Time the body needs to transition, meet needs, rest and recover is NOT wasted time! I don't know that it's even possible to "waste time" outside of ableist capitalist structures.

If you still have ableist thoughts, that's okay. We all do! It's worth resting anyway.

Resources mentioned:

1. Neuraluxe's post about parentification
2. Car fundraiser for DV survivor (my sibling)
3. When your abuser threatens suicide article

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1. Transcript Doc
2. Email Newsletter: Nothing Wrong With Us
3. Like Your Brain community space (Patreon)

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