the adult content industry, discussing his background, previous careers, and the challenges he faces in a saturated market.

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His content primarily caters to the gay community, despite being a straight man

He opens up about his mental health struggles, the importance of community support, and his aspirations for the future, including a fundraising walk for cancer research. The conversation delves into the dynamics of fan interactions, personal boundaries in content creation, and the significance of finding purpose in life.

In this episode, John Skelton, a decorator from the Isle of Man, shares his journey of establishing his business amidst personal and financial struggles.

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He discusses the unique challenges of running a business in a small community, the importance of branding, and the impact of personal loss on his professional life. John emphasizes the significance of community support and the loyalty of customers in the Isle of Man, while also addressing the difficulties of scaling a business and the realities of being self-employed.

He reflects on his aspirations for the future and the opportunities that lie ahead. In this conversation, the speakers delve into various themes including the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences, the challenges of parenthood, coping with loss, aspirations for business growth, the value of skilled trades, the potential for regulation in the industry, and the mental health crisis within the construction sector.

They share personal experiences and insights, emphasising the significance of hard work, resilience, and self-care.

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One Year, One incredible Return ! A Year ago, Stacey sat in the studio and told me there would be a day jack would be sat her too, at that time he was recovering from a life changing stroke.Today, that moment became real. Find Jack and Stacey here - https://www.instagram.com/trademarkdigitaluk?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==In this episode of Talking Tradesman, Russell Payne sits down with Jack and Stace from Trademark Digital, a marketing agency tailored for the trades. They discuss the evolution of their business, the importance of effective marketing in the trades, and Jack's personal journey of overcoming a stroke. The conversation highlights the significance of branding, resilience, and the impact of social media on the construction industry. As they share their experiences, they emphasise the need for tradespeople to adapt to the changing landscape and the potential for growth through collaboration and support.Thanks to our headline sponsors ZinsserEpisode sponsors - Monarch & Abode Academy Chapters00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview01:38 Trademark Digital: Bridging Trades and Marketing05:35 The Importance of Branding and Marketing in Trades10:31 Understanding the Impact of Marketing on Business Growth14:42 Jack's Journey: From Carpenter to Entrepreneur24:20 Overcoming Adversity: Jack's Stroke Experience39:31 Life Lessons and New Perspectives Post-Stroke39:59 Family First: A New Perspective43:15 Mindset Matters: Overcoming Adversity50:01 Identity Shift: From Carpenter to Marketer54:35 The Role of AI in Marketing01:00:56 The Future of Technology and Its Impact01:10:45 Resilience and Growth: A Journey Together01:18:27 Building a Legacy: The Importance of Community01:25:41 NEWCHAPTER

This conversation delves into the life of Aaron Ashton, a bare-knuckle boxer, as he shares his journey through mental health challenges, childhood trauma, and the transformative power of fighting.

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The discussion highlights the importance of resilience, the impact of family dynamics, and the evolution of fighting culture in modern society. Aaron's personal experiences illustrate how boxing became a means of coping with loss and finding purpose, ultimately leading to self-discovery and growth.

In this conversation, the speaker delves into the intense world of bare-knuckle boxing, sharing personal experiences and insights about the thrill of fighting, the transition from gloved boxing, and the physical and mental challenges faced in the sport. The discussion also highlights the importance of community, accountability, and personal growth, emphasizing how these elements contribute to a fighter's journey and legacy.

The Aaron reflects on the significance of finding purpose beyond the ring and the role of supportive relationships in overcoming struggles.

