This Complex Life

Why We Avoid Talking About Sex (And How to Start)


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Why We Avoid Talking About S3x (And How to Start)

Conversations about sex often feel awkward, avoidant or emotionally loaded. I talk about what’s happening underneath the surface, how gender myths and pressure shape desire, and what couples can do to reconnect with honesty and care.


In this episode, I share :

  • How emotional safety shapes intimacy
  • What’s really behind avoidance in long-term relationships
  • Gender myths and pressure in sexual desire
  • Why non-sexual connection matters
  • How to talk about sex without shame or fear
  • When therapy might help

Resources

  • Gottman Love Deck App: gottman.com/couples/apps
  • Relationship Refresh Course: https://marievakakis.com.au/courses/relationship-refresh/ 
  • Therapy Hub: thetherapyhub.com.au
  • Not Having Enough Sex in Your Relationship?https://marievakakis.com.au/not-having-enough-sex-in-your-relationship/  
  • FREE  resource to help you talk about sex, desire and connection https://marie-vakakis.mykajabi.com/pl/2148681133 


Connected Teens

https://marievakakis.com.au/connected-teens/


Connect with Marie

https://thetherapyhub.com.au/

https://marievakakis.com.au/

https://www.instagram.com/marievakakis/


Submit a question to the Podcast

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Mentioned in this episode:

Join me live Jan 28th for the Relationship New Year Reset

https://marievakakis.com.au/relationship-new-year-reset-2026/

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