Wet & Worthy Woman with The Wild Fem

What if your man/partner doesn’t do “self development”... but you want sex that feels fucking profound?

In this episode, I’m talking about:

• Why you don’t need a tantric man to experience deep, sacred intimacy.
• The trap of becoming your partner’s sex coach, teacher & spiritual facilitator — and why that can kill the polarity you’re craving.
• Why men can feel emasculated when they constantly feel like they’re “getting it wrong.”
• The vulnerability of actually telling him what you need… instead of silently hoping he’ll magically know.
• Why saying “slower,” “more connected,” “more sacred” isn’t always enough — and how to actually help him feel what you mean.
• What happens when you stop holding a fucking workshop in your bedroom and start meeting each other on equal ground.
• The surprisingly simple secret to bringing your partner into your world of sacred sexuality
• Why intimacy becomes SO much deeper when you’re both vulnerable, curious and learning together.
• And why sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do in the bedroom… is stop trying to make it spiritual.

You don’t need a partner who knows all the language.

You need to feel like you’re in it together. ♡

And THAT is exactly why I created HELD — an intimate online yoni massage ceremony for couples who are craving slower, safer, deeper connection.

♡ Sunday, August 23rd
♡ LIVE online — replay available
♡ 7–9:30pm UK time

For couples who are craving more emotional depth, exploring sacred sexuality, wanting to reconnect after disconnection, curious about learning yoni massage together, or simply longing for intimacy that feels slower, safer & more sacred.

JOIN HELD HERE - https://thewildfem.com/held

START HERE > .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR PUSSY:

Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom. 

⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM:

The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings

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INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠ 

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

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FACILITATOR TRAINING …

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess

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💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off

Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleed

https://free-bleed.com/?ref=wildfem 

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Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training here > 2027 waitlist OPEN NOW - ⁠https://thewildfem.com/priestess⁠

I truly believe our bodies remember everything... even the stories our minds can't explain.

What if the fear, shame, grief or patterns you've been carrying didn't even begin in this lifetime?

This week I'm joined by one of the most extraordinary women I've ever received healing from.

Amandine is a sex therapist, energy channel, a WILD FEM yoni massage practitioner & soul guide who has an incredible gift for helping women release the past that's still living inside their bodies.

In this episode we explore...

• ✨ Why your body may be carrying memories far older than this lifetime.

• 🔥 How past life experiences can unconsciously shape your sexuality & self-worth today.

• 🌹 Why the womb & yoni hold some of the deepest emotional and energetic memories

• 🖤 What actually happens during an energy channeling & past life release session.

• ⚡ The terrifying vision that surfaced during one of my own sessions with Amandine... and what it changed forever.

• 🐍 Amandine's wild journey from corporate life into fully trusting her soul's work as a healer.

• ❤️ How yoni massage became one of the most powerful tools in her healing practice after training with me this year.

If you've ever felt like you're carrying something you can't explain... this conversation might just change the way you see yourself forever.

CONNECT WITH AMANDINE ON INSTAGRAM:

English account: https://www.instagram.com/journey.through_the_heart/

French account: https://www.instagram.com/latraverseeducoeur/

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START HERE > .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR PUSSY:

Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom. 

⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM:

The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings

_________________________________________________________

INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠ 

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

FACILITATOR TRAINING …

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess

_________________________________________________________

PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE - 

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off

Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleed

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Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

Inside this episode, I'm blowing up one of the biggest blind spots in conscious sexuality...

We spend years learning how we want our yoni to be touched... but are we loving his body with the same depth, reverence and presence? ❤️‍🔥

Inside, I share:

• Why the fastest way to a man's heart isn't what you've been told...
• What men confessed they were secretly aching for during the tantric massage sessions I gave them.
• The wild upgrade that happened in my own marriage when I brought conscious, sacred touch to my husband's cock.
• The surprising emails men send me every single week.
• Why giving him the sacredness you crave is often how you begin receiving it too.
• How to become the kind of lover who doesn't just turn him on... but helps his nervous system finally exhale.

If you've been craving deeper intimacy, more devotion, and sex that feels spiritual instead of performative...

Press play. This one might change everything.

