This week, in episode 29, Kayla Lords hosts with a question: Why do subs have such a hard time accepting help from our Dominants? The question comes straight from a listener, and for once, Kayla doesn’t have a firm answer, but plenty of theories.

In this episode:

* A listener asks: why is so hard to accept help and care from our Dominants when that’s what we say we want?

* Kayla has experienced the same issue many times.

* The first time was in the kitchen.

* There are plenty of reasons it might happen.

* Do submissives feel like a burden?

* Is it because we don’t think we’re worthy of the help?

* Is it leftover from years of being taught to be independent and not rely on anyone?

* Are we dealing something else?

* To move past an unwillingness to accept help takes time and a willingness to let our Dominant lead.

* Kayla asks for feedback and opinions of listeners about why they think submissives do this.

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You’re listening to Loving BDSM podcast: episode 29. Hey, everybody. Kayla Lords here. Today’s topic comes straight from a listener and it’s a question that I think affects most submissives: why do we have such a hard time accepting help from our Dominants? Welcome to the Loving BDSM podcast. If this is your first time listening, glad to have you! If you’re back for another week, welcome back! Loving BDSM is produced every Friday for your kinky pleasure and education and show notes are found at kaylalords.com. Come back often and feel free to add the podcast to your favorite RSS feed or iTunes. If you love what you hear, we’d love a good review on iTunes to help other kinksters find us! You can follow me on Twitter @KaylaLords or stalk John Brownstone at southernsirsplace.com. All links are in the show notes.

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