January 16, 2026

Why Most People Aren’t Attracted to What’s Good for Them, ft. Leading matchmaker

1 hour 32 minutes

In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik, MD welcomes Dr. Frankie Bashan, a clinical psychologist, board-certified sex therapist, and matchmaker, to unpack the complexities of modern dating, attachment styles, and lasting love. Together, they explore psychological patterns that sabotage relationships, the impact of dating apps and unrealistic expectations, and how to navigate kinks, fantasies, and communication in intimate partnerships. Listeners will discover science-based insights and actionable advice for finding meaningful connections, improving their love lives, and embracing sexual exploration.

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▶️Chapters:

00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:42 Psychology meets matchmaking

00:06:15 Modern dating challenges

00:12:08 Masculinity, femininity & relationships

00:23:35 Sexual fluidity explained

00:27:52 Dating apps vs. real connections

00:40:27 Sex surrogates overview

00:51:40 Exploring non-monogamy trends

00:55:54 Navigating sexual kinks

01:05:04 Anal sex tips

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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death.

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