This week Taylor and Ashley discuss dealing with OCD flare-ups and gym anxiety, unpacking postpartum emotions, the idea of "right person, wrong time", and why that one person you didn't get a shot with is better in your head than they would be in reality. 

Ashley is a cat mom now and Taylor is putting on a show for jury duty. This week they discuss wanting men to be more theatrical in bed, the Netflix show Baby Reindeer and how trauma affects intimacy and sex, taking a step back from porn, not every action needs a reaction and not everyone deserves a response & MORE. 

This week Taylor and Ashley discuss the places where they run into the most problems, watching the Drake & Kendrick situation unfold (this was recorded the morning after Family Matters/Meet the Grahams), how Ashley got half her town riled up, & MORE. 

This week Taylor has severe egg ick and Ashley gives a baby update. They discuss confusion around dating apps and situationships, having to ask someone to take care of something, people that only pretend to change, & MORE. 

Taylor lives in fear of her computer blowing up and Ashley fears being dragged into the tunnels beneath her workplace. This week they discuss qualities they realized they need in a partner, why some people have difficulty cutting anyone off, having someone reject you in the bedroom, can you ever get over not being someone's type, & MORE. 

This week Taylor and Ashley send their deepest apologies to the freckle community and that one guy in Wawa who really loves a nice sandal. They discuss the places you never want to be hit on, approaching women in the wild, “flirty” personalities, do you always know what you’re signing up for when you start dating someone seriously, why you should ask the crazy questions, & MORE. 

Taylor and Ashley are not very happy with the weather forecasting groundhog. This week they talk about times the bar was in hell, social media and why it's uncomfortable posting on Instagram now, the phrase "if they're not getting it from you they're getting it from somewhere else", & MORE. 

This week Taylor and Ashley ponder how to bounce correctly and how men blow steam off after an argument. They discuss being with someone whose best friends are women, setting boundaries, having flaky people in your life, & MORE. 

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Ashley and Taylor are having an off week between getting sick and pub crawls in the pouring rain. This week they discuss friends that argue "like sisters", feeling pressure to want the same things as the people around you, best vs worst times of day to have sex, and they share their thoughts on the latest season of Love Is Blind. 

Ashley is being asked some tough questions by her daughter and Taylor is asking the audience if anyone can explain vibrator settings. They discuss getting love bombed (and banter bombed), being bad at playing the field, going through phones, being let down by someone, & more!

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