The Art of Raising Humans

Why Trying to Control Your Teen Doesn’t Work—And What to Do Instead (Episode 169)


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In this episode, we dive into what’s really going on inside your teenager’s brain and why trying to control them often backfires. From brain development to boundary-pushing, we unpack the science and the heart behind teen behavior.

 

You’ll learn 5 practical, connection-focused strategies that help you guide your teen without gripping tighter. Because the goal isn’t control, it’s trust.

 

Topics we cover:

  • What brain changes are driving your teen’s behavior
  • Why teens push back (and why that’s healthy)
  • Common fears parents face during the teen years
  • Why control erodes trust
  • 5 connection-based strategies that work better than control

 

It’s not about control. It’s about building trust while staying connected.

 

View the full podcast transcript at: 

https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/why-trying-to-control-your-teen-doesnt-work-and-what-to-do-instead.

 

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