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Why Is It Easier to Solve Other People's Problems?


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Why are the solutions to other people's problems so easy, while our own problems seem so much harder? Turns out this phenomenon is real, and even has a name: "Solomon's Paradox."

In this episode we discuss how distance from a situation gives us clearer perspective, and how we might transfer that clarity to the problems in our own lives.

Amy and Margaret discuss:

  • Why it's easier to see other people's situations more clearly than our own
  • Why it's easier for us to see what our kids need to do in sticky situations than for them to see it
  • Why we sometimes may not be solving other people's problems as well as we thought
  • How to apply the wisdom we bring friends' issues to our own situations

  • Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

    • Kean Poon: "Hot and Cool Executive Functions in Adolescence: Development and Contributions to Important Developmental Outcomes" from Frontiers in Psychology Journal
    • Maggy Elsousou for Medium: "Why It’s So Much Easier To Solve Other People’s Problems Than Your Own"
    • Jeannie Ngoc Boulware for University of Chicago: "Conversations on Wisdom: Igor Grossmann"
    • Anne Lamott TED Talk: "12 Truths I Learned from Life and Writing"
    • Caeleigh MacNeil for Asana: "How the sunk cost fallacy influences our decisions"
    • Grossman and Kross: "Exploring Solomon's Paradox: Self-Distancing Eliminates the Self-Other Asymmetry in Wise Reasoning About Close Relationships in Younger and Older Adults" in Psychological Science

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