START HERE > .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR PUSSY:

Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom. 

⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM:

The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings

INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠ 

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

FACILITATOR TRAINING …

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess

PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE - 

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off

Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleedhttps://free-bleed.com/?ref=wildfem 

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

For years, I thought feminine energy meant becoming softer.

Speaking slower.
Moving more gracefully.
Being sensual.
Wearing flowing dresses.
Living in my "divine feminine."

But beneath all of that...

...my heart was still armoured.

In this episode, I'm sharing the hardest lesson I've learned on my own healing journey: that true feminine softness has nothing to do with how you look or how you move.

It's about whether your body actually feels safe enough to receive.

✨ Inside this episode we'll explore:

• The hidden armour that keeps women disconnected from love, pleasure and intimacy
• Why your nervous system—not your mindset—decides what you're available to receive
• How emotional protection becomes stored physically within the body
• Why softening isn't something you perform... it's something you experience somatically
• The connection between your heart, your pelvic bowl and your capacity to receive love

If you've ever wondered why you've done all the inner work but still struggle to fully receive love, intimacy or pleasure...

This episode might completely change the way you understand feminine energy.

🌹 Ready to experience this work for yourself?

If this episode speaks to something deep within you, WISE NECTAR is my guided at-home yoni de-armouring journey, designed to help you gently soften, release stored armour and begin reconnecting with your body in the safety of your own home.

Explore WISE NECTAR here:
https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar

✨ Feeling called to facilitate this work for other women?

PRIESTESS is my 3-month trauma-informed Yoni Massage Practitioner Training, where you'll learn to safely guide women through profound somatic healing, nervous system regulation and sacred yoni massage. Our next training begins 11th October 2026, and at the time of this episode, only 2 places remain.

If your soul is whispering, "This is the work I'm here to do," I'd love to welcome you.

Learn more or apply here:
https://thewildfem.com/priestess

- Join me on Instagram for a daily dose @thewildfem - here

- Join my FREE membership (The Naughty Corner) for women on Telegram - here

With volcanic love,

Charlotte xx

We've been taught to disconnect from our bodies, override our truth, and believe sex is something we owe.

Not anymore.

In this episode, I'm sharing what I genuinely wish every woman knew before ever letting someone inside her body...

✨ We dive into:

• Your body deserves consent — every single time.
• How to feel if your yoni is actually open... or if you're abandoning yourself.
• Why penetration gets to be slow, present, safe, and deeply connected.
• The power of breath, sound, movement & staying in your body instead of leaving it.
• The most liberating truth of all: you never have to do it.

This episode isn't about becoming better at sex.

It's about remembering that your body is sacred, your pleasure is sovereign, and you are never here to betray yourself for someone else's comfort.

Press play. Your body has been waiting to hear this. 🔥

READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Come play with me on Instagram :⁠ ⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training HERE

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

For generations, women have been taught to fear their anger. To swallow it. To soften it. To spiritualise it away.

But what if your rage is sacred?

This week I'm joined by sacred rage facilitator & founder of Red Rites Mystery School, Lara Claringbould, for one of the most liberating conversations I've had on the podcast.

In this episode, we dive into:

• 🔥 Why patriarchy disconnects women from both their rage and their erotic power.
• 🔥 The difference between sacred rage, authentic anger & ego-driven projection.
• 🔥 Why expressing your anger isn't the same as attacking your partner or blaming men.
• 🔥 How "everything is a mirror" can become another way women abandon themselves.
• 🔥 What feminine rage actually looks like when it's embodied, conscious & devotional.
• 🔥 Practical ways to safely meet, honour & move your rage through the body.
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This conversation is permission to stop fearing your fire... and start remembering it as one of your greatest allies.

Connect with Lara:
Instagram: @redritesmysteryschool
redritesmysteryschool.co.uk

READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Come play with me on Instagram :⁠ ⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message ⁠HERE ⁠or email [email protected] 

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

The truth? The sex you're aching for is built on the healing you're willing to do.

