The Midlife Chrysalis

The Truth About Becoming Miserably Successful | Debjani Biswas


Listen Later

What happens when you do everything “right” in life… and still end up unhappy?


In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Debjani Biswas, leadership coach, bestselling author, and TEDx speaker, to talk about burnout, reinvention, identity, and what it really means to live authentically. She shares her journey from turning down Harvard twice and breaking barriers as the only woman in her IIT engineering class to experiencing a complete midlife unraveling that changed everything.


Together with Chip Conley, she explores:

  • Why so many successful people feel empty inside
  • How fear and perfectionism quietly shape our lives
  • The surprising freedom that can come from a midlife crisis
  • The leadership qualities that matter most today
  • The simple coaching question that can transform your thinking


Warm, honest, and deeply insightful, this episode is for anyone navigating reinvention, purpose, or the pressure to keep it all together.

Watch now and discover why your most meaningful chapter may still be ahead.


Watch Debjani’s TEDx Talk here: TEDx Talk on Gender Bias and Identity


Timestamps:

(10:44) Turning Down Harvard Twice

(13:19) Being the Only Woman at IIT

(16:29) Discovering Executive Coaching

(18:47) Indra Nooyi and Women in Leadership

(20:38) Midlife Chrysalis at 49 and the First Book

(24:32) Breaking Out of Set Path

(28:18) Letting Go and Embracing Growth

(30:15) The Meaning of Miserably Successful

(33:45) The Stress Framework Explained

(37:52) Powerful Coaching Questions

(40:43) The Leadership Qualities That Matter Most

(45:37) How Wisdom Changed Her Life

(51:11) Wisdom Bumper Sticker


Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/


#DebjaniBiswas #ChipConley #MidlifeChrysalis #MiserablySuccessful #MidlifeTransformation #ExecutiveCoaching #WomenInLeadership #EmotionalIntelligence #CareerReinvention #LeadershipWisdom #PersonalGrowth #MidlifeReset #FearAndSuccess #PurposeDrivenLife #LeadershipPodcast

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

The Midlife ChrysalisBy Chip Conley

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

35 ratings


More shows like The Midlife Chrysalis

View all
Untangle by Untangle

Untangle

846 Listeners

Good Life Project by Jonathan Fields / Acast

Good Life Project

3,340 Listeners

The Rich Roll Podcast by Rich Roll

The Rich Roll Podcast

11,924 Listeners

Sounds True: Insights at the Edge by Tami Simon

Sounds True: Insights at the Edge

1,856 Listeners

On Being with Krista Tippett by On Being Studios

On Being with Krista Tippett

10,366 Listeners

10% Happier with Dan Harris by 10% Happier

10% Happier with Dan Harris

12,783 Listeners

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson by Rick Hanson, Ph.D., Forrest Hanson

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

2,538 Listeners

Oprah's Super Soul by Oprah

Oprah's Super Soul

31,744 Listeners

Commune with Jeff Krasno by Commune

Commune with Jeff Krasno

603 Listeners

Bewildered by Martha Beck and Rowan Mangan

Bewildered

1,256 Listeners

The Gathering Room Podcast by Martha Beck

The Gathering Room Podcast

684 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

We Can Do Hard Things

41,398 Listeners

Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen by Elise Loehnen

Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen

1,108 Listeners

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant by Vox Media Podcast Network

The Curiosity Shop with Brené Brown and Adam Grant

449 Listeners

The Oprah Podcast by Harpo

The Oprah Podcast

1,888 Listeners