Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This week, we are joined by the incredible Mistress Tash Mia all the way from Australia! She shares so much about Kink and BDSM culture and the world of a Domme. Brian opens up a little bit?? Layla finds her new mentor.

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[00:00] - Welcome Mistress Tash Mia

[07:00] - The 4 Domme Archetypes

[13:13] - Psychological Twisting

[17:38] - Can male dommes exist?

[19:18] - Mental vs. Physical sides of domming

[21:21] - You can’t ungrow

[28:52] - When do you know your sub is in the subspace?

[30:22] - The importance of aftercare

[34:34] - Where are people finding Tash? 

[39:48] - Learning how to domme safely as a beginner

[41:55] - Misconceptions about BDSM

[48:32] - How do we give this a try?

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Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are talking all about breakups in the space! It’s awkward enough when you have a breakup in the friend group let alone when the friend group all plays with each other. What’s the etiquette? How do swingers typically navigate it? How would you navigate these new dynamics?

Timestamped Highlights

[00:00] - ENM conversations in White Lotus

[05:28] - Breakups in the space

[07:24] - Pause for Gen Z lingo

[10:43] - Back to Breakups

[15:45] - Hypothetical! Susan and Jeff

[25:10] - New scenario: James and Sasha

[30:54] - I’m so embarrassed

[42:51] - THE GYM COUPLE

[46:38] - What’s going on with Clyde?

[50:23] - Experimenting with Peptides

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Welcome back to the Masked Swingers!  Brian and Layla jump in and get vulnerable about where they can grow. Brian shares about going back to Brazil as a married man and the challenges he faces with his own narrative around Brazil. Layla breathes with her meta, and we get exciting updates on the gym friend and Clyde!

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[00:00] - You, Me, Her: Winning a trip to Mexico!

[04:09] - Brian, the sex traveler

[10:35] - Changing the narrative of Brazil

[19:06] - Layla’s Meta and growth and breathwork!

[26:40] - Would you swipe if…?

[34:25] - Gym friend update!

[41:36] - Clyde update!

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Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Another year around the sun, and we are celebrating Brian’s Birthday! In this episode, Brian recaps his birthday spontaneous play, a sexy chain, and Layla gets vulnerable.

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[00:00] - Cosmetic procedures

[06:57] - The spontaneous play party

[18:46] - The one regret of the night

[23:29] - Layla’s favorite part of the night

[28:56] - Theories about Men 

[33:15] - Why this debate is so personal

[40:20] - The sexy, human centipede

[47:15] - A new discovery

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Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! We are so excited to be joined by Dr. Arriana, a board-certified OB/GYN. We have been dying to have someone answer our questions, addressing misconceptions, and making sure that we continue to share knowledge that will help keep our community safe. Definitely having her come back in the future, email us your questions for Dr. Arriana!

Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult your own doctor or a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your health or medical conditions.

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Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Beautiful Vanessa joins Brian and Layla! She shares her experience on what it means to be ENM, both partnered and single, and bringing a real perspective of the lifestyle to the mainstream – PLAYBOY!!

Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Introducing Vanessa!

[06:50] - Fetlife Question

[08:04] - Does everyone eventually leave the ENM space

[09:21] - How did you get into lifestyle?

[12:02] - Opening up a relationship just to avoid breaking up

[15:39] - Brian gets…insecure?

[18:12] - Going through phases of partnered and single in the space

[25:43] - Lifestyle being a point of contention in a new relationship

[34:38] - Accidentally stumbling into a throuple

[40:22] - No sleepovers?! And codependence

[43:33] - Let’s talk about PLAYBOY!

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Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Layla and Brian are back for a 1:1 conversation about kinks, apps, and what features can help us find our future kink partners!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Introduction[01:48] - Exploring Kink without Play[05:18] - How do you define Kink?[11:05] - How do you find someone you’re kink-patible with?[15:30] - Using apps to find your kink partner[24:17] - Rate these featuresCome say hi!Follow us on IGFollow us on TTEmail us with your questions at [email protected]

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! Let’s talk about the Elephant in the room. The new administration takes office, Brian and Layla clarify on Brian’s hot take on play party attendance, and Layla shares her budding relationship with her Meta!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - Trump takes office[11:48] - Clarifying Brian’s potluck comment[14:40] - Who isn’t playing with Brian?[20:25] - Dry January[22:00] - Bringing my Meta to a party[29:15] - Avoiding co-dependence[32:26] - Updates on Clyde[33:35] - Fluffers![34:12] - The Gym CoupleCome say hi!Follow us on IGFollow us on TTEmail us with your questions at [email protected]

Welcome back to the Masked Swingers! This is an extra juicy episode. Brian shares his latest TriMix fail, and venturing into a new territory on his ENM journey. Layla and Brian dive into what it means to respect boundaries and agreements, and when is it a good time to revisit agreements. Plus, updates on Layla’s 2025 goal!Timestamped Highlights[00:00] - TriMix Nightmare[11:29] - The Hotel Hookup [16:33] - Respecting Boundaries & Etiquette in ENM[18:57] - Venturing into new territory[21:53] - Breaking Agreements [28:12] - Revisiting Agreements[39:13] - Updates on Clyde[44:08] - The Couple from the Gym Saga[47:21] - Planning the GB!Come say hi!Follow us on IGFollow us on TTEmail us with your questions at [email protected]