What does decluttering a drawer full of hoodies have to do with healing after betrayal and divorce? More than you might think.

In this episode, I share how a simple project of cleaning out my dresser drawers turned into a powerful reminder of the healing journey. Just like those drawers, our inner world can get overstuffed with old roles, relationships, patterns, and guilt that no longer fit who we are today.

Together we’ll explore five healing shifts that can help you rebuild after betrayal and a life-saving divorce:

• Letting go of guilt – releasing what no longer serves you without shame.

• Intentional choosing – giving everything in your life a fresh “yes” instead of defaulting to obligation.

• Private wins – why the most important victories in healing are often unseen by others.

• Making space for what’s next – learning to tolerate the discomfort of empty space instead of rushing to fill it.

• Choosing what goes back in – filling your “drawers” with peace, boundaries, values, and relationships that truly fit.

If you’ve ever felt weighed down by old patterns, caught in guilt for letting go, or unsure what should come next in your healing journey, this episode will help you find clarity, courage, and self-trust.

✨ Tune in to discover how decluttering your drawers can become a metaphor for decluttering your life after betrayal and divorce.

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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING

💬 ⁠⁠⁠Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠⁠⁠ – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 ⁠⁠⁠Body Love Class⁠⁠⁠ – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

📍 ⁠⁠⁠Believing In You Group Coaching ⁠⁠⁠Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Dating From Within Workshop\ 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

💻 Want to work with Amie 1:1?Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎥 Watch on YouTube: Get episodes early + visual tools to support your journey.📲 Follow me on social:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok → @amiewoolsey

Need support ?📩 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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It can be hard to know how to start living life after a life saving divorce. Where the story you thought you were writing with someone suddenly ends in shock, grief, and confusion. Using the powerful analogy of The Monster at the End of This Book, I explore why fear keeps us stuck in the past pages and how agency becomes your greatest plot twist. You’ll learn why your nervous system clings to old chapters, how to stop rereading the painful parts, and simple practices to begin turning the page into a future you get to author. If you’ve ever wondered how to move forward when the ending you dreamed of no longer exists, this episode will remind you that your story isn’t over—you’re still holding the pen.

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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING

💬 ⁠⁠⁠Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠⁠⁠ – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 ⁠⁠⁠Body Love Class⁠⁠⁠ – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

📍 ⁠⁠⁠Believing In You Group Coaching ⁠⁠⁠Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Dating From Within Workshop\ 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

💻 Want to work with Amie 1:1?Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎥 Watch on YouTube: Get episodes early + visual tools to support your journey.📲 Follow me on social:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok → @amiewoolsey

Need support ?📩 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Even if you chose divorce… you might still doubt it.
This episode is for every woman who left a harmful relationship—and now finds herself wondering:

• “What if I made the wrong choice?”

• “What if he really changed for her?”

• “What if it wasn't that bad after all?”

This kind of doubt is so common after a life-saving divorce, especially when your nervous system is detoxing from the chaos, and you’re sitting in the quiet that once felt like peace—but now feels unfamiliar.

We talk about:

• Why your doubt doesn't mean you made the wrong decision

• Nervous system withdrawals (and why they make you question everything)

• Cognitive dissonance and trauma bonds after betrayal

• What “peace” actually feels like after a high-conflict or covertly abusive marriage

• How to anchor into your truth even when your ex’s curated life makes you question your reality

If you’ve ever caught yourself spiraling in “what ifs” or stalking their new partner online, this episode will help you come home to your knowing again.

🧠 Doubt is not a red flag. It's part of healing from being gaslit.
You didn’t leave because it was easy. You left because you finally trusted yourself.

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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING

💬 ⁠⁠Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠⁠ – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 ⁠⁠Body Love Class⁠⁠ – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

📍 ⁠⁠Believing In You Group Coaching ⁠⁠Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Dating From Within Workshop\ 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

💻 Want to work with Amie 1:1?Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎥 Watch on YouTube: Get episodes early + visual tools to support your journey.📲 Follow me on social:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok → @amiewoolsey

Need support ?📩 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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What does real self-love look like after betrayal and a life-saving divorce? It’s not bubble baths and retail therapy. It’s not pretending you’re “fine.”

