Too Smart For This

By Alexis BarberBusiness Entrepreneurship Education Self-Improvement

Too Smart For This episodes

October 26, 2023 140. From Burnout to Forging Her Own Path with Carly Cardellino, former Cosmopolitan Beauty Director
Hi, babes! Welcome back to the Too Smart for This podcast! In this week’s episode, Alexis is joined by former Cosmopolitan beauty editor Carly Cardellino, who shares her insights on establishing a thriving career and her bold decision to forge her own path in content creation. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that’s sure to ignite your passion for beauty and entrepreneurship!

Show Notes
1:29 Rapid fire questions!
6:04 Importance of prioritizing authenticity
9:24 Keys to embracing aging
12:19 Refuse to be discouraged
13:00 Pivoting from Cosmopolitan
15:24 Day in the life of a beauty editor
18:06 Going above and beyond
18:28 Navigating burnout
19:41 Knowing when to walk away
21:04 Confidence is a conscious decision
22:33 How to stop limiting/putting parameters on yourself
23:31 Building your confidence in a new city/environment
24:59 Avoid passion burnout
28:26 Being consistent with your content even in the midst of changing algorithms
30:10 Carly’s favorites for vintage clothes and furniture
31:05 Gaining confidence in yourself and your style
35:43 Book recommendation
36:48 Fall in love with the process!

Keep up with Carly!
@carlycardellino on Instagram
@carlycardellino on TikTok

Resources/Mentioned
Rhode Vanilla Peptide Lip Treatment
Rhode Peptide Glazing Fluid
Rishi English Breakfast Tea
The Antique Warehouse
The Knack Shoppe
Silver Linings Consignment
Housing Works
Chop Wood Carry Water: How to Fall in Love with the Process of Becoming Great by Joshua Medcalf
The Alchemist by Paulo Coehlo

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39 min
September 28, 2023 139. In My Selfish Era: How to Put Yourself First [& A Life Update]
In this episode of Too Smart For This, Alexis takes the listeners on a candid journey through the challenging months that prompted her to prioritize self-care and make some necessary, selfish decisions. Don't miss this inspiring episode as she discusses the power of choosing oneself and the personal growth that can arise from even the toughest of times.

Show Notes
1:00 Embracing adversity and finding the courage to choose yourself
1:47 Setting boundaries and prioritizing yourself/your needs
2:17 Reflecting on the past few months
3:33 You are capable of change
5:05 Spending time with yourself to visualize your future
5:47 Being unapologetic in your personal decisions to create success on your own terms
7:33 Nothing is permanent. Not even your problems.
8:03 Importance of putting yourself first in your relationships
11:16 Using data in the decision-making process over emotions
13:31 Stop arguing for your limitations
14:19 No one can hurt you unless you allow it
15:53 Knowing that you are capable of learning and accomplishing new things
19:16 Sometimes, letting go means loving yourself more than you love them

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21 min
September 20, 2023 138. What All The Hot Girls Are Doing To Glow Up Ft. 4AM Skin Founder, Jade Beguelin
This week on the Too Smart For This podcast, we welcome Jade Beguelin, a content creator and businesswoman whose journey through entrepreneurship and personal growth has been nothing short of aspirational/inspiring. The two dive into Jade’s story, sharing invaluable insights into the world of business, and information bound to ignite your passion and help you chart your own path to success!

Show Notes
1:13 Rapid fire questions
9:38 Learn about Jade!
13:41 Souls searching process to find your life’s purpose
15:05 4am Skin beginnings
17:24 How to spot a gap in the market
19:24 Gaining initial traction for your brand
21:22 Signs it might be time for a career pivot
22:23 The product launch process
27:20 Biggest challenge(s) for new business owners
29:40 Framing “No’s” as a blessing in disguise
34:20 Pivoting from private social media to creating content
36:37 Steps for glowing up!
38:44 #1 Finding confidence without comparison
38:27 #2 Creating healthy habits for yourself
40:04 Adapting to a society that rewards extroverts
43:48 Complimenting strangers will change your life
44:48 Tackling organizing and prioritizing habits for success
46:30 Hot girl maintenance things
47:17 Nails!
47:47 The Real Real – encouraging more intentional buying
49:40 Apps that enhance your life

Keep up with Jade!
@jadebeguelin on Instagram
@jadebeguelin on TikTok
4am Skin

Resources/Mentioned
Superhuman

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Too Collective Website
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51 min
September 14, 2023 137. Healthy Habits That Have Changed My Life
Busy is an understatement! As Alexis continues her journey at Wharton, she shares her tips/tricks/habits for staying mindful and maintaining composure amidst the chaos.

