Okay babes ... this one’s JUICY. 💍🌊

In this solo episode, I’m finally spilling the tea on my “secret” wedding (!!) and the massive 3,000 mile move I just made—for love, for expansion, for LIFE.

This isn’t just a life update—it’s a story about surrender, intuition, and letting love annihilate everything I thought I was.

I’m diving deep into:
✨How a guy I met on holiday for 48 hours became my husband!
✨ The wild lessons of long-distance love
✨ Why opening my heart to love was braver than healing my sexual trauma
✨ What Saturn Return is dragging me through (and how I’m letting it shape me) - p.s. HELP
✨ Why choosing the scary, soul-expanding path is always worth it

And yes… I’m officially living on a DIVINE island now. 🌴 And hosting the very first Wet & Worthy Woman Retreat here in Tenerife this October!

Come feel the pulse of this next chapter—raw, real, wet, and WILD.

☾ Join the first ever WET & WORTHY WOMAN RETREAT:
Tenerife • Oct 9–12
Doors open THIS WEEK – get on the waitlist:👉 https://thewildfem.com/retreat

☾ Come to SHE TEMPLE (online retreat day – May 25th 2025):
Experience the energy of the WET & WORTHY method:👉 https://thewildfem.com/shetemple

Let’s stay connected:✨ @thewildfem on Instagram

Gifts to get you started ...👉 Free Sacred Self Pleasure resources, courses & masterclasses for women — The Wild Fem

You don’t need to try to be soft. You need to feel safe.

This episode explores why so many women hardened in the first place, and why being told to “just soften” often bypasses the trauma we hold in our feminine bodies.

We dive into:
– Why numbness in the bedroom is a nervous system response
– How to stop dissociating during intimacy
– Reclaiming safety in your body (yes, your pussy)

- Why women got HARD in the first place — the survival reason no one talks about

This is the conversation I wish every woman could hear.

And if your body is whispering yes, if your feminine is ready to be felt, held, and finally heard… then you’re invited into SHE TEMPLE.

A 1-day online sanctuary for women who are ready to feel safe, sacred, and sovereign in their own skin.

🕊️ We gather this New Moon — May 25th @ 11am UK time
🎟️ Early bird is open now at a deeply accessible price

This is the softness that changes everything.

Your reclamation begins here - Grab an early bird spot here.

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: @thewildfem

Gift:

GRAB THE REPLAY OF THE FREE CEREMONY TO RECONNECT YOU WITH YOUR FEMININE ANATOMY HERE - REMEMBER HER

This week, we’re diving deep into why so many women are struggling to feel "in the mood".

I’m breaking down ...

- how to reawaken your turn-on

- melt resistance in your nervous system

- and begin to feel wet, soft, and open again (or for the very first time).

We’re talking:

• Why your pssy might be closing and drying up—and how to lovingly reverse years of disappointing sx

• Why lube isn’t the real answer (even though it seems like a quick fix)

• The deeper emotional roots of yoni dryness, and how it has more to do with your relationship to your body than your hormones

• How to truly know when your body is ready to be entered— so you become deeply receptive, magnetic, and dripping wet

This episode is a reclamation.

🕊️ And if you’re ready to take it deeper, join me for REMEMBER HER, a FREE 90-minute online full moon ceremony to reconnect with the most forbidden & sacred part of your body.
May 11th 2025, 7pm UK time → Join here

It’s time to feel at home in your body again.
Let her lead. Let her open. Let her drip.

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

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meet your pussy in this ancient massage practice (code WET for a juicy discount)

Wise Nectar - Yoni Mapping & De-armouring trantric massage course for women. Release sexual numbness — The Wild Fem

Join the RETREAT waitlist & be the first to get exclusive access to the early bird spots to join me in Tenerife, Spain, this October - thewildfem.com/retreat

Let’s go there today.

Because I'm done hearing incredible women & clients say to me, "I don't feel feminine" ...

In this episode, I pull back the veil on the difference between performing femininity and actually feeling it.

I’ll share what I’ve seen in my workshops—powerful, sensual dancers who still can’t touch their own body with real presence.

And I activate your feminine frequency with this truth:

Feminine energy is not an aesthetic.
It’s not something you do.
It’s something you let happen to you.

We talk about the grip of control, the real medicine of dance and devotion, and how love—yes, love—is the thing that will crack you open if you let it.