In this episode, I share five powerful ways you can start practicing self-love today in the middle of healing. These tools go beyond surface-level self-care and get to the root of rebuilding your relationship with yourself—through alignment, boundaries, resilience, and compassion.

Together we’ll explore:

• Getting honest about what’s out of alignment – learning how betrayal and divorce can knock you off balance, and how to come back to your values.

• Setting and honoring boundaries – protecting your nervous system by not abandoning yourself when co-parenting or facing ongoing conflict.

• Paying attention to who and what brings out the worst in you – and how to funnel your energy toward the spaces and people who help you feel grounded and whole.

• Ruthlessly prioritizing your wellbeing – why self-care in trauma recovery is not a luxury, but a necessity for healing your nervous system.

• Celebrating yourself – shifting from self-criticism to noticing your progress, honoring even the smallest wins, and building self-trust through compassion.

If you’ve ever wondered why self-love feels elusive after betrayal—or why you keep abandoning yourself in the process—this episode will give you both validation and practical tools to shift.

✨ Healing isn’t about becoming perfectly regulated or polished. It’s about practicing alignment, protecting your energy, and showing up for yourself—over and over again.

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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING

💬 ⁠⁠⁠Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠⁠⁠ – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 ⁠⁠⁠Body Love Class⁠⁠⁠ – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

📍 ⁠⁠⁠Believing In You Group Coaching ⁠⁠⁠Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Dating From Within Workshop\ 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

💻 Want to work with Amie 1:1?Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎥 Watch on YouTube: Get episodes early + visual tools to support your journey.📲 Follow me on social:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok → @amiewoolsey

Need support ?📩 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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In this episode, I’m inviting you into the yoga studio with me—kind of. I recently did an isometric yoga workout and whoa, it became the perfect metaphor for healing after betrayal. You’ll hear why real nervous system healing doesn’t mean you’re calm all the time, and how building emotional and somatic strength is often quiet, shaky, and invisible—but life-changing.

We talk about:

• What a healthy nervous system really looks like (it’s not what you think)

• Why getting triggered isn’t a sign you’re broken

• How to build capacity for discomfort without abandoning yourself

• The myth of toxic positivity and “never getting dysregulated again”

• Why boundaries, shaky truths, and rest are the new strength reps

If you’ve ever felt like you're doing something wrong because you're still getting triggered, or if you wonder when healing will finally stick—this one’s for you.

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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING ✨

💬 ⁠⁠Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠⁠ – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 ⁠⁠Body Love Class⁠⁠ – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

📍 ⁠⁠Believing In You Group Coaching ⁠⁠Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Dating From Within Workshop .👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

💻 Want to work with Amie 1:1?Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎥 Watch on YouTube: Get episodes early + visual tools to support your journey.📲 Follow me on social:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok → @amiewoolsey

Need support ?📩 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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What happens when the life you imagined falls apart? When the timeline you worked so hard to follow unravels—through betrayal, divorce, loss, or just life being life?

In this episode, I’m getting real about what it feels like to grieve the life you thought you’d have, and how to start living the one you’re in. I’ll share stories from my own healing journey, including how a game of M.A.S.H. shaped my childhood dreams and how a bush full of vibrant flowers in the Arizona desert brought me back to life when I was ready to give up.

We’ll talk about:

• Why timelines and life scripts can keep you stuck in shame

• The grief of “almost”—and why it hurts so much

• How comparison steals your agency

• What to do when it feels like you’ve been left behind

• Tiny ways to find joy, possibility, and purpose—right here, right now

• How to hold onto the dream without clinging to the plan

If you're navigating life after betrayal or divorce and wondering if it's too late, if you're too far behind, or if you’ll ever feel inspired again—this episode is for you.

Because even when life doesn’t go as planned… it’s not over. You still get to choose what happens next.

