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  • 170. Hate to admit it, but I’m burnt out - here’s what I’m doing about it

    I’m not super excited to admit that I feel burnt out, but here we are. In this episode, I’m sharing my real-time journey through burnout, from recognizing the signs to taking actionable steps to recover. 


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    21 min
  • 169. Choosing yourself and making the changes you’ve been avoiding

    It can feel VERY unsettling when you've been gripping to a vision of yourself for so long, only to realize you no longer want that. In this episode, I’m exploring the concept that has helped me make some tough decisions—like knowing when it’s time to move on from dreams, jobs, people, situations, etc. Letting go can often feel shameful, uncertain, and scary, but I hope you leave this episode feeling empowered to transition toward a path that truly fulfills you.


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    27 min
  • 168. (Q&A) What no one talks about: resenting family, dating, early career, personal finance, and more!

    I’m answering all your questions regarding family resentment, jobs you don’t want to be in, personal finance, dating, and more!


    4:47 - How do you not resent family for having opposite life choices?

    11:04 - How to get the most out of a job you settled for?

    13:59 - Can you share a hot take about being an entrepreneur or having a side hustle?

    17:11 - What’s something you used to believe in that you’ve changed your mind on?

    19:27 - Book recs for personal finance?

    24:04 - Dating life updates?

    27:12 - What are your current health routines?


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    This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit toocollective.substack.com/subscribe
    29 min
  • 167. Q2 recap and everything I’m doing to look and feel my best (clothing, skin, health)

    As we wrap up the second quarter of the year I wanted to share all my biggest lessons, takeaways, and favorites from Q2. We’re talking clothing, food, body care, skin care, workouts, and other essentials that have me looking and feeling my best.


    Clothing favorites

    • Alo dress
    • Agolde Parker shorts
    • Skims wireless push-up bra

    Food favorites

    • Chomps
    • Nora Grab & Go Seaweed
    • Dolcezza Gelato (Mascarpone & Berries flavor)

    Body care

    • L'occitane almond shower oil
    • Naturium Bio-Lipid Restoring Body Lotion
    • Sol de Janeiro Delícia Drench Body Butter
    • Sol de Janeiro Cheirosa 59 Perfume Mist

    For glowy skin

    • Supergoop glow screen
    • Loreal Lumi Glotion
    • Nars Light Reflecting Foundation
    • Biossance squalane body oil
    • Patrik Ta body oil

    Skin care

    • Bioderma Micellar Water
    • Summer Fridays serum
    • Skinfix collagen perfecting serum
    • Clinique Moisture Surge
    • Innesfree sunscreen
    • Clarins Anti Pollution Face Sunscreen

    Other healthy stuff

    • Skinny Confidential Mint Roller
    • Skinny Confidential Mouth Tape
    • Creatine for muscle growth
    • Form pilates


    Too Collective:

    • Too Collective Website
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    Follow Alexis on Social Media:

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    This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit toocollective.substack.com/subscribe
    31 min
  • 166. motivation is fake: how to get through the hard days

    Let’s talk about how to work with the natural ebb and flow of our energy as women. In this episode I share my experience working through days where motivation is hard to find and what I’ve learned about setting realistic priorities and understanding my minimum and maximum capacity. 


    Too Collective:

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    Follow Alexis on Social Media:

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    This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit toocollective.substack.com/subscribe
    16 min
  • 165. Forbes 30 Under 30 (in finance!) recipient Temi Butler on charting your own path, fusing your creative and career interests, and self love as a Black woman in finance

    This week, I'm chatting with my dear friend and fellow Wharton MBA student, Temi Butler. Temi walks us through her impressive career journey, from navigating the high-stakes world of finance at top institutions to landing on Forbes 30 Under 30, and ultimately pivoting from a stable job to embrace her creative passions.

    From big corporate to being a DJ, Temi has been there and done that, and she offers invaluable insights for anyone looking to build a highly ambitious and fulfilling professional path.