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In this episode, Gary Quinn returns to discuss his journey of overcoming significant trauma from his childhood, including abuse and loss. Find Gary here - https://www.instagram.com/quality_brushstrokes?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==He reflects on his growth over the past 18 months, sharing insights on personal development, the fear of happiness, and navigating complex family dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of resilience, self-acceptance, and the impact of mental health on personal relationships. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of family dynamics, trauma, and the impact of manipulation on relationships. They explore the challenges of navigating relationships with abusive figures, the weight of responsibility in family dynamics, and the struggles of grieving and family dysfunction.The discussion also touches on the unconditional love of pets, the journey of healing, and the importance of building a supportive community for mental health. Ultimately, they reflect on personal growth and the future, including the idea of writing a book to share his experiences more deeply Thanks to our Headline sponsors - Zinsser Episode sponsors - Monarch Uk , Q1 Tapes Chapters00:00 Introduction and Recap of Past Experiences03:02 Traumatic Childhood and Its Impact09:19 Overcoming Trauma and Personal Growth17:01 The Fear of Happiness and Success21:29 Navigating Relationships and Family Dynamics48:14 Reflections on Personal Journey and Future Aspirations55:00 Manipulation and Guilt in Family Dynamics56:08 The Impact of Trauma on Relationships58:14 Confronting the Past: Family Secrets and Truths01:00:49 Navigating Relationships with Abusive Figures01:02:22 The Complexity of Family Loyalty and Betrayal01:04:18 The Struggles of Grieving and Family Dysfunction01:06:32 The Weight of Responsibility in Family Dynamics01:08:16 The Challenges of Parenthood in Today's World01:11:20 The Journey of Healing and Moving Forward01:18:51 The Unconditional Love of Pets and Loss01:22:07 Climbing from Darkness: A Shared Experience01:30:05 Building a Supportive Community for Mental Health01:32:56 Reflections on Growth and Integrity01:36:00 The Journey Ahead: Writing a Book and Future Plans

This episode is a live Q&A segment, allowing audience interaction and questions, making it a dynamic and insightful experience.

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In this engaging episode of the Talking Tradesman podcast, the host and guest discuss personal growth, the importance of community support, and the benefits of sobriety. The conversation delves into the guest's journey since their last appearance, highlighting significant changes in their life and business. They explore the value of friendships within the trade community, memorable jobs, and the impact of mental health awareness. This episode is a live Q&A segment, allowing audience interaction and questions, making it a dynamic and insightful experience.

In this episode, Russell Payne and Jacob Guy discuss the evolving landscape of fatherhood, the importance of support networks for dads, and the challenges they face in modern parenting.

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They explore the stigma surrounding men's mental health, the impact of technology on family dynamics, and the significance of open communication in relationships. Jacob introduces his initiative, JSG Health for Dads, aimed at promoting physical and mental well-being among fathers.

The conversation emphasises the need for resilience, understanding toxic masculinity, and the role of parents in teaching healthy relationship behaviours.

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In this episode, Holly shares her journey from the construction industry to becoming a holistic wellness and mindset coach.

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She discusses the impact of trauma on relationships, the importance of support systems, and the challenges of communication in the construction industry. Holly also reflects on her childhood experiences, the complexities of relationships, and the journey of self-discovery. Through her insights, she emphasises the significance of recognising toxic relationships and the role of coping mechanisms in personal growth.

In this conversation, the speakers delve into their personal journeys of overcoming adversity, navigating complex family dynamics, and the importance of mental health awareness. They discuss the challenges faced in their upbringing, the impact of relationships on personal growth, and the transformative power of self-discovery and healing.

The conversation also touches on the role of education in shaping identity and the significance of coaching in supporting others through their journeys.

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In this conversation, James Young shares his profound journey through trauma, addiction, and recovery. Find James Here -https://www.instagram.com/dragonfly_d...He opens up about the impact of losing his mother to suicide at a young age, the struggles of adolescence, and how he turned to alcohol and drugs as coping mechanisms. James discusses the turning point in his life when he acknowledged his addiction and the steps he took towards recovery. He emphasises the importance of talking about mental health and addiction, and how sharing his story has become a way to help others. Ultimately, James reflects on the lessons learned and his commitment to building a better future for himself and his son.Thanks to our Sponsors Headline - Zinsser www.zinsser.co.ukEpisode - Q1 Tapes Abode Academy Chapters00:00 James Young's Journey Begins07:19 The Impact of Childhood Trauma17:37 Coping Mechanisms and Escapism23:44 Addiction and Its Consequences30:20 Turning Point and Recovery36:19 Dragonfly Decorating: A New Beginning37:26 The Value of Trauma and Personal Growth40:36 Navigating Addiction and Recovery44:40 The Power of Community and Connection49:08 Lessons in Parenting and Emotional Intelligence53:40 The Importance of Talking and Listening01:01:24 Overcoming Adversity and Finding Hope01:11:07 Building Healthy Relationships and Moving Forward