In this episode, Jayde Alexandra and I dive into:

• 🔥 What it actually takes to experience soul-shaking, cosmic intimacy.
• 🌹 The feminine archetypes that completely transform your relationships and sex life.
• 💔 Why resentment towards the masculine quietly kills intimacy (and how to begin softening it).
• ⚡ The biggest way women unknowingly sabotage the deep, conscious, God-level lovemaking they crave.
• ❤️ What has created more devotion, polarity and profound love between Jayde and her man.

If you're done settling for disconnected sex and you're ready to become the woman who feels safe receiving the love, pleasure and depth she longs for...

Press play.

Connect with Jayde on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayde.alexandra/

Come play with me on Instagram:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

EXPERIENCE MY TRAUMA-INFORMED YONI MASSAGE CEREMONIES AT HOME ... ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message ⁠HERE ⁠or email [email protected] 

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

Things Women Whisper To Me During Yoni Massage Sessions

These are the words women whisper when they finally feel safe enough to stop performing.

Not because there's something wrong with them.

But because so many of us have spent our lives disconnecting from our bodies,

swallowing our truth,

and settling for touch that moves too fast.

In this episode, I'm sharing some of the things women say during yoni massage sessions that stop me in my tracks:

But this episode isn't really about yoni massage.

It's about the deeper ache so many women carry:

❤️ To feel safe in their body.

❤️ To slow down enough to actually feel.

❤️ To be touched with presence instead of pressure.

❤️ To stop performing and start receiving.

❤️ To discover what's possible when safety—not urgency—leads the way.

If you've ever found yourself craving more depth, more tenderness, more connection, or more of you in the bedroom...

This conversation is for you.

WISE NECTAR - AT HOME YONI MASSAGE❤️ Experience this love, safety & softness at home with 4x guided yoni massage rituals from me: WISE NECTAR: AT HOME YONI MASSAGE INITIATION

TRAIN WITH ME IN TRAUMA-INFORMED BODYWORK FOR WOMEN❤️ Want the details for my yoni massage practicioner training?

Message me PRIESTESS on Instagram here.Or apply NOW for the final 2 spots in November 2026 HERE

With love,

Charlotte xx

If you've ever wondered why intimacy feels hard, why you're never in the mood, or why your body seems disconnected from pleasure, this episode is for you.

🔥 Inside this episode:

• Why feeling disconnected during intimacy isn't a libido problem

• What your body might actually be saying when you never want sex

• The hidden reasons you can't get wet (that have nothing to do with attraction)

• How chronic numbness can be a trauma response living in your yoni

• Why you're always waiting for sex to be over — and what it reveals about safety, boundaries & conditioning

Your vagina is not broken! She's communicating.

The question is: are you listening?

✨ Ready to become certified in trauma-informed yoni massage and create deeper impact, wealth & transformation for women? DM me on Instagram @thewildfem

or apply for one of the final 2 spots inside PRIESTESS.

APPLY FOR PRIESTESS: ⁠https://thewildfem.com/priestess⁠

Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠

🌹 Ready to experience this work for yourself?

WISE NECTAR gives you 4 powerful guided yoni massage rituals to release numbness, tension & stored trauma so you can feel safer, softer and more alive in your feminine anatomy.

WISE NECTAR: https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar

With love, Charlotte xx

I used to think tantric massage was about becoming better at sex.

I couldn't have been more wrong.

In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the practice that transformed the way I experience intimacy, touch, pleasure, connection and my own body.

We're diving into:

• What most people get completely wrong about tantric massage

• What tantric massage actually is (and why it's about so much more than sex)

• How it helped me move from performance into presence

• Why so many women struggle to truly receive touch

• The surprising ways it changed my relationship, my body and my sex life

• Why learning to touch with presence changes everything—not just for the person receiving, but for the person giving

If you're craving deeper connection, more aliveness in your body and a completely different way of relating to intimacy, this episode is for you.

🔥 ONLY 4 SPOTS REMAIN 🔥

Applications are now open for my Trauma-Informed Ceremonial Yoni Massage Practitioner Certification beginning October 2026.

This is for the woman who knows she's here to facilitate profound healing, transformation and reclamation for other women.

Apply here:
https://thewildfem.com/priestess

READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Come play with me on Instagram :⁠ ⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx