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Most couples don’t get stuck because they argue too much—they get stuck because repair never fully happens.

In this episode, we start with a familiar story: a couple caught in the same end-of-day conflict that looks like it’s about dinner, help, or logistics. But beneath that moment is something far more important—two partners reaching for connection in completely different ways, and missing each other every time.

From there, we shift the focus to repair: what it actually is, why it matters more than resolving the content of a fight, and why so many well-intentioned couples struggle to do it. Repair isn’t about fixing the problem, multitasking better, or saying the “right” thing. It’s about slowing down enough to name the emotional bind underneath the conflict and tending to the story each partner is living inside of.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why unresolved repair—not conflict—is what erodes connection over time
• How attachment histories shape what repair needs to look like for each partner
• What real repair requires: attunement, vulnerability, humility, and grace
• How naming the bind can soften the cycle and open the door back to each other

If you and your partner keep circling the same arguments and wondering why nothing ever truly feels resolved, this episode offers a different path forward—one where repair becomes the foundation for trust, safety, and lasting connection.

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