Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coaching for Survivors

Today at QueenBeeing.com, we're talking about hoovering and how you can deal with it.

So what is hoovering, anyway?

The "hoovering" technique was named after the famous vacuum cleaner company, and it's one of many common manipulation tactics employed by abusive, toxic narcissists.

This is when a narcissist sort of "sucks" his victim back into the relationship, or some version of it. It often begins innocently enopugh, sort of subtly, but it always happens with one target - to regain control.

Hoovering usually begins after the devalue and discard phases, when the silent treatment has stopped giving the narcissist pleasure, and when he's ready for more of the supply you've been feeding him all these months or years. Or, it'll start when you've left the narcissist and he fears you won't return.

The idea is that the narcissist needs to reestablish contact with you in order to get the narcissistic supply you're so good at providing. In this video, I'll explain more about hoovering, as well as offering you a ten-step plan to resist it like a pro. You can do this, and I'm here to help you get your head (and heart) in the right place. No one deserves narcissistic abuse - isn't it time you took back your life?

Learn more at http://queenbeeing.com. Get my books at http://booksangiewrote.com and pick up your free 5-day fear-busting email course (especially designed for narcissistic abuse survivors) at http://narcissismsupportcoach.com.

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