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102. From Childhood Trauma and Addiction to Plant Medicine Healing With Lana Shay


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In this episode of Open Late Podcast, Jessica sits down and has a conversation with Lana Shay, author of "Erotic Hustle." Together, they explore the fascinating parallels in their lives, discovering that their paths may have crossed in the past during their time working in the vibrant nightlife of Las Vegas. Reflecting on their respective journeys, Jessica and Lana dive into their experiences with psychedelics and the profound transformations these substances have brought to their lives. Lana shares her personal story, including her past marriage and the unexpected twists and turns that led her to living in the jungle in Costa Rica!

In this episode of Open Late:

  • Finding freedom after challenging relationships
  • Holistic living and natural remedies
  • Transformative effects of plant medicine 
  • Living in the jungle of Costa Rica 
  • Nurturing societal conditioning of women 
  • Connect with Lana Shay:

    • Instagram: @iamlanashay

    • Book: Erotic Hustle: Redefining Sin through Sacred Sexuality & Psychedelics

    • Website:https://lanashay.com/

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    • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast

    • Website: openlatepodcast.com 

    • YouTube: Open Late Podcast

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    Quotes from the episode:

    9:10  I was in a very toxic relationship and pretty devoted to this guy really not knowing what my own wants and desires were. Shortly after I found out that that guy was totally leading a double life for almost three years and had a pretty serious sex addiction. – Jessica Esfandiary

    12:24 You need to stop resisting and fighting your desire to be in a relationship. - Lana Shay

    14:03 There was a moment where I wanted I had this deep desire to have a child with him and I realized it was simply because I wanted to heal him. I wanted him to feel so deeply loved that someone wanted him to continue his legacy. – Lana Shay

    15:47 Women in general, as we're growing up, are very conditioned to tune ourselves to the energy of men and be in that nurturing, supportive, “how can I please you” role. – Jessica Esfandiary 

    24:40 I'm so healthy, all I care about is my health. And I'm preaching to people about holistic living while I have to down a bottle of Advil every month, I feel like such a fake. – Lana Shay

    28:34 Our body builds up a lot of toxins. We live in a pretty toxic environment, all the things we put in our bodies and on our skin, and then it's absorbed, not to mention the way that we think and the way that we speak to ourselves. – Jessica Esfandiary

    36:37 I was in Costa Rica, and people started leaving as covid started spreading. And they said the borders are closing, you either leave now or stay here. I was like “The world is finally ending and I am “stuck” in a paradise? I am not leaving!”. - Lana Shay

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