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Last week, we talked about when one partner wants to be in the Lifestyle more than the other, and Chad came on the show to share his perspective (thanks Chad!). And it's an important topic. People can say that you need to be on the same page, and while yes, I agree, it's also unrealistic to expect both people to want the same thing, the same amount, for the entirety of your relationship. So there are going to be times when one person wants it more. 
This week, Jo talks about reasons why one person may want to be in the LS more than the other. And she talks about how to talk about it when you're not on the same page. Effective communication is the key, but it's also a skill that takes time, so if you don't know HOW to communicate effectively, it's going to be damned near impossible to get on the same page.

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