    She shares:

    • The pressure to prove yourself, especially as a black woman
    • How she hustled her way into top institutions early in her career
    • Advice for those looking to break into finance
    • The challenge of holding back her authentic self at work
    • Her unique upbringing by parents who are dedicated artists
    • How she landed on the Forbes 30 Under 30 list
    • Her pivot from investment banking to working for a startup
    • Why she chose to pursue an MBA
    • Her biggest takeaways from business school


    Follow Temi on Instagram: @temiautomatic


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    57 min
  • 164. Hot girl summer glow-up

    Summer is meant to be ENJOYED! In this episode, I'm sharing my plans for making the most out of the next three months by being super intentional in key areas of my life such as: health, career, finances and relationships and more.


    SHOP OUR RARE BEAUTY COLLAB


    Time stamps:

    2:22 Plot girl shit

    3:36 Confidence

    4:14 Pinterest boards

    4:54 Shopping for summer

    5:59 Setting an intention

    7:09 Setting goals

    9:24 Having fun requires planning

    11:41 Dating

    13:42 Morning and evening routines

    16:32 Booking health appointments

    17:54 Healthy habits for hot girl summer

    20:00 Beauty tips

    22:35 Being present


    Resources/Mentioned

    Beam Dream

    Form Pilates

    Tia Women's Health Clinic:

    Beam Street Dental:

    Athena Club

    Naturium Multi Oil

    Supergoop Glow Screen


    Too Collective:

    • Too Collective Website
    • Too Collective Affirmation Texts
    • Follow Too Collective on Instagram


    Follow Alexis on Social Media:

    • Instagram
    • TikTok
    • YouTube




    Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

    Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit toocollective.substack.com/subscribe
    26 min
  • 163. Chasing dreams, dealing with failure, and trusting your timing

    In this episode, I'm celebrating a huge milestone in my business and want to share how I reached this place of feeling secure and at peace with following my dreams. I'll reflect on the setbacks I've faced over the years and share what I've learned about trusting your timing.

    If you've been feeling defeated, rejected, or behind, this episode is for you.


    Too Collective:

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    Follow Alexis on Social Media:

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    This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit toocollective.substack.com/subscribe
    30 min
  • 162. Recap of my first year as a Wharton MBA student

    In this episode, I'm recapping my first year at Wharton, sharing everything I wish I'd known before diving into my MBA journey, as well as my honest opinion on academics, social life, and the lessons I've learned during this time.


    I’m also answering your questions on time management, juggling relationships, how to prep for business school, and what's on my radar for year two.


    Timestamps:

    02:23 Academics

    09:16 My study routine

    12:00 My major

    13:53 Clubs

    16:34 Travel

    22:00 Social life

    24:41 Entrepreneurship

    27:38 Time management

    30:52 Average week in the life

    34:04 Plans for second year

    36:54 How to prep for grad school

    40:55 Product recommendations


    Too Collective:

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    Follow Alexis on Social Media:

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    This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit toocollective.substack.com/subscribe
    45 min
  • 161. Entreprenuership, perfectionism, and the realities of growing a business

    In this episode, we’re getting real about the struggles I've been facing as an entrepreneur. And how despite being overqualified in many aspects I still don’t feel ready to do a lot of things in my business. We’re talking perfectionism, money, and how I’m planning to scale my business with the resources and insights I've gotten from being a Wharton MBA student.


    Too Collective:

    • Shop our Limited Edition Patches!
    • Too Collective Website
    • Too Collective Affirmation Texts
    • Follow Too Collective on Instagram


    Follow Alexis on Social Media:

    • Instagram
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    This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit toocollective.substack.com/subscribe
    19 min

About Too Smart For This

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This show is for ambitious material girls learning how to turn chaos into an intentional lifestyle without abandoning their sparkle. From career leverage frameworks to debriefing the latest TikTok hot takes, we untangle society’s expectations around drive, money, beauty, wellness, and culture so you can curate your own full life. Hosted by Alexis Barber—entrepreneur, influencer, Wharton MBA, and ex-Googler—this is where lived experience meets tangible strategy. Don’t be stupid—subscribe to Too Smart For This.

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