Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah

Trauma bonds: What it does to your brain and genetic coding


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In today's episode, I'm diving into the fascinating topic of how trauma bonds impact not only our psychological well-being but also our genetic coding and physical health. So let's start by understanding that our DNA, our very genetic makeup, is significantly affected by the bonds formed through traumatic experiences. While we often focus on the emotional and mental aspects of trauma, it's vital to recognize that trauma leaves a trace in our brains and bodies.

Trauma bonds, especially those formed in relationships, have a profound influence on our limbic system. This part of our brain creates a blueprint of the trauma, which then manifests in our subconscious as an ongoing quest to resolve it. However, our limbic system lacks timestamps, creating an endless loop of unresolved trauma.

The brain and body can't distinguish past from present, leading to emotional pain and turmoil experienced long after a relationship ends. Whether the trauma bond was with a romantic partner, family member, or friend, the brain's genetic coding remembers and stores it. This is crucial because our subconscious mind governs 95% of our behaviors, constantly striving to address historical trauma, even if it doesn't know how or when.

Chronic stress, triggered by trauma bonds, leads to imbalances in our nervous system, high levels of stress hormones, and physical symptoms like disrupted sleep and weakened immunity. The impact of stress isn't limited to psychological distress; it affects our overall health. The body remains in a perpetual fight-or-flight mode, which can lead to various health issues, including gastrointestinal problems, heart conditions, and even cognitive impairment.

Furthermore, trauma bonds influence our genetic coding through epigenetics, altering our gene expression. DNA methylation adds methyl groups to specific genes, making them less active, especially in areas related to emotional regulation and stress response. Histone modification affects the accessibility of genes for transcription, making it difficult for us to regulate emotions, think clearly, and problem-solve during stressful situations.

Additionally, trauma bonds may be transmitted across generations, impacting not only our lives but those of our descendants. Inherited genetic coding can predispose future generations to similar emotional struggles and relationship dy

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Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships.

Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on:

✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency
✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a
✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy
✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth
✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion

Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward

We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call


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