Wet & Worthy Woman with The Wild Fem

I used to think tantric massage was about becoming better at sex.

I couldn't have been more wrong.

In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the practice that transformed the way I experience intimacy, touch, pleasure, connection and my own body.

We're diving into:

• What most people get completely wrong about tantric massage

• What tantric massage actually is (and why it's about so much more than sex)

• How it helped me move from performance into presence

• Why so many women struggle to truly receive touch

• The surprising ways it changed my relationship, my body and my sex life

• Why learning to touch with presence changes everything—not just for the person receiving, but for the person giving

If you're craving deeper connection, more aliveness in your body and a completely different way of relating to intimacy, this episode is for you.

🔥 ONLY 4 SPOTS REMAIN 🔥

Applications are now open for my Trauma-Informed Ceremonial Yoni Massage Practitioner Certification beginning October 2026.

This is for the woman who knows she's here to facilitate profound healing, transformation and reclamation for other women.

Apply here:
https://thewildfem.com/priestess

READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Come play with me on Instagram :⁠ ⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

Everyone keeps telling women the same thing...

✨ Be more receptive.
✨ Open your feminine energy.
✨ Heal your money blocks.
✨ Do another embodiment course.

And apparently the money will magically arrive.

I call BS.

In this episode, I'm exposing the feminine wealth lies keeping women stuck in endless healing, endless self-development, and making absolutely no more money.

Because most women don't have a feminine energy problem.

They have a business problem.

I'm diving into:

🔥 Why "healing yourself" can become the sneakiest form of self-sabotage

🔥 The victim mindset that keeps you consuming instead of creating

🔥 The uncomfortable truth about charging £100 and expecting luxury-level income

🔥 The business skills, messaging, & visibility gaps most spiritual women refuse to look at

🔥 Why your soul work might be far bigger, bolder, and more powerful than you're allowing it to be

This episode is your permission slip to stop fixing yourself and start building something that actually creates wealth.

👇 JOIN UNDERWORLD (FREE)

A LIVE online experience for women ready to go beneath surface-level healing and create an offer they can charge thousands for.

We'll cover:
⚡ Business skills for spiritual women
⚡ EXPLODING your soul business, impact & wealth
⚡ Expanding beyond playing small with your gifts

June 10th | 4pm UK - FREE online, replay available.

Join here:
https://thewildfem.com/underworld

READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Come play with me on Instagram :⁠ ⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message ⁠HERE ⁠or email [email protected] 

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

You’ve been serving clients, growing your healing business & changing lives …

You KNOW you’re a Priestess - you’re here to hold women in deep transformation

& you’re DONE squeezing your magic into a Zoom room

& you’re TOTALLY done with trying to replace your day job income with £30 workshops that just can’t pay your bills …

- you’re ready to TOUCH her tissues, to do something AI can never do!

You want to SERVE - not wear a mask & go to a job you don’t care about!

THIS is the deep offering your soul work has been waiting for.

THIS EPISODE IS:A behind-the-veil look at the life-changing journey your clients experience when you step into this priestess-level bodywork

& my brand new 3-month training that certifies you in my unique hybrid trauma-informed ceremonial yoni massage methodWant to apply to hold women's bodies in this way?

My group training is OPEN

& we have VERY limited spaces for 6 women ONLY! (1 spot already gone)

Apply for more information & to have a FREE 1-hour call to see if this is the next aligned step in your soul business ...

Just send me a DM on Instagram - HERE

or email [email protected]

READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Come play with me on Instagram :⁠ ⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

The cervix — the holy donut at the end of the universe… the Oz behind the curtain

💦 How she opens three times: bleeding, ovulation, birth — and why that matters for your power & prosperity

💦 The cervix as the portal to the unknown — the place where receiving becomes God-level

💦 Cervical orgasms, the hype + why they demand total surrender of the mind (and what that has to do with abundance)

💦 The way she moves upward during penetration to create space — your body literally rearranging itself for pleasure

💦 Her connection to the vagus nerve — the deepest root of relaxation, voice, safety, and truth

💦 Root chakra imprints + material safety wounds held in the cervix

💦 Why softening her through awareness or massage opens the whole body to receive more… pleasure, love, wealth💦 Safety = relaxation — knowing your arousal, your boundaries, your timing, your YES and your NO

If you want to reclaim your cervix as a sacred power center for wealth, expression, and embodied sovereignty

… this one’s a must-listen. 💦🔥

READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? .. 