I’ll share the intimate ways orgasm taught me to surrender, soften, and stop gripping my way through sensuality.

And how everything from your clothes to your confidence becomes an effortless byproduct when you let yourself be lived.

This episode is a reclamation. A remembering.
Not of what femininity should look like—
But of what it feels like to be a woman, fully.

CLAIM WORSHIP HER -

The de-armouring bundle mentioned in this episode which includes the practice that changed EVERYTHING for me.

https://thewildfem.com/dearmouring

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

• Untame with these revolutionary self-romance journal prompts & playlists

• Learn the ritual that awakened internal pleasure & released my s*xual trauma

• Rewrite your beliefs about men & finally feel SAFE in love & receiving

This week, we’re going deep — like lineage-level deep.

I’m bringing you the actual science behind inherited trauma (yes, it’s in your DNA),

and pairing it with the sacred feminine wisdom that’s been stripped from us for generations.

Here’s what I’m sharing in this episode:

• The real reason ancestral trauma lingers — and what the spiritual community keeps missing

• How I personally broke centuries of shame and sexual shut-down in my lineage using an ancient, embodied ritual

• The radical reclamation that happens when a woman touches herself not for performance... but for healing

🌀 WHY didn’t they tell us this was available in our bodies?🌀 WHY weren’t our mothers and grandmothers taught to feel safe in their own skin?🌀 WHY have we been walking around with sacred, untouched terrain inside us for DECADES?

Listen — I don’t teach internal massage so you can have better sex (though let’s be honest, that's a delicious bonus).
I teach it because it’s time we break the curse of disconnection, of exile, of centuries-long silence inside the feminine body.

This episode is medicine.

For your body, your bloodline, your becoming.

Join WISE NECTAR today -

A reclamation journey into the deepest source of your feminine power.

Learn the touch ritual that changed my life & massage away centuries of numbness, exile & shame. https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: www.instagram.com/thewildfem/

With reverence & a whole lot of realness,Charlotte xxx

Alright babe, we need to talk.

If you’ve been deep in your feminine energy journey — lighting the candles, doing the womb work, softening, receiving — and STILL find yourself:

🌀 Gripping for control
🌀 Struggling to fully let go in the bedroom
🌀 Burning out because you "can’t" rest
🌀 Low-key resenting him for not leading…
🌀 Or feeling weird AF about asking for support or being fully worshipped

…then this episode is for you.

This is the piece most “feminine energy” work is missing — the thing that has us all twisted up,

overthinking our every breath,

trying to be “feminine enough” to get a man to lead us.

And it’s honestly doing men dirty, too. 👀

Let’s talk about the way the polarity space has boxed women into performing softness,

chasing worthiness by being “chosen,”

and shrinking themselves in the name of surrender.

We’re unpacking:

• What “feminine” actually means (not what Instagram told you)

• Why polarity teachings can backfire hard in real-life relationships

• How to lead AND surrender

• The truth about receiving and letting your man hold you

Let’s bust out of the f**king box.

🔗 Ready to rewrite your relationship to men and finally feel safe to trust, soften, and be held?

Claim the masculine healing bundle here for just £33: https://thewildfem.com/men

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

• Untame with these revolutionary self-romance journal prompts & playlists

• Learn the ritual that awakened internal pleasure & released my s*xual trauma

• Rewrite your beliefs about men & finally feel SAFE in love & receiving 

⚡⁠Experience the WET & WORTHY WOMAN method here ⁠inside these chainbreaking at-home healing temple nights

She wants to be f**ked to God……but still calls her pussy “down there.”
She wants to be f**ked to God……but hasn't cracked the code to her own internal O's.
She wants to be f**ked to God……but doesn’t know WHAT to ask for in the bedroom.

This week, I’m calling out the high-achieving, spiritually-savvy women who are doing the work in every area of their lives—except the bedroom.

You’re awakening, you’re opening, you’re so close to the dripping wet pleasure priestess that lives inside you…
But you’re still prioritizing their pleasure.
Still unsure how to speak your desire.
Still dimming your turn-on to be “good,” “easy,” or “enough.”

No more.
This episode is for the woman who’s done performing and ready to receive.
To never fake it again.
To own her erotic power and take full responsibility for the deepest, most divine sex of her LIFE.

