Diary of a Midlife Woman

10. What Shoes Do I Wear With That?


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You work hard to put together a fabulous outfit but then – yikes – what shoes do you wear with it? Your shoes matter! They aren’t just something you throw on at the last minute without any consideration. No, shoes need to be carefully thought out. The right shoe will pull together your entire outfit, punctuate your look and put your own personal stamp on your style. When you get it wrong, however, you’ll feel as if something’s out of whack, not to mention have aching feet at the end of the day. Here are my best tips for choosing the right shoes for any outfit: 1/ Occasion – First, determine what you’ll be doing. Going to work, traveling, special event, etc. The occasion will determine what style of shoes you need. 2/ Functionality – Will you be walking long distances or sitting down? If you’re touring a new town, running errands or showing homes, choosing something that is comfortable, broken yet looks polished will be your best bet. Leave the heels at home! 3/ Color – Bookending with your haircolor will always give you a balanced look. If your coloring is light, beware of black shoes that can make you look visually bottom heavy. Neutrals/Metallics are the new black. 4/ Shape – Ever wondered why you always gravitate towards a round toe and a pointy toe makes you feel weird? It’s influenced by your face shape! 5/ Style – Your shoes set the tone for your style, so choose wisely. If you’re more dramatic, your shoes will tend to be more avant garde and unique. If you’re more sporty, your shoes are ready for movement and comfort. Never wear shoes that you feel wear you. 6/ Weight – I’m not talking about your weight, I’m talking about the visual weight of your shoe. Is it delicate? Or is it clunky. Does it create balance with your look? Or does it throw you off? 7/ Matchy-matchy, contrast or statement – The old way of thinking is to be very matchy- matchy, i.e. navy pumps with a navy outfit. However, in this day and age you want to provide more contrast but one that feels natural. Instead of wearing head to toe black, choose leopard print, red or a metallic. Don’t be afraid to step out of the box and mix colors in a new way. 9/ Ankles/Calves – if you have heavier ankles or calves, avoid any kind of ankle strap as it will cut you off. Choose shoes that are more open and create length. With skinny ankles, choose higher shoes/booties that add width to your ankles/calves. 10/ Hem length – the hem length of your pants/skirt will influence your shoes. Pair an ankle pant with a flat, a heel or a wedge or a bootie that creates balance.

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