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In Alexis' second Sunday solo episode, we chat her lfie updates before heading on a flurry of travels, her current obsessions, and how she's having a hot girl summer.

Show Notes

1:47 Superficial tip of the week

2:47 Importance of prioritzing how you look and feel

3:06 Smart tip of the week

3:51 Life update! What happened this week

10:58 How to curate a Hot & Healed Girl Summer

11:45 Prioritizing like a pro and living a balanced life

14:16 Finding and investing in clothes that make you feel good

15:34 Living in the moment whilst planning for the future

17:00 The benefits of moving your body

17:34 Removing/ignoring anyone who doesn’t add to your life

Resources/Mentioned

Superficial Tip: House of CB

Smart Tip: Superhuman Meditation App

Enter the Too Cozy Robe Giveaway

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Welcome to the first installment of Solo Sundays, or Sunday Spiels, or Sunday Sermons? We don't have a name yet, but it's just fun to connect! In these lighter weekly episodes, expect some juicy life updates, product favorites, and an answer to one of your questions, starting with "How do you stay so consistent?" Spoiler: she doesn't always , but she's got some tips that will help you get started. Keep up with Alexis on Instagram to be there when the next AMA drops!

Show Notes

2:48 Smart tip of the week

4:15 Perfectionism takes many different forms

5:11 Superficial tip of the week

6:43 Life update!

13:28 Q&A

14:31 Managing both your energy and your time

16:45 Creating systems to navigate failure

19:47 Reframing: How to learn from failure

20:02 How to simplify your life to be happier

Resources/Mentioned

Smart Tip: "The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control" https://amzn.to/3Nq7KdO

Superficial Tip: Lululemon Align Top: https://creatoriq.cc/43LXKRo 

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The Smart Girl’s Guide returns, and this week, Alexis delves into her early career tips! Whether you’ve just graduated, looking to make a pivot, or simply want to refresh your professional life, this episode is chock full of helpful career advice!

Show Notes

1:22 Let’s talk career!

3:02 10 tips for each stage of your career

3:30 #1 Know what you want

5:15 Recognizing/understanding your personal agency

5:52 Reframe your career goals – understanding when it’s time to pivot

6:05 What are your longterm goals?

6:56 Knowing when it’s time to leave

7:15 Be clear with your intentions!

8:14 #2 Do what is right for you

11:36 #3 Use a brag book + keep track of everything

13:23 Importance of checking in with yourself 

15:46 #4 How to respond to negative feedback professionally

15:58 #5 Be authentic, not annoying

17:46 #6 Act on curiosity

18:40 #7 Search for knowledge everywhere

20:18 #8 Be professional + #9 Invest in yourself

25:04 #10 Importance of doing the work and developing your personal brand

26:44 Approach everything with curiosity

27:24 Stop making excuses and own your actions

27:44 Watch your social media!

Career resources for updating your resume & looking for careers:

1. https://www.wonsulting.com/resumai

2. https://resumeworded.com/

3. https://www.rezi.ai/

4. https://simplify.jobs/

5. https://www.tealhq.com/

6. https://secta.ai/

7. https://www.rampedcareers.com/

8. https://www.careerflow.ai/

9. Kickresume: https://bit.ly/3kCHFwo

10. https://usemassive.com/

11. https://www.tryitonai.com/

12. https://www.loopcv.pro/

13. https://www.hiration.com/

14. https://www.biginterview.com/

15. Wave.ai: https://bit.ly/3WSig08

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As of 2023, it’s estimated that nearly 1 million people in the United States struggle with Multiple Sclerosis (MS). And globally? That figure rises to more than 2.8 million. MS is categorized as a disease in which your immune system attacks both your brain and your spinal cord – causing numbness, fatigue, and blindness. At the moment, there is no cure, but Nancy Davis is tireless in her efforts to not just manage the disease, but eradicate it for good. This week, the philanthropist joins the Too Smart for This podcast to discuss her organization, being your own health advocate, and how you can get involved to end MS forever.

Show Notes
1:17 Background on Multiple Sclerosis (MS)
3:38 Alexis’ personal experience with MS
11:33 Welcome, Nancy Davis!
15:54 Who gets MS?
18:26 Race to Erase MS’ Mission
20:27 Motivation behind Nancy’s altruism
23:58 The business of philanthropy
26:55 Finding motivation when you’re feeling down
31:48 How to be your own health advocate
34:17 Importance of being an active, well-informed patient
35:35 Building/leaning on community in times of crisis
36:47 Necessity of educating yourself before your doctor’s appointment
37:09 How to be a friend to a person with MS
39:33 Homeopathy for MS
43:53 How you can get involved in the fight against MS!

Resources/Mentioned
Race to Erase MS: Erasems.org
Race to Erase MS Resource Links: https://www.erasems.org/resource-links/
National MS Society: https://www.nationalmssociety.org/Resources-Support

Nancy Davis’ Work
Lean on Me by Nancy Davis: https://tinyurl.com/2vdbkdpb
Race to Erase MS Gala Tickets: https://shop.erasems.org/collections/tickets
Cured Addiction Now: https://cureaddictionnow.org/
Peace & Love Jewelry Line: https://www.peaceandlovejewelry.com/

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Haitian-raised, Brooklyn-based sisters, Shelcy and Christy Joseph (@NYCxClothes), are among many leading the fight for inclusion and diversity in the high-fashion conversation. And this week, the vibrant duo joins the Too Smart for This podcast to discuss all things luxury and lifestyle!

Show Notes

1:14 Learn about our guests!
3:14 Introductory questions
9:00 Lightning round!
15:36 How @NYCxClothes began
16:04 Expanding – not limiting – your career
17:57 Connecting passion with purpose
19:10 Crafting timeless, culture-shifting stories
19:44 Black women as historical actors
20:33 How childhood dreams can lay the path for your future career
24:30 Grinding now to reap the harvest later
25:37 Tips for pitching yourself
30:52 Importance of overcoming perfectionism
32:23 Being intentional with your relationships
33:28 How to navigate working with others
35:05 Discovering and crafting your personal style
37:16 Building and maintaining relationships into adulthood
41:44 How to take care of yourself and others!


Resources/Mentioned
Headspace: https://www.headspace.com/

Keep up with Shelcy & Christy!
@nycxclothes on TikTok
@nycxclothes on Instagram
@nycxclothes on YouTube
https://www.nycxclothes.com/
@nycxstudio on Instagram

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¡Ciao! With Alexis’ month-long trip to Europe in full effect, this week’s episode is centered around all things travel. With her tips and tricks you’ll be able to conquer your summer vacation(s) with ease and in style.

Show Notes
2:33 Travel tips!
3:32 Importance of planning to ensure a seamless trip
3:46 A Guide to Financial Planning for Travelers
3:55 Importance of Travel Credit Cards
4:22 Choosing the best credit card for rewards/points
7:50 Building a relationship with/loyalty to an airline
10:31 How I go about booking hotels!
10:52 Importance of filtering your searches
11:11 Utilizing prior-reviews to make informed decisions
12:45 Travel planning logistics
13:14 Where/How to research a travel destination before you go
15:22 Utilizing Notion to arrange the itinerary, financials, etc
17:12 Be mindful of downtime!
18:12 Downloading Google Maps to navigate offline
18:48 Packing logistics
19:00 Packing in a color scheme
19:49 How I utilize luggage packing cubes
20:23 Visualizing outfits before your trip
21:10 High Maintenance Travel Girly Things!

Resources/Mentioned
Amazon Cosmetic Containers:
Bose Earphones: https://rb.gy/9zqle
MEC Travel Pillow: https://rb.gy/no549
Downy Wrinkle Releaser: https://rb.gy/0o6rq
Arrae Bloat Alchemy Supplement: https://rb.gy/vh5js
Rimowa: https://rb.gy/oiojd
YSL Rive Gauche Supple Bag: https://rb.gy/tz5fl
Lululemon Clean Lines Tote Bag: https://rb.gy/2qchs
Cuyana The Travel Bag: https://rb.gy/lszvm


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After discovering a love for writing his senior year of college, the exuberant @cashmeretote (Cole Habersham) has since used his skills to navigate familial estrangement, the highs and lows of dating, and finding joy in the mundane … all while balancing a full-time advertising career. He joins the Too Smart for This podcast to discuss cutting ties with family members, finding fashion inspiration, and so much more! It's an episode you won't want to miss.

Show Notes
1:32 Quick introduction to Cole!
2:40 NY vs LA
7:28 What works for others won’t always work for you
11:50 Cole’s background
14:51 Viewing your work as a source of empowerment
15:56 Embracing uncertainty to jumpstart your creative endeavors
16:31 How does one get published?
17:54 Healing through creativity
18:24 Knowing when to end relationships with unsupportive family members
19:46 Discomfort precipitates growth
20:13 Building your chosen family
20:48 Importance of intention within budding/established friendships
21:51 Everything gets better with time
25:32 How to build your personal confidence
26:10 Surrounding yourself with people who stimulate you
26:35 Fake it till you make it
30:40 Finding what works and/or what inspires the most confidence in you
32:58 Your worst day only lasts 24 hours
35:35 Journaling as a preventative self-care measure
37:00 Let’s talk dating!

Resources/Mentioned:
Giovanni’s Room by James Baldwin: https://tinyurl.com/2s366e9e

Keep up with Cole!
@cashmeretote on Tiktok
@cashmeretote on Instagram
@cashmeretote on Twitter
cashmeretote.com

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Welcome back to Too Smart for This! In this week's solo episode, Alexis talks all about the business school application process, how she chose Wharton, her April favorites, and more!

Show Notes:

3:05 Experience at Wharton Welcome Weekend!
4:25 Application process
13:24 How the GRE went
15:42 Importance of networking in business school
17:38 Why I chose Wharton!
17:53 Searching for community in business school
19:16 What Admit Weekend taught me
19:22 What I hope to gain from business school
23:00 State schools vs M7 Business Schools
23:52 Unexpected vs Expected costs of MBAs
25:21 Reckoning with the financial aspect of business school
27:12 Learning more about myself and my vision for the future
27:53 The process of growing TooCollective
30:50 April favorites!


Resources/Mentioned:

How I Built This: https://tinyurl.com/bdh6mcwu
Big Conversations with Haley Hoffman Smith: https://tinyurl.com/33wfpsem
Balanced Black Girl Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/4s4krn62
Due Diligence Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5854tnwe
The Fabulous Bouvier Sisters: The Tragic and Glamorous Lives of Jackie and Lee: https://tinyurl.com/5n82zkt5
Succession on HBO: https://tinyurl.com/4ycb3pxu
Million Dollar Listing Los Angeles: https://tinyurl.com/4pnjz9ey
Energy and Focus Mints: https://tinyurl.com/54muwa65
Mango: https://tinyurl.com/2mk2eztk
Ami Cole Skin-Enhancing Tint: https://tinyurl.com/w3eb8f56
Ami Cole Lip Treatment Oil: https://tinyurl.com/mryarpk4
Ami Cole Eyebrow Gel: https://tinyurl.com/2p8455dj
YSL Black Opium Perfume: https://tinyurl.com/ycy9yykw

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To put it simply, Blake Newby is a multi-hyphenate. From beauty & style editing to influencing to reporting, the Detroit-born superstar has cemented herself as an expert in multiple industries. Today she joins Alexis to discuss influencing, cultivating personal friendships, and more!

Show Notes:
19:20 How to make things work within your current constraints
21:31 Be aggressive, but genuine
21:44 Cultivating relationships by constantly staying engaged
24:45 The importance of protecting your space
25:24 Maintaining authenticity in the face of adversity
27:21 Knowing and understanding yourself as a means of former deeper connections with others
27:43 Realizing that not everybody has the best intentions
28:34 Straddling the line between suspicion and naivety
28:45 Stepping out of your comfort zone to jump start your social media career
32:48 Ridding your life of the things that don’t serve you
33:28 Importance of prioritizing yourself
34:05 Achieving a balance between highs and lows
35:49 Importance of being comfortable in your own skin
44:40 Everything is a reflection of you

Resources/Mentioned:
Brandon Blackwood
Spell on You
Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret. by Judy Blume
The Know for Sure Pod

Keep up with Blake!
@blakelawren on Instagram
@blakenewby_ on TikTok
@blakelawren on Pinterest
@blakelawren on Twitter

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“Girl Gangs” have long been a staple of the female experience – a way for women to lean on each other as we navigate life, love, and everything in between. Unfortunately, creating and maintaining these strong friendships can be difficult post-grad, as the demands of adulthood can crowd our vision. If you’re in need of some tips and advice on cultivating bonds with women that’ll last a lifetime, this week’s episode of Too Smart for This is for you!

Show Notes:

3:46 Why are female friendships important?
3:53 There’s a lived experience that only other women will understand
4:50 Importance of nurturing female friendships in a world that prioritizes romantic love
5:00 Why are female friends hard to make and maintain?
5:08 Patriarchy encourages competition between women
6:40 Recognizing and unlearning a patriarchal mindset
7:09 Personal experience with female friends
8:10 Struggling to find belonging/security in homogenous environments
9:31 Navigating self-segregated environments in Academia
11:34 Being your most authentic self is the foundation for any relationship
11:57 Avoid people who project their insecurities onto you
12:12 Strong, lasting relationships require vulnerability
13:01 Finding comfort in self-awareness
13:48 Authenticity and confidence create the foundation for great female friendships
14:12 Viewing interpersonal relationships as a reflection of ourselves
17:28 Taking each friend at face value – always assuming the best intentions
18:16 Analyze your feelings/emotions in the presence of certain friends
19:11 Set expectations with new friends
20:40 Categorizing friends
22:26 How to make friends after college
22:40 #1 Connect with people through your network
23:12 #2 Bumble BFF
23:19 #3 Join clubs/activities that fit your interest
25:04 Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear!

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