Show Notes
2:41 Doing your best is good enough!
3:13 Importance of making time for movement
4:32 Role of exercise in boosting self-esteem
5:17 Benefits of working out in the morning
5:28 Using the “Power Hour” approach to get things done
6:26 How to quantify things in a healthy way
6:52 How tools like Google Calendar can elevate your life
7:48 Using the Two-Minute Rule to stop procrastinating
9:18 The Closing Shift strategy!
10:44 Habit Stacking as your best friend
12:18 Journaling to heal
14:21 Benefits of walking meditations
16:57 Shop the robes!

Resources/Mentioned
Superhuman App

NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe
Too Collective Website
Too Collective Affirmation Texts
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17 min
September 10, 2023 136. My First Month at Wharton: Finances, Schedule, and Life Updates
Alexis is BACK with the Sunday Solo Series, and today she shares her first impressions of Wharton, balancing her hectic life, and more!

Show Notes
1:04 Smart tip of the week
1:41 Superficial tip of the week
2:51 Wharton observations!
3:03 Finding time for introspection amid chaos and uncertainty
5:20 Navigating increased expenses
9:24 Approach to socializing
9:49 My class schedule!
12:26 Poconos recap!

Resources/Mentioned
Dellara’s Diary
The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts
Kosas Revealer Concealer
Nars Radiant Creamy Concealer
Hourglass Ambient Soft Glow Foundation Brush

NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe
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17 min
September 07, 2023 135. HBO Sweet Life's @AmandaSaidSo: Living Life on Your Own Terms, Financial Literacy Tips, and Managing Friendships as an Adult
From the PR world, to reality television, Inglewood-born Amanda Scott is this week’s guest on Too Smart For This! The ‘Sweet Life: Los Angeles’ star discusses everything from the realities of being in the limelight, to her self-care journey, and even money management advice for recent grads. It’s an episode you won’t want to miss!

Show Notes
2:00 Rapid fire questions
11:07 Reality TV portrayal
12:24 Developing and maintaining friendships with age
15:46 Confident people make better friends
18:24 Managing interpersonal conflict
20:52 Best part(s) of being on Sweet Llife: Los Angeles
23:14 Worst part(s) of being on Sweet Llife: Los Angeles
24:28 Recovering from being in the spotlight
25:43 Amanda’s career trajectory after college
30:24 Quitting your job to figure things out
31:34 Reprioritizing your life
33:13 Focus on yourself and be your own priority
36:03 Self-care resources
37:52 Importance of effectively communicating your needs
39:12 Homebuying process
45:19 Pertinent money management advice
45:30 #1 Max out your 401K
46:16 #2 Life insurance as an investment
47:17 #3 Have an emergency savings!
47:59 #4 Credit cards are your friend
49:25 Current aspirations

Keep up with Amanda!
www.amandasaidso.com
@housepartycreative on Instagram
@amandasaidso_ on Instagram

Resources/Mentioned
Joyce Meyer Devotional Books
Sula by Toni Morrison

NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe
Too Collective Website
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54 min
August 28, 2023 134. What To Do When You're Starting a New Era (In Career, Life, Or Otherwise)
In this week’s Solo Sunday, Alexis delves into her tips for beginning a new era. Tune in as she discusses her product faves, the importance of leaving your comfort zone, and more!

