UFC fighter "The Spaniard" and lifelong wrestler, Charlie grew up in normal circumstances. As he puts it "I'm just like you," he didn't have to overcome a great deprivation or trauma, he just worked hard and went on to great successes. Brenneman dispels the myth that you must follow a Rocky type trajectory to compete with the best. Instead he shares the simple steps he took, including surrounding himself with good mentors and Consistency. He arrived by realizing that in a sport like wrestling in which "heartbreak far outweighs the triumph" the journey is what matters. Lessons: 1. Being in a normal family that provides good core values and a supportive environment is an underestimated advantage. It doesn't take extraordinary circumstances to do extraordinary things. 2. Every opportunity, no matter how small, counts. Things add up. 3. If you don't move the proverbial line in the sand, you're never going to get best.