Productivity advice rarely works for ADHD brains, not because you're lazy or undisciplined, but because most systems are built for neurotypical consistency.

In this episode of Adulting with ADHD, Sarah talks with Robert Simms, founder of Embodied Resilience Wellness Clinic, registered social worker, Indigenous practitioner, and neurodivergent adult, about designing home and money systems that actually work with your brain, not against it.

Robert shares how discovering his own neurodivergence later in life reshaped how he approaches routines, finances, and daily structure. Instead of relying on motivation, discipline, or "just try harder," he explains how neuro affirming systems focus on variability, interest, energy fluctuations, and external supports.

They explore why traditional productivity advice often fails ADHD adults, and how small environmental tweaks, not willpower, create sustainable change.

In this episode, we talk about:

• What "neuro affirming" actually means in daily life

• Why consistency doesn't work the way we think it should

• Externalizing executive function with reminders, automation, and visual cues

• Removing shame and guilt from missed tasks and imperfect follow through

• Designing systems around strengths like hyperfocus and pattern recognition

• Why "inconsistently consistent" is a realistic goal

Robert also shares practical home and money hacks, including:

• Set it and forget it bill automation when financially safe to do so

• Simplifying bank accounts and credit cards to reduce overwhelm

• Creating small financial buffers for predictable emergencies

• Using visible, contained systems for everyday items like keys, wallets, and kids' clutter

• The five minute rule for task initiation

• Rotating routines instead of abandoning them when interest drops

One of the most powerful reframes in this conversation: your home should function like an accommodation. If the outside world isn't built for your brain, your personal systems can be.

Neuro affirming systems are not about doing more. They are about building support structures that match how your brain actually works, with flexibility, compassion, and less shame.

Resources mentioned:

Embodied Resilience Wellness Clinic – www.embodiedresilience.ca

Robert's weekly YouTube live series, "All Things Neurodivergence"

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