November 14, 2025

Why Sex Can Feel Both Disgusting and Pleasurable ft. Dr. Charmaine Borg

1 hour 22 minutes

In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik, MD sits down with clinical psychologist and sexologist Dr. Charmaine Borg to explore the intriguing relationship between disgust and sexual arousal. They discuss why certain body parts and fluids can elicit conflicting reactions, strategies for overcoming sexual discomfort, and how intimacy impacts sleep and overall well-being. Listeners will gain evidence-based insights on navigating the complexities of sexual relationships and fostering deeper connection with their partners.

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▶️Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

00:40 Disgust and Sexual Arousal Paradox

03:28 Transition from Attraction to Disgust

07:43 The "Ick" Factor in Relationships

11:57 Strategies to Overcome Disgust

25:19 Disgust and Self-Defense Bracelet

36:33 Self-Disgust and Mental Contamination

45:57 Sex, Playfulness, and Relationship Pressure

46:32 Orgasms, Pain, and Sleep

58:15 Intimacy, Connection, and Longevity

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