Well Said with Syd

Syd & Soph had so much fun the first time ‘round… they had to do it again. IS IT A RED-FLAG OR A DEALBREAKER? The girls give their opinions on some controversial red flags or deal breakers that range from lighter topics like - if he washes his bed sheets once every 6 weeks to heavier topics like - dating someone with an addiction. The girls share personal stories while answering these questions and end up admitting to some surprising “green flags." (hint: soph sleeps with socks. ew) Syd tells us about her weekend downtown at Cowboy Jacks and Soph gives us an update on a dramatic instagram DM that turned to an awkward encounter. Andrew Inserra, our amazing producer, even joins in on the fun! Stick around to hear Syd and Soph answer some listener advice questions and react to a couple crazy #StraightCandid stories. Did someone say Chanel Bag?

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We got it from our Mama's! The mom’s have arrived. The mothers. The women who sacrificed their birth canal for us. We know by now that Syd and Soph don’t hold anything back and neither do their moms. Without hesitation, the moms give their initial thoughts on the podcast and express their dislike for PooPoo Boy and other risky topics - #NoFilter. They offer their perspective on loss, love, divorce, making mistakes, and finding their independence as woman. And this week, our #StraightCandid moments and advice segment get the reaction and opinions of not two, but four candid women. One thing listeners should understand is these mom’s are now apart of the candid family, therefore they are your mom’s too. Laughs, tears, and a few damn good pieces of advice for this weeks takeaways. Enjoy!

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You asked, and the girls answered! This week is all about giving advice to listener questions. The girls share their favorite spots to shop + skincare routines to start, then shift into the tougher questions, including: how to support a significant other dealing with anxiety, dating with differentiating political views, and sleeping with a friend. Syd and Soph talk about dealing with microaggressions and catcalls as a woman, the "three date rule," and reiterating the fact that you have no obligation to keep your sexuality on lockdown. Soph quickly answers a listener Q about blowjobs - grandma lips or duck lips? Syd goes into an embarrassing story about a massage appointment nightmare. Listen long enough, you may even hear one of our favorite listener #straightcandid stories yet. (hint: hashtag normalize queefing!)

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WELCOME ANGIE OKON. Angie is a fitness influencer, IFBB Bikini Pro, and an absolute bad ass both mentally and physically. Angie talks about her journey in the fitness industry, how she uses her platform to inspire other women, and the realization of wanting to be nothing but her "fucking" self; which includes profanity (lol). Later on, Angie speaks to the unhealthy aspects and hardships of a toxic relationship that consumed her life. She gives dirty details on how she caught a cheater, read through narcissistic traits, and trusted her gut. She also walks us through how she is doing now and what she focuses on to move forward. This episode is FULL of #straightcandid advice, including how to flirt with your gym crush, or what to do when you question your significant other's interests in porn. We hope you enjoy! Follow Angie Okon at @amarieokon. Support Anti-Asian Hate Crimes here: pbs.org

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Syd and Soph celebrate their 20th episode with glass of red wine and a rapid fire '20 Questions' game to get to know the girls a bit more. Syd chats about her preference in dating older men, while Soph is still unsure-as she says she is addicted to "young energy." They spend some time chatting about the pros and cons of dating age gaps and even touch on the topic of Daddy Issues and safety. If you listen long enough to hear Soph go from sober to buzzed, you may even hear a listener #straightcandid story about "busting balls". Confused? The girls were too. Give it a listen and as always- please rate, review, and subscribe on apple podcasts. Thanks for all the listener support always. WE LOVE YOU!

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Syd and Soph start this episode off with some real talk. These girls promised to stay candid with you and this is exactly what they do when they share some behind the scenes information about the podcast and talk about struggles they have encountered as a team. You don't think they would leave you without any entertaining takeaways though, did you? Syd and Soph then talk tips and tricks to female grooming, after Soph shares a straight candid moment involving her unmaintained bush. Razor bumps no more! Syd and Soph chat waxing, oils, and a shaving routine so you are able to put your best bush forward. Boys, you might even learn a thing or two. They also talk about the negative effects of Instagram on your relationships, not only with your significant others but with yourself. They both give advice on how to be authentic through your instagram posts and how to NOT end up in a scroll hole. You’re going to want listen all the way through, because they’ve got some WILD Listener Straight Candid Stories that’ll definitely leave you laughing (and your jaw wide open). #poopooboy 

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Can we get a drum roll please? Jordan Hagel, Syd's boyfriend, is finally on the mic. Jordan sits down with the girls this week to talk about all things hobbies - finances, stocks, intro to budgeting, Pokemon (what the???), and how MONEY talk can be intriguing when kept simple. And yes, even Soph found the convo interesting, so you will too. Soph also throws in some juicy questions about Syd and Jordan's relationship - What makes this relationship different? Do either of them have a pet peeve with the other? Who apologizes first? The girls go on to chat about Syd's new roommate, Soph’s snapchat hacker, and as always... they share some fun listener #straightcandid stories.

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Post-College is confusing af. Whether it's finding the balance between work and social life or figuring out who your true friends are, Syd and Soph have advice for you. They chat about cutting out toxic relationships, what to do if you have feelings for a friend, and even update you on their newest Straight Candid Member (hint: her name is Ellie Hall and she is our cute cute intern). Soph updates us on her relationship status and talks about how to get out of the friend zone. Syd drops knowledge on simple ways to merge passions with career and tips on prioritizing your time and your relationships. If you feel confused about post-college life, this episode is for you. Listen, laugh, and feel along as Syd and Soph reflect on what their early twenties have taught them. 

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Khadijah Cooper - a sexuality educator, Twin-Cities comedian, and all the time mom, joins us this week to talk about all things sex. We talk puberty, squirting, initiating sex, dating in your 20's & 30’s, and candid convos about everything in between. She is passionate about giving people the tools and knowledge they need to have pleasurable sex, all while setting intentional boundaries and discovering their own individual values. We understand that open conversations about sex can be awkward, but that's the point!! Khadijah is a perfect guest to chat about these taboo topics: she normalizes this type of conversation and answers the dirty questions you've been wanted to know, but have been too afraid to ask. Normalize the conversation with us - Listener discretion is advised.

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You’re going to want to grab a bowl of popcorn for this one folks - No better way to showcase our bad ass listeners than by telling YOUR experiences. Syd and Soph tell some WILD Listener stories (#StraightCandid Moments) that are nothing but real, raw, candid, and dare we even say.. awkward? You’ll hear stories about month old tampons, sex bribe tips (aka spicing up relationships), drunk texting mistakes, creative hookups, and more! Later in the episode, Syd whips out her storytelling skills to explain a time where she was faced with a life or death situation. Sophie explains how she is upset with pool pee’ers and is a big fan of women’s strip clubs. Lets just say, this episode is packed with content you’ll want to hear. Be ready to laugh, cry, and sit on the edge of your seat. Enjoy!

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