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Share it with someone who needs to hear it.
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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING ✨

💬 ⁠Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠ – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 ⁠Body Love Class⁠ – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

📍 ⁠Believing In You Group Coaching ⁠Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Dating From Within Workshop .👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

💻 Want to work with Amie 1:1?Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎥 Watch on YouTube: Get episodes early + visual tools to support your journey.📲 Follow me on social:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok → @amiewoolsey

Need support ?📩 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

#LifeSavingDivorce #NotYourNormalDivorce #DivorceHealing #BetrayalTraumaRecovery #EmotionalHealingAfterDivorce #DivorceJourney #DivorceFromAbuse #TraumaInformedDivorce #SurvivingDivorce #HealthyDivorceRecovery #DivorceAndHealing #DivorceEmpowerment #BetrayalTrauma #HealingFromBetrayal #AbuseSurvivorHealing #LifeAfterBetrayal #HealingThroughDivorce #DivorceAndSelfDiscovery #DivorceRecoveryJourney#shouldistayorgo

Have you ever felt your empathy was a problem? Or wished you weren’t so empathetic?
If you've ever been told you're too emotional, too much, or too sensitive—and you've been carrying the emotional labor in your relationships—this episode is for you.

In today’s powerful conversation, I’m talking directly to the women who have had their empathy used against them—those of you who’ve tried so hard to fix, soothe, and hold it all together.
I’m naming the truth: your empathy was never the problem.
It was just handed to the wrong people.

Empathy without boundaries is emotional self-neglect. But when empathy is rooted in a secure self, it becomes your sacred strength.

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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING

💬 ⁠Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠ – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 ⁠Body Love Class⁠ – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

📍 ⁠Believing In You Group Coaching ⁠Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Dating From Within Workshop\ 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

💻 Want to work with Amie 1:1?Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎥 Watch on YouTube: Get episodes early + visual tools to support your journey.📲 Follow me on social:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok → @amiewoolsey

Need support ?📩 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

#LifeSavingDivorce #NotYourNormalDivorce #DivorceHealing #BetrayalTraumaRecovery #EmotionalHealingAfterDivorce #DivorceJourney #DivorceFromAbuse #TraumaInformedDivorce #SurvivingDivorce #HealthyDivorceRecovery #DivorceAndHealing #DivorceEmpowerment #BetrayalTrauma #HealingFromBetrayal #AbuseSurvivorHealing #LifeAfterBetrayal #HealingThroughDivorce #DivorceAndSelfDiscovery #DivorceRecoveryJourney#shouldistayorgo

“Amie, does it really get better?”

In this episode, I’m answering her directly—and tenderly.
If you're stuck in that foggy, aching space where hope feels out of reach, this conversation is for you. I’m not here to offer toxic positivity or polished promises. I’m here to speak the truth: what better actually looks like after betrayal, why it often doesn't feel believable at first, and how you can still take steps forward—even if you’re not fully convinced yet.

We’ll explore:

• Why “better” doesn’t mean perfect or pain-free

• How trauma clouds your ability to trust in the future

• What post-traumatic growth really looks like in daily life

• What to do when your brain and body can’t find hope

• Why you don’t have to believe it yet to begin

This is a love letter to anyone who is hurting and unsure. You don’t have to feel ready. You just have to keep going.

✨ Because healing isn't a promise I make to you—it's a truth that's already living inside you, waiting to be remembered.

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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING ✨

💬 Empowered Divorce Q&A – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 Body Love Class – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

📍 Believing In You Group Coaching Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Dating From Within Workshop .👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

💻 Want to work with Amie 1:1?Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎥 Watch on YouTube: Get episodes early + visual tools to support your journey.📲 Follow me on social:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok → @amiewoolsey

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You didn't ask to do this healing work but you are doing it anyways- THAT is going to make you resilient! What if the idea of self-love just makes you tired? Or even angry? What if you're still trying to bloom in the aftermath of betrayal?In this final episode of the Summer Song Series, I’m diving deep into two songs that speak directly to the raw truth of healing after betrayal trauma—Self Love by Avery Anna and Resilient by Katy Perry.Let’s be honest—healing can feel exhausting. It can feel unfair. And for many of you, the phrase “just love yourself” doesn’t feel like a warm hug—it feels like pressure, noise, or even another way you're not measuring up. If you've ever rolled your eyes at a therapist telling you to list 10 things you love about yourself, you're not alone. I've been there.

