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when life gets hard, remain soft.


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life has been throwing me so many hurdles this year in general but more specifically the past couple of months. through these challenges, i noticed myself becoming numb, lacking empathy and kindness to myself + even to others. as well as being defensive and expecting the worse. while this perspective and practice slowly and discreetly became habitual, my body + nervous system noticed the shift in energy— low energy, pessimistic and just an overall lack of recognition in self. so, i decided it was time for a change. i literally remember saying to myself— i can't live like this anymore.


without knowing exactly how but sure that i would shift my energy to an elevated state where it was once before, i began to be more intentional with my thoughts, energy and time (implementing more journaling, meditation, movement + solitude). the other day during a journaling sesh, the following words were written so effortlessly: when life gets hard, remain soft. remain human. remain sensitive. remain kind. remain creative. remain open-hearted. remain optimistic. remain empathetic.


the answers i didn't even realize i was searching for came to me... just like that. ever since this moment, i've been making it a priority to practice softness. sensitivity. kindness. creativity. and optimism. this practice (like any) takes time but i have to admit, i feel so much lighter + so much more connected to source energy. my hope is that if you're feeling out of alignment with spirit + with self, this message will allow you to feel more connected to divine as well.


i love you.


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