What happens when love meets change? In this episode we explore the unique challenges and strengths of queer and gender diverse relationships, especially when one partner is transitioning. Therapist Jani Forest Wyatt joins me to unpack the myths, the moments of growth, and the importance of inclusive and affirming couples therapy.

Jani shares insights from both professional and personal experience, from working with Gottman informed couples therapy to challenging stigma in broader social systems. This one’s thoughtful, grounding and full of truth bombs that might change how you think about love, identity and connection.

Key takeaways:

• How Jani’s early experiences shaped her path to supporting transgender clients
• What Gottman informed therapy looks like when working with queer couples
• The unique stressors queer and trans couples face in therapy
• Myths about relationships “not lasting” after a partner transitions
• The impact of societal judgement on trans individuals and their relationships
• Why acceptance and emotional safety are key to relationship success
• How clinicians can better support trans clients in intimate relationships
• The power of personal motivation in shaping professional practice

Resources:

• The Gottman Institute
• Australian Association of Social Workers
• Rainbow Health Australia

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