⁠🍯 WISE NECTAR:⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ - Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁 FREE GOODIES⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Come play with me on Instagram : 

⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message HERE or email [email protected] 

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

Alixe Van Ogtrop is a Psychotherapist & Shamanic Guide.

Through a powerful PTSD experience, Alixe become a neuro-psychotherapist, bringing a deeper understanding of trauma, anxiety, and healing.Today we talk about ..- overcoming the victim (there are no victims, trauma happens for us) - The secret weapon against patriarchy that nobody is talking about: PLEASURE- the patriarchy within: "the voice that says you're not enough" & how do we dismantle it- the dark masculine (the men that grab & take) - & how it also exists within us & blocks us from holding ourself as women- Alixe's story of birthing 2 daughters & how birth has been taken over by Patriacrchy tooConnect with Alixe:

- Join her retreats & work with here 1-1 here: https://www.alixevanogtrop.com/

- Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alixevanogtrop/

READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? .. 

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Come play with me on Instagram :⁠ ⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message ⁠HERE ⁠or email [email protected] 

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

The wild, messy, holy truth about one year of living in Spain & being married … & why I genuinely thought I wasn’t going to survive the initiation.

🔥 The ache of starting over: money wobbles, foreign friendship, language barriers, relationship tests — & the part of me that wanted to run back to the UK comfort.

🔥 Hitting my “good girl” ceiling… & the self-sabotage that almost won.🔥 The moment I got DONE with my own complaining and hired support — how that cracked open my first £15k month

🔥 Victim consciousness: the brutal, beautiful wake-up call that forced me to stop worshipping lack & finally see how GOOD it already is

🔥 One year of marriage: the boundaries, the structure, the sacred agreements that saved us

🔥 The unexpected questions: motherhood? Why it has been my biggest trigger… & why, for the first time, something in me is softening open.

SO YOU'RE READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K .. 

⁠🍯 WISE NECTAR:⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ - Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁 FREE GOODIES⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

Come play with me on Instagram : 

⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠

WANT TO HOLD WOMEN HOME TO THE MOST SACRED PART OF THEM & DELIVER YONI MASSAGE: Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message HERE

or email [email protected] 

Yes love. You read it correctly.

That's my job .. to help women rewrite the pain, shame & trauma of their past by holding their most sacred body part in my unique ceremonial trauma-informed yoni massage sessions.

& today ... You're getting all the juice of what I've learned from holding more than 75 women back to feeling safe in their feminine anatomy.

I am sharing ...

• Why women can't ask for more when we don’t realize how good, slow, sacred, and SAFE it gets to be — until our body finally feels it…

• Aftercare is non-negotiable & how you can do this at home

• Trauma work doesn’t have to be heavy. It can be light, slow, grounded, deeply regulated. … rewiring without the theatrics of “big releases.”

• Can we truly bring women all the way home without physical pussy work? Or will there always be a missing layer — the one society (and even many facilitators) are too scared to touch?

WANT TO TRAIN WITH ME?

If you know you're meant to take women 10x deeper… then PRIESTESS, my trauma-informed ceremonial massage training , is calling you.
6 spots only — and one is already gone.

We begin in October 2026.

DM me on Instagram @thewildfemor email [email protected]

🔥 Let’s go where women have always deserved to go.

SO YOU'RE READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? .. 

⁠🍯 WISE NECTAR:⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ - Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁 FREE GOODIES⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

Come play with me on Instagram : 

⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠

🐈 How the feminine nervous system actually works… and the real medicine she’s been starving for.

🐈 The connection between your vagus nerve, stored sexual trauma, shame, and fear — and how to finally let your body exhale.