Through the lyrics of Self Love, I give you permission to hate how hard this all is—and still move toward something truer. And through Resilient, we come back to that part of you that knows she's made to rise. Even when it’s hard. Especially when it’s hard.

If you’ve ever felt like you're too broken, too behind, too tired to heal—this one is for you. You are not behind. You are not too far gone. You are still blooming, even in the cracks. You are resilient. You were born to be brilliant.

Check out my full Healing Me, Choosing Me playlist ⁠HealingMEChooseingME Spotify Playlist.

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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING ✨

📍 Dating From Within Workshop .👉 ⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠

📍 Believing In You Group Coaching Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠

🎁 FREE SUPPORT + RESOURCES

💬 Empowered Divorce Q&A – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 Body Love Class – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

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Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠

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Today’s episode is for the woman who stayed far too long in a relationship where she was never truly seen. Where she loved deeply, showed up fully, and kept hoping that maybe one day… he’d really know her.

But that day never came.

This episode is about the ache of being emotionally invisible—and the beauty of finally turning inward and saying, “I see me now.”

We’re exploring two soul-stirring songs by Kelly Clarkson—“Did You Know” and “Me”—and how they validate that gut-wrenching realization:
He never really knew me. And honestly? I didn’t fully know me either… until now.

If you’ve ever felt erased in your relationship, if you’ve ever questioned your worth because someone else didn’t reflect it back, this episode will meet you right there.
And then walk with you toward something far more powerful:
Self-ownership.
Self-knowing.
And the kind of healing that doesn’t require someone else to finally see you—because you do.

Chemistry by Kelly Clarkson

Amie's ⁠HealingMEChooseingME Spotify Playlist

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✨ WORK WITH AMIE + NEXT STEPS IN YOUR HEALING ✨

📍 Dating From Within Workshop .👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to register⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Believing In You Group Coaching Ready to stop letting your brain hijack your healing? Learn how to work with your nervous system, shift your thoughts, and create the life you actually want. Next round begins in January—spots go fast!👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Reserve your spot⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Divorce 101: Self-Paced GuideFeeling stuck in the aftermath of betrayal or unsure where to go next? This guide meets you right where you are and helps you make your next best step.🎯 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Start by taking the quiz⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Intimacy Within: Self-Paced CourseWant real connection in a future relationship? Start by building healthy intimacy within. Learn the 7 levels of intimacy and how to practice them—first, with YOU.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out here⁠⁠⁠⁠

📍 Should I Stay or Go? CourseThis guide walks you through one of the hardest questions you'll ever face. It's not about finding the right answer—it's about becoming the chooser of it.👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more + enroll⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎁 FREE SUPPORT + RESOURCES

💬 Empowered Divorce Q&A – Free monthly group coaching. First Thursday of each month.

👣 Body Love Class – Learn how to reclaim your body after betrayal.

💻 Want to work with Amie 1:1?

Book a consult: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠

🎥 Watch on YouTube: Get episodes early + visual tools to support your journey.📲 Follow me on social:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok → @amiewoolsey

Need support ?📩 ⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠

#LifeSavingDivorce #NotYourNormalDivorce #DivorceHealing #BetrayalTraumaRecovery #EmotionalHealingAfterDivorce #DivorceJourney #DivorceFromAbuse #TraumaInformedDivorce #SurvivingDivorce #HealthyDivorceRecovery #DivorceAndHealing #DivorceEmpowerment #BetrayalTrauma #HealingFromBetrayal #AbuseSurvivorHealing #LifeAfterBetrayal #HealingThroughDivorce #DivorceAndSelfDiscovery #DivorceRecoveryJourney#shouldistayorgo