This is a very powerful topic and for some, it may be uncomfortable. You see, we are usually NOT very comfortable talking about death - especially not a loved ones. I remember my Dad bringing it up from time to time and I just changed the subject. I would say to him "don't be silly, you are going to be here for quite some time yet!". Of course, when he did pass away unexpectedly - he died of an aneurysm that burst. THAT is when I had all kinds of questions. Then, I would remember that he tried to tell me on a number of occasions and I wouldn't listen. We all tend to do that - due to the fact that we don't want to even think about life without them. AND we would like to NOT feel uncomfortable about anything - so we just don't go there. The strange thing is that we all know that we will die someday - we just don't know when. I stand firm on my belief that we are spiritual beings and that we are simply having a human experience - borrowing this vessel is my favourite way to describe it. With that in mind, technically there is no end! Maybe an end to the vessel (the human body) we are using, but our true self - our soul is an infinite being. Now this has been about how we feel when someone talks about their death...what if...you were the one that was dying? I recently read a beautiful story about a 27 yr young woman who posted on Facebook something called a "Note before I die" - To quote this incredible young lady, "I just want people to stop worrying so much about the small, meaningless stresses in life and try to remember that we all have the same fate after it all so do what you can to make your time feel worthy and great, minus the bullsh*t." I will link the entire post in the comments & I highly recommend reading it and sharing it with your loved ones. Her story made me realize how some of the things we complain about is NOTHING when you think about the BIG picture. The petty things that we stress about mean nothing if TODAY was going to be your LAST day in this body you have borrowed for a short time. When I read Holly Butcher's story, I was reminded of a book that I read once about how Buddist's live their lives. They live every day like it was going to be their last. What an incredible thing to do! What if you KNEW that TODAY was your last day? What would you do? Who would you talk to? What have you been putting off until tomorrow to do? Make a list of what you would like to accomplish in this life and start doing it! I like to call that a 'Bucket List' - which is the name of a movie - and if you haven't watched it, I highly recommend it. Its about 2 older men who are dying and they go about doing things on their 'bucket list' before they die. Morgan Freeman & Jack Nickolson are the actors in it. I had been thinking about this concept of living life like TODAY was my last, and my husband got upset because I got the wrong kind of ham. I sat there and listened to him rant, and then, I asked him if it was THAT important...I even said to him "if TODAY was your last day or even MY last day...is that really important?". This whole concept makes you stop and really think about what you are complaining about...most of which is NOT important at all. Co-workers complaining about each other or management, people complaining about the government, road rage while driving...none of THAT really matters when you are living your life like TODAY was your LAST. All of a sudden, all judgment seizes and your focus goes to what really IS important! For each and everyone of us, that will be different. While researching this concept, I came across a quote about the way a Buddhist lives. "Every morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most. Each new day is a gift. Unwrap it with love and excitement. It's a new day to learn, grow and love. Careful what you do with this new gift." Isn't that amazing? I love it...'every morning we are born again' is such an amazing way to look at life. We should be celebrating that we woke up...we are still here - which sounds funny doesn't it? But it is so true! We are so very lucky that we have another day...a day to do more of what matters most to us! By changing the way you think and act throughout your day, your entire life will change. It will literally transform your reality, when you decide that the little things just don't matter any more. With this in mind, make every single day better than the last one! We are here to activate our Christ consciousness that is within us...to raise our vibration and to share LOVE with everyone in our lives. What a better way to do just that...by living your life to the fullest! Remember…Every one of us are on a journey to FEELING better - whether it is health, wealth or emotional - we are together on this journey. To experience a Quantum Energy Session, contact [email protected] to book an appointment (Skype or Zoom). For more details of the sessions: www.telfercoaching.com