Congruent with Lisa Carpenter | The truth beneath success. Why it never feels like enough.

Why Your Self-Criticism Might Actually Be Your Secret Weapon


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Welcome to another powerful episode of the Full Frontal Living Podcast with Lisa Carpenter! In episode 307, Lisa invites listeners to explore the depth of their inner world with the timeless fable of the two wolves, drawing on her own journey and her extensive coaching experience.

Lisa shares both the classic and extended versions of the "Two Wolves" fable, unpacking how this story relates to our daily choices, emotions, and personal growth. Instead of seeing the “Dark Wolf” (our challenges, doubts, and tough emotions) as something to ignore, Lisa encourages us to acknowledge and understand both our dark and light sides. Ultimately, this episode is a powerful reminder that we all possess the incredible power to choose which parts of ourselves we nurture—but also how much richer life can be when we accept and learn from all of our internal experiences.


Key Highlights:

  • You Always Have a Choice: Lisa reminds us that the life we’re living is the result of countless choices, both conscious and unconscious. Where we put our attention and energy—whether it’s on positivity and growth or on negative thought loops—shapes our experience and outcomes.
  • Beyond “Good” and “Bad” Sides: The extended version of the Two Wolves fable reveals that both our dark and light sides have gifts to offer. Instead of starving one side, we’re invited to feed both, gaining courage, tenacity, compassion, and self-compassion in the process.
  • Embracing All of Yourself: Lisa models how to integrate, value, and lovingly acknowledge every part of who we are—including the parts we often try to hide or suppress. This acceptance is where true peace, ease, and fulfillment are found.
  • The Power to Change Your Story: Suffering and struggle may seem like our default settings, but by choosing to focus on what we want to create (rather than what we wish to avoid), we empower ourselves to change—and truly thrive.
  • Real Transformation: Lisa’s episode is not just theory; she shares personal examples and client experiences that show just how much is possible when we honor all of ourselves, create new habits, and choose courage over comfort.

  • This episode is more than just a story; it’s about the freedom that comes when you realize your power to choose and start integrating all parts of yourself. Lisa encourages you to reflect: How can you nurture both your dark and light wolves—and what could become possible if you do?

    Grab your earbuds, get cozy (or go out on a walk!), and let Lisa guide you to greater self-understanding and empowerment.

     

    Resources:

    To learn about Lisa’s transformative "Reclamation" program, visit LisaCarpenter.ca/Reclamation

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