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Watch this video on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTlsikDkZI8
Waiting after a breakup can feel like you’re losing ground — like you’re doing nothing while the other person moves on. Silence feels uncomfortable. Restraint feels risky. And the urge to reach out can feel overwhelming.
In this episode, I explain why waiting feels so painful, why it often goes against your instincts, and what’s actually happening beneath the surface when you don’t chase, argue, or try to force clarity. What feels like losing from the inside often looks very different from the outside.
We’ll also talk about how this dynamic shows up not only after breakups, but in long-term relationships and marriages — where reacting too quickly or emotionally can quietly push someone further away.
Waiting isn’t about giving up. It isn’t about pretending you don’t care. And it isn’t about doing nothing. It’s about not undermining your position while emotions settle and reality sets in.
If you’re struggling with the urge to reach out, worried that time is slipping away, or afraid that waiting means you’re being forgotten, this episode will help you see the situation more clearly — and respond from strength instead of fear.
$7 Reunion Blueprint at ReunionBlueprint.com
By Coach Lee4.9
6868 ratings
Watch this video on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTlsikDkZI8
Waiting after a breakup can feel like you’re losing ground — like you’re doing nothing while the other person moves on. Silence feels uncomfortable. Restraint feels risky. And the urge to reach out can feel overwhelming.
In this episode, I explain why waiting feels so painful, why it often goes against your instincts, and what’s actually happening beneath the surface when you don’t chase, argue, or try to force clarity. What feels like losing from the inside often looks very different from the outside.
We’ll also talk about how this dynamic shows up not only after breakups, but in long-term relationships and marriages — where reacting too quickly or emotionally can quietly push someone further away.
Waiting isn’t about giving up. It isn’t about pretending you don’t care. And it isn’t about doing nothing. It’s about not undermining your position while emotions settle and reality sets in.
If you’re struggling with the urge to reach out, worried that time is slipping away, or afraid that waiting means you’re being forgotten, this episode will help you see the situation more clearly — and respond from strength instead of fear.
$7 Reunion Blueprint at ReunionBlueprint.com

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