Learning your spouse is an honor, a privilege you have for the rest of your life. You have the opportunity to grow individually, as a couple, and ultimately, in your walk with Christ. Don't take this privilege for granted, or expect it to remain if you choose to ignore it until you have "time" to invest.

We suggest you take the 5 love languages test https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language and make every effort to grow in loving your spouse through their love language. Never stop growing and learning! If you need help, recognize it, if you need to invest time in each other, do it. Don't be complacent and don't miss out on the chance to truly make what matters matter. 

As always, we would love to hear from you. And if you want more information about 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org. We would love to be a part of your growth and healing in marriage. 

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A criticizing spouse is one of the key factors in divorce, but self criticism is also detrimental to the health of your marriage. On this episode we take a look at criticism, it's effects, and some tangible steps you can take towards growth in this area. We encourage you to pray and to begin to...

These actions apply to both sides of the coin, and will begin to change your mindset towards yourself and your spouse. Ultimately, we want you to remember to fight FOR each other, and towards resolution, in every hot button topic your marriage faces.

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for His possession, so that you may proclaim the praises of the One who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light. 1st Peter 2:9

Here is some great information and advice on criticism in marriage. https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/critical-spouse-signs/

As always, we would love to hear from you. And if you want more information about 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org

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Today we live in a world where truth is ever changing, and our kids are bearing the brunt of the ever shifting dialogue. 

As parents...

Are you raising kids that are going to be high functioning adults, and that you want to be friends with one day? 

We hope that we can help you answer some of these questions and equip you as you navigate raising kids and leaning into their teenage years. 

As always, we would love to hear from you. And if you want more information about 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org

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The difference between where you want to be, and the life you dream of living, are consistent steps in the right direction. Over and over we see that developing consistent disciplines in marriage is a huge piece of the puzzle in building a better one, and towards healing. It is determining to do what it takes as long as it takes, and not depending on motivation, but on purpose.

Our biggest encouragement is for you to develop consistency in getting into the Word of God. This is an area that will impact every other area you desire to improve in...your marriage, as a parent, as a person, and ultimately, as a child of God.  

To listen to more about what we have to say on Consistency, tune into Episode 37, "The Key?...Consistency!

As always, we would love to hear from you. And if you want more information about 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org

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Sexuality is one of the first places you can see the evidence of brokenness in a relationship. It holds great power to bring both connection and disconnection with your spouse.  God's design for sex within marriage is meant to be a beautiful place of intimacy that draws a husband and a wife closer to one another, where they can experience pleasure with one another, but this is an area of brokenness for so many. 

On this episode we talk about reclaiming ground the enemy has stolen, how to reconnect with each other after betrayed trust, and pursuing one another in every area, without expectation.  Don't miss this episode on this important topic and invite God into EVERY area of your life...including your sex life! 

As always, we would love to hear from you. And if you want more information about 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org You can also email us @[email protected]

We often give people advice that they should follow peace but what does that look like? If you are feeling comfortable, does that mean peace? What does it look like to have a Godly peace that exceeds your emotions, understanding, and cirumstances? We dig into this topic on this episode and encourage you to never  get ahead or behind where God wants you to be. 

As always, we would love to hear from you. And if you want more information about 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org

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This entire episode today is based off of a friend who left us a review. We wanted to address what it is like to be a part of the collateral damage when there is betrayed trust in a marriage. 

Family and friends can either hinder or help in these situations. On this episode we give some practical advice on how you can help. Don't be a friend or family that helps numb the pain, but instead enable them to walk through it, and towards healing by being there, being careful with your advice, and above all praying! 

Never underestimate the power of what God can do in the most broken places and how prayers are answered everyday! 

As always, we would love to hear from you. And if you want more information about Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org

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Mindset and Moving Forward are key to any aspect of your life if you don't want to become stagnant. On this episode we talk about specific things that we learned that allowed us, through God, to get out of the same cycle over and over. 

Isaiah 43:18-19

“Forget the former things;

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We developed guardrails and accountability the hard way. We didn't think about them, or develop them until our marriage was in crisis. At first, they started as a series of rules instead of a systemic way to approach life, but we learned how valuable they were in helping us head the right direction, and protecting what we value. 

On this episode we cover some of our own personal guardrails for our marriage, tips on how to have that conversation with your spouse, and key aspects to look for when seeking out accountability partners. 

As always, we would love to hear from you. And if you want more information about Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org

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Our story involves a lot of forgiveness....on both sides. On this episode we touch briefly on Lisa and what forgiveness looked like for her, but the focus is on Brad and his journey of walking through forgiving himself. Listen as he discusses the process that God brought him through and how that transformed the way he thought, and even looked at himself. He reveals how God eventually had him look at his scars in an entirely different way. We pray this honesty brings hope to wherever you might find yourself.

We love that there is NOTHING that anyone can do that is bigger than what Jesus did on the cross. When we truly repent, this forgiveness is extended to each one of us sinners and our slate is wiped clean. Whether you need to forgive yourself or someone else, we challenge you to make that choice. Walk it out daily, and don't let bitterness, discouragement, unforgiveness, or anger hold you back from what God has for you.

Remember this verse, “My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous. He himself is the sacrifice that atones for our sins—and not only our sins but the sins of all the world.”

1 John 2:1-2 NLT

As always, we would love to hear from you. And if you want more information about Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org

You can also email us @[email protected]