⚡ And babe—this episode, I’m dropping a juicy code just for my podcast Goddesses:
Use code WET at checkout for nearly 50% off WISE NECTAR—the ritual that literally changed my life.

She’s not “down there.”She’s a f**king temple.Time to worship.

⚡Come & hang out on instagram - @thewildfem

The Hardest Part of My Feminine Healing Journey ~ Hyper-Independent to Being Soft & Receiving

If you haven’t heard the news yet … I’m leaving the UK. I’m moving to Tenerife. I’m going to be with my beloved.

This might be the most vulnerable & powerful thing I’ve ever done.

To go ALL IN on union—after years of teaching women to be sovereign & wild.
To leave behind the life I built, for a man.

After being raised by fierce feminists.
After being left by a father I’ve never met.
After being born into three generations of single mums …

In my world, opening my heart to a man is seen as weakness.
Softening is seen as silly.
Receiving is seen as dangerous.
Men are seen as a species incapable of love.

I have never known a consistent man.
I was raised to be hyper-independent—because that’s what kept us safe.

And now, I’m moving to a country where all I know is him … after a lifetime of men leaving.

This is the story of how I opened to divine love.
How I healed my abandonment wounds.
How I finally stopped playing “safe” … and went all in on union.

⚡️Claim the Masculine Healing Bundle here & rewrite your narrative about men so you can open your heart & receive ⚡️

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

• Untame with these revolutionary self-romance journal prompts & playlists

• Learn the ritual that awakened internal pleasure & released my s*xual trauma

• Rewrite your beliefs about men & finally feel SAFE in love & receiving 

If you’re feeling the call to deepen into the wild & forbidden parts of your feminine while softening to receive love, open your heart & heal your relationship with men, I invite you to work with me 1:1.

This journey is potent. It’s raw. It’s life-changing.
And if your soul is whispering “yes” … you already know it’s meant for you.

Apply HERE

With so much love,

Charlotte xxx

A potent solo episode from me, and trust me—you don’t want to skip this one.

Nervous system regulation is the hot topic right now. Yoga, breathwork, self-care routines … but what if I told you that NONE of it will actually work if you’re still carrying a lifetime of trauma & completely ignoring your PUSSY?

We store so much between our thighs—moments of disconnection, times we weren’t ready, times we overrode our own boundaries, even the way we’ve treated ourselves in solo pleasure.

This part of your body holds the deepest key to your healing, yet it's the most neglected in the self-love & wellness world.

In this episode, I’m sharing the one practice that changed EVERYTHING for me—the missing piece that no one is talking about.

If you’re ready to feel whole in a way you never have before, let’s dive in.

Listen now 💦🔥

CLAIM WISE NECTAR ~ 4x self-yoni massage healing rituals for just £44 with code 'WET'

⚡️CONNECT WITH ME

-->IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thewildfem⁠⁠⁠⁠

⚡GIFTS FOR YOU -->⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

• Untame with these revolutionary self-romance journal prompts & playlists

• Learn the ritual that awakened internal pleasure & released my s*xual trauma

• Rewrite your beliefs about men & finally feel SAFE in love & receiving 

with so much deep love & gratitude,

Charlotte xxx

This week, we’re diving deep into feminine magnetism, sacred union, and the raw, unfiltered truth about love with Feminine Energy Mentor, Love Doula & Sacred Union Guide, Zoe Dane. 💫

In this convo, Zoe shares:
🔥 Her past-life memories as a sexual priestess (yes, really!)
🔥 How to let your feminine magnetism flow—without contorting yourself into a “feminine” box for a man
🔥 The REALITY of divine union (spoiler: it brings up all your sh*t)
🔥 The secret to creating divine sexual union in the bedroom
🔥 How doing LESS actually makes you more magnetic

This is for you if you desire to be claimed, led, and held in partnership—not by manipulating love, but by fully embodying your own feminine essence. 💋

If you’re craving a love where you can rest, receive, and trust while deepening into your pleasure & power as a woman… tune in now. 🎧

Links mentioned:
✨ Heal your relationship with men & open to being supported - Masculine Healing Bundle
✨ Release trauma, tension & numbness within your pussy - Life-Changing Self Massage

Connect with Zoe:
📲 Instagram
🌍 Website
🎙️ Podcast

Come hang out with me on IG—I basically do a mini podcast in my stories every day 😉 @thewildfem

With love,
Charlotte xxx