🐈 The 3 practices that rebuilt my safety in the bedroom from the inside out:

🐈 Yoni massage, oxytocin, and shadow work — my unapologetic holy trinity for liberating feminine sexuality at the root.

🐈 How these practices unravel the past you’ve been carrying… and reveal the woman you were always meant to become.

If you have been affected by trauma, or by the wave of news recently - Join our sisterhood community on Telegram inside THE NAUGHTY CORNER - Join here

WANT TO HOLD WOMEN HOME TO THE MOST SACRED PART OF THEM & DELIVER YONI MASSAGE: Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message HERE

or an email to [email protected]

SO YOU'RE READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K?HERE'S THE LINKS I MENTIONED .. 

⁠🍯 WISE NECTAR:⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ - Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁 FREE GOODIES⁠You know I love spoiling you.

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

Come play with me on Instagram : 

⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠

Woman, it's time to come out of the Witch closet! You’re Meant for More & You Know It!

You're meant for more than your day job - but you're putting on the mask & going to the 9-5 anyway because it feels safe You're done living a split personality (spiritual you vs society you) - but following your purpose feels terrifying! - What if your family reject you for wanting to be a healer?

- What if you get burned like the witches for offering your medicine?

- What if you loose your friends because you're too busy & successful or too "different"?You're meant for more .. you're here to heal, to hold, to help others with your soul work but you can't quite claim it .. You're a witch in hiding - so much creative power - so much wisdom from your own healing joruney -

You're ready to share - to serve, but you're stopping yourself - something is sabotaging your success You're ready to finally be the priestess, the leader - the witch you were born to be! INSIDE THIS EPISODE ...- Why feminine leadership feels so terrifying- How to move through the fear & activate your divine purpose- Why YOU are the one that breaks limits in your bloodline- & finally sets free the witches in your lineage who were stopped for sharing their medicineTHEY'VE TORN DOWN FEMININE LEADERS FOR CENTURIES ... DONT LET THEM GET YOU TOOThis episode is a PERMISSION SLIP & an invitation to step into your soul work without fear ...If you know THIS is for you

- you're ready to be supported to hold women into their own underworld & hold their deepest transforamtion -

PRIESTESS is for you,

my 3-month initiation into holding ceremonial trauma informed yoni massage

- message me on instagram HERE if you would like to know more with a no-pressure chat to get to know if this is the best next move in your soul work: https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/

SO YOU'RE READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K?HERE'S THE LINKS I MENTIONED .. 

⁠🍯 WISE NECTAR:⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension 

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom) 

💦⁠ TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ - Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.  

⁠🎁 HOT & FREE - You know I love spoiling you.

Stay wet, Stay worthy - Loce Charlotte xxx

Come play with me on Instagram : 

⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠

How would it feel to confess what you have in your bank account?

- Do you think someone will want to take it from you? - Do you feel ashamed of how “little” there is … that you think you should be further along? IN THIS EPISODE:

💋 Awakening Rich Witch energy: the woman who earns through devotion, pleasure & her Feminine Work.
💋 Breaking generational chains without the STRUGGLE, without the burnout, without the hustle.
💋 Becoming the first in your lineage to make money from your soul… & passing ease, mission & freedom to the women who come after you in your bloodline.
💋 My personal dark feminine wealth rituals: — & what it unlocked in my nervous system.
💋 The behind-the-scenes of offering yoni massage in my business & how it changed the entire architecture of my income.
💋 The moment my monthly income became my weekly income … not because I worked more, but because I served deeper.
💋 The energetic codes you receive when you let your erotic nature support you financially

This episode is a reclamation of the witch, the medicine woman who is PAID not burned for her soul work.
If you’re ready to rewrite the story of money from the root of your body… press play. 🔥

> FREEBIES & WAYS TO GET STARTED

Access the womb money magic practice inside WISE NECTAR here

> WANT TO OFFER YONI MASSAGE TO YOUR COMMUNITY? Find out about my PRIESTESS training by sending me a DM on Instagram HERE

JOIN MY FREE TELEGRAM GROUP for juicy bonus audios, practices & sisterhood chats - Join The Naughty Corner

With love,

Charlotte xx