2:01 Smart tip of the week
4:48 Superficial tip of the week
7:18 Life update!
10:33 Setting your anchor – the power of prioritization
11:16 Making friends in a new environment
12:42 Leaving your comfort zone to experience motivation, growth
15:30 The stress of social comparison
16:12 Instagram Q&A!
17:54 Starting a new job the right way
19:02 Importance of staying grounded
20:23 Why work friends are crucial
21:51 Take advice from good leaders

Resources/Mentioned
How to Be a Founder: How Entrepreneurs Can Identify, Fund and Launch Their Best Ideas by Alice Bentinck and Matt Clifford
Rhode Glazing Milk
Rhode Peptide Glazing Fluid
Rhode Barrier Restore Cream
Rhode Peptide Lip Treatment

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24 min
August 24, 2023 133. How to Manage Your Time When Life is Unpredictable
Welcome back to Too Smart for This! In this week’s episode, Alexis delves into the intricate interplay between efficient time management and the essential practice of self-care. Join her as she discusses practical strategies for maximizing productivity while ensuring your well-being remains a top priority.

Show Notes
2:03 Creating a structured but flexible daily routine
2:21 OCEAN personality test
3:36 Importance of being more conscientious
4:40 Employing measures to offset spontaneity/impulsiveness
5:44 Avoiding emotion-informed decisions
6:11 Think about how you want to impact the world
7:44 Reframing what consistency means to you
8:51 What do you value?
9:31 “Making it” should include creating space for yourself
10:13 Scheduling your days for maximum productivity
11:27 Using project management tools to tackle tasks
12:21 How to reduce decision fatigue
15:41 Importance of mandatory self-care
17:15 Translating work into impactfulness
19:35 NEW TooClassic Terry Cloth Robe!

NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe
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21 min
August 21, 2023 132. How to Handle [And Give] Criticism Better
Welcome back to another Sunday Solo episode! Alexis dives into her life updates and gives you a sneak peek into what she's learning in the Wharton Classroom.

Show Notes
1:27 Superficial tip of the week
2:12 Life update!
4:49 Making friends at Wharton
6:26 How I’ve been adjusting to Philadelphia
8:21 TooCollective GMA3 Mention!
10:15 Unlearning rote negativity and choosing to celebrate yourself
14:04 Smart tip(s) of the week
15:51 How to give negative feedback

Resources/Mentioned
Anthropologie Mugs

NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe
Too Collective Website
Too Collective Affirmation Texts
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20 min
August 17, 2023 131. Sixtine Rouyre on Why Your Body Isn't Everything, How to Make Your Dreams Happen While Having Fun
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! Today’s guest is the charismatic Sixtine Rouyre, a model and influencer who proudly champions body neutrality. With an SI Swimsuit Issue under her belt, the creator uses her platform to empower women, encouraging them to embrace their bodies unconditionally and regardless of their shape and size. This week, the two get candid about their respective body image journeys, and the unrealistic expectations placed on a woman’s beauty.

Show Notes
7:49 Transitioning from modeling to influencing
10:41 Being at the forefront of the Posting Age
11:49 Finding your niche as a creator
13:21 Embracing self-love and thanking your body
17:14 Divesting from the Tumblr pro-ana movement
18:57 How TikTok can fuel toxic mindsets
21:14 Combating day-to-day disordered thinking
25:36 Finding creative inspiration from/in other creators
27:41 Life in New York!
30:04 Wild dating stories
33:58 Meeting people outside of dating apps
37:12 Why you should stop expecting others to be who they aren’t
41:04 Finding the balance between modeling and content creation
41:59 It’s important to take/make time for yourself!
44:56 Londre Bodywear collaboration
47:34 What shooting Sports Illustrated was like!
49:41 Not if, but when

Keep up with Sixtine!
@sixtine on Tiktok
@sixtinerouyre on Instagram

Resources Mentioned
House of CB
Youth to the People
Supergoop

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52 min

About Too Smart For This

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This show is for ambitious material girls learning how to turn chaos into an intentional lifestyle without abandoning their sparkle. From career leverage frameworks to debriefing the latest TikTok hot takes, we untangle society’s expectations around drive, money, beauty, wellness, and culture so you can curate your own full life. Hosted by Alexis Barber—entrepreneur, influencer, Wharton MBA, and ex-Googler—this is where lived experience meets tangible strategy. Don’t be stupid—subscribe to Too Smart For This.