Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

#1043 - Forcing Kids to Apologise


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Should we be making our children apologise when they do the wrong thing? What does a sincere apology look like?

In this episode:

  • Parental Guidance (S1): “Forcing children to apologise is teaching children to lie”
  • Victim mentality
  • People pleasing
  • Ruptured relationships
  • The Parenting Revolution, by Dr Justin Coulson
  • Motivation Continuum - extrinsic, introjected, identified, integrated, intrinsic
  • Is It Wrong to Tell Kids to Apologize? | The Atlantic
  • Theory of Mind
  • Why do children apologise under coercion?
  • Feeling seen, heard, and valued
  • Repairing relationships
  • Why don't kids want to apologise?
  • 4 components of a sincere apology

Related links: 

  • Should we Force our Children to Say 'Sorry'
  • Carrots & Sticks: How Rewards and Punishments Hurt Our Kids, and What to do Instead [Webinar]

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