Coach Lee explains why the dumper often acts so cold, mean, and heartless after a breakup. It is important that you understand your ex if you want them back. If you don't want your ex back, then it doesn't matter and you can just move on, but if you do, understanding how they feel and why they do what they do can be extremely helpful. This is especially true if your ex is being cold and mean. Coach Lee discusses this and more